@haalaphrodyke x.com/i/status/18004… then why are you larping as a cis woman here?
Haala ⚢@haalaphrodyke
@EPM106 Can I be in there despite being a cis woman?
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OctoAlgo
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all the cis "allies" in the replies saying there's nothing wrong with referring to trans women as men when talking about their past just goes to show how most cis people have never talked to or befriended a single trans woman their whole lives
Haala ⚢@haalaphrodyke
casual transphobia by cis youtubers talking about the matrix like it's still 2021
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@michuk78 @VERYKOOLLUKEY @mainledger You see, whats funny is OP knew this all along and deliberately called it a country anyway, anybody with half a brain knows this...
Can you figure out why?
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado We are kinda circling, so nothing I can add that I haven't already said. Dismissing everything with "I can't" or "no" is an easy cope. Get behind your insecurities and affirm yourself in your identity, whatever that is or ends up being.
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado I get the problem. Ofc i don't experience it, but telling you to stop caring so much how others perceive you and instead focus on yourself is not an attack. I'm not saying become a man. I am saying become someone that doesn't care as much what others think.
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado yeah sorry that was kinda uncalled for im just a little frustrated you seem unable to get the problem
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado Never said conform. I said you gotta care less what people think. But you loooove making me say things that I didn't.
Also, you have no clue about my friend, so kindly shut the fuck up about them. Fuck you.
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado pretty shitty of your to think what your friend wouldve wanted is not for everyone to be able to be who they want and instead for the people who arent who theyre meant to be to instead just stop and conform
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado Sure you do. And surely then everyone will percieve you as you want and there will be no more things from your past around.
I have seen it happen before, and I have lost a friend to it.
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado uh
no?
no i have a pretty good idea of what i will be happy with
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado No matter what you change, you will always be unhappy with it. So the change has to come from the mind, not your body.
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado Yeah, because there is no fix. Because that problem is in your mind and not your body
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado I thought you were so firm in being you, a woman. What happened to that?
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado youre either you or youre not well ok im not then
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado Then you already know the answer.
Focus on getting rid of the people that hate you? Why sit around crying on twitter when you could actually be doing something against it.
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado how it one meant to get away from ones parents if they live with each other
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado I hate how you exaggerate and twist everything I say. Did I say buy a house?? Also wdym "fully you"? Either you are you or not. Surround yourself with people that actually care about you and cut haters out of your life. Learned helplessness or just attention whore atp
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado so your solution is just
go buy a house somewhere and never ever talk to anyone until im fully me
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado I gave you a second solution that you absolutely ignored because you are sperging about me telling you to block people. Also yes. You can ABSOLUTELY stonewall people IRL. You are only bound to your parents till 18, so unless you're a minor that should be settled.
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado my sisters my brothers the people who live near me the random people i see at the shops ill just use the handy block function
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado If you want TOTAL control of what other people call you, then all there is left is blocking everyone that disagrees with you.
And since you probably don't want that, try caring less about others and what they think of you, since only you know who you are
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado i want to be perceived as a girl because that is what i am how is that hard to follow
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado No. If it was obvious to me I wouldn't have asked. I can do the mental gymnastics for the internal stuff, I can get behind wanting to change, etc. etc. But as soon as it involves others I cannot follow. I think your actual problem is just caring too much what others think
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@mariisme68 @DenjiNHado Yeah, you're a victim of your own mind. You're trans, you literally did what you wanted to do but you're still unhappy? What's the end goal? Do you want people to validate you? To re-affirm you in being a woman? Why care about others AT ALL if you're so secure in what you are?
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@OctoAlgo @DenjiNHado not everyone has the privilege of being happy as what they were born as
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@DenjiNHado nobody actually sees me for me they just see me for what i used to be stuck as
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