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@NFL_DovKleiman Just a personal observation: if you see someone wearing sunglasses inside, there's a 99.99% that person is an ass. The .01% are people who are like Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles, ... This could even be a scientific fact.

Insane: Kevin Hart had to break up a fight between Gronk and Logan Paul at the flag football press conference. "I'm gonna beat your a** and all your brothers a**'s." These two truly hate each other...🫣😳

Maybe you should join the Marines. You'll learn to be an hour early and learn how to deal with actual difficult situations. Imagine a woman who would take it out on her husband because he expected her to be on time, and she got pissed off at him because she couldn't decide what outfit to wear. That husband is in for a life of misery. If you get that angry over a wrong outfit, what are you like when things really go wrong? Marriage is hard, about compromise and going with the flow. You're not meant to be a wife or mother, certainly not without significant self-reflection and change. Maybe you should stop dating for now and take the time to learn to be a decent, caring, and adaptable person.

Now it’s both of our problems

I have a friend who's a billionaire. Lives on the top two floors of a Park Avenue building. He has no idea how much milk costs, electricity costs... He pays for two car spots (I think he bought them) in his building, so no one can park next to him. He doesn't pay after dinner at the top restaurants he frequents. Has no idea what the dinner cost is, doesn't calculate the tip... They just send his assistant the bill every month. Has Goldman and others as his wealth advisors. So, you wouldn't date him because he can't calculate the tip, doesn't do math, and doesn't make even one investment on his own?

@MurrayHillGuy1 If a man can’t calculate a tip why would I want him as my financial advisor (husband)

My female friend (@raqisright) broke up with the last guy she was seeing because she got “the ick” from him using his calculator for a tip Made me think… what is the weirdest reason you’ve broken up with someone?

Where do you come up with your BS? My friends use to joke about one of our friends that looked like Kermit the Frog. He’s been happily married with two kids for 20+ years. His wife looks like Claudia Schiffer. David Spade also said it best. Any guy could date a 10 model if he cared enough to listen to her. It’s just about having access to 10 level models. If you put a sincere, caring, cool Orangutan in a room with a gorgeous woman for a period of time, she would fall in love with him. You’re talking about getting a woman to have sex with you as quickly as possible. The quality men are looking for the diamond that lasts forever. It’s the George Harrison song, “Got My Mind Set On You.” You’re not in it for the right reasons of having a lifelong relationship, and that’s why your input on relationships is pathetic.

Allie misses the point big time on my critique of Blaine Anderson. First, plenty of girls go on dinner dates with guys they aren't into because it's free for them, they're bored, and want to eat somewhere nice. Unsure why Allie doesn't get this. Allie tries to portray Blaine's matchmaking as an innocuous form of set-ups, akin to a girl introducing a good guy friend to one of her female friends, "hey my friend john just moved to NYC; he's fantastic, and i think you guys might hit it off." The dynamic with Blaine is fundamentally different: -The women do not pay for Blaine's service while men pay an exorbitant fee -The women know that the men are paying a lot and also know that the men are rich -Blaine spends her time going on calls with these girls to convince them to go on a date with her male clients. This is mainly because these men are not attractive & had to turn to Blaine because they struck out IRL & on the apps -Blaine's fee structure, as stipulated on the legal contract (true for other matchmakers), is based on a certain # of first dates over a given time period. As long as these girls go on a first date with the guy, Blaine has done her job, regardless of the actual result or outcome -There is no refund of any kind for the male client; he also has to pay the entire amount upfront What this means is that the entire foundation of Blaine's matchmaking operation is a purely transactional one, as it sets up beautiful women with rich men they're not attracted to, in order to secure her fees while the women have the potential upside of locking down a rich man. Meanwhile, the men are mistakenly led to believe that Blaine's service is actually about finding them a genuine long-term partner (LOL) when in reality, the male clients are just suckers used to fund Blaine & her girls. Blaine & other matchmakers are thus unique businesses because their structure favors the NON PAYING women at the expense of actual PAYING clients. This is a perverse distortion of what a business should be; the matchmakers know this but have been able to get away with it.

Too funny. Well, just like men, there aren’t many 9+ women in looks that are entrepreneurs, doctors, PHDs, lawyers, MBAs, …. Here again you’re pushing getting over on women, instead of real men unlike you that are interested in real relationships and marriage. High quality, high value marriage material women are well above almost all women that are just a 9+ in looks. How many of your followers have been with 9+ women in any category of looks, intelligence, social status, successful career? I would guess close to zero. So, you and your loser following are trying to dictate real relationships to high quality men and women. You can’t. You’re not one. You have no idea how a high quality man thinks, acts, works, basically does anything in his life, and you don’t know how a high quality woman lives either.

The Blaine Anderson Challenge! Willing to bet a lot of money that not a single one of Blaine's male clients satisfies all of the following: -Got set up with a woman who is a legit 9+ in terms of looks -They had sex within the first 3 dates, as that is the true indicator of genuine attraction on the woman's part -They are or were in an exclusive romantic relationship for at least 1 year; during that time, the woman did not go on any other dates nor had sex with any other man @Graffitinights1 @FWPlayboy @MurrayHillGuy1

This was an interesting post in that it's all about "me". What does my husband not do, say, or provide for me? Where's the empathy? Where's the understanding? Where's the commitment to being with your significant other in good times and bad? Where is the love? I think the biggest failure of my generation is abysmal parenting. We raised selfish, what's in it for me, brats that have no patience, tolerance, and interest in building lasting relationships. We've raised our kids to jump ship on a dime. We used to make fun of and ridicule our parents' "tough love" and their discipline toward us. We have to be the worst generation of parents ever, bar none.

I interviewed 20 women who left their "perfect" relationships and asked what was really missing. Their answers were not what I expected. Not one mentioned money, romance, or even time together. Here is what they actually said…

@nkozyra @BenGoy4891 @WestsideLAGuy Do you ever buy your friends a beer? This is the same thing but on a different level. It's not that difficult to comprehend. If you have $ 100,000 in net worth, you buy the beer. If you have 500+ times that, you buy dinner.

@OneView01 @BenGoy4891 @WestsideLAGuy Arguing over who pays? Wow that's behavior only rich people exhibit! C'mon dude this is satire, right? It's gotta be a bit.

Yikes! Here’s what happened. Blaine Anderson convinced this girl to reluctantly go on the date with her client who paid MINIMUM $15K. The girl said, fuck it i’m not paying and it’s free drinks/meal. On the date the guy was excited because this girl would NEVER give him the time of day IRL or on apps. She nodded politely & smiled. He gave her a kiss on the cheek. When she got home she texted Blaine, “hey he’s a super nice successful guy but didn’t feel a romantic spark. I’m sure he’ll make an amazing husband to a lovely woman!” Blaine then breaks the bad news to her client. “hey keep your head up! most dates don’t work out! but great news is there’s so many more girls like her and if you pay $25K more to upgrade, i can get you 3 more dates of this caliber! oh one more thing: no refunds since i don’t control chemistry & attraction.” Hence Blaine’s ponzi scheme continues, preying on these men & not being held accountable for lack of actual results.

This early 50's billionaire (owns surgical centers) is a widower. He had a wonderful marriage and has one amazing kid who is a surgeon. He wants to have more kids. It took him about 6 months through a matchmaking service, but he's now dating a gorgeous, highly successful, well-educated (Master's degree) woman, 35 years old.

@OneView01 @erv78 @WestsideLAGuy Men in their 50’s who are extremely busy shouldn’t be having children still. That’s sheer vanity.

This early 50's billionaire is a widower. He had a wonderful marriage, and has one amazing kid who is a surgeon. He wants to have more kids. It took him about 6 months through a match making service, but he's now dating a gorgeous, highly successful, well educated (Masters degree) women 35 years old. A woman so refined a clown like you could never get a date with.

@OneView01 @WestsideLAGuy @FCC @BrendanCarrFCC So what you are saying is if a billionaire wants to date on his level, that means a woman 20 years younger, with some form of education, great looks, a career based on quotas for her gender and a sense of extreme entitlement. The "value" for her being his money. Sounds healthy.🤡

What Blaine Anderson & other matchmakers are doing is highly unethical and should be investigated by the @FCC @BrendanCarrFCC Blaine charges $15K+ for matchmaking services: setting up rich men with women who they cannot attract IRL or on apps. These women do NOT pay and hence see this as an opportunity to go on fancy dates and extract resources without having to give anything in return. After the dates, the girls tell Blaine "yeah he's a nice guy but not a romantic fit." Note that there is no refund for failure: the guys pay for a guaranteed number of first dates over a certain time period. If a guy has to pay this much money to go on dates, he has major problems he needs to address. The girls are NOT attracted to them. Blaine exploits this asymmetry, preys on the men's insecurities to make money.

@nkozyra @BenGoy4891 @WestsideLAGuy Too funny. In my circle of friends, we argue over wanting to pay for dinner. It's only broke dicks like you that try to get out of paying for a meal.

@OneView01 @BenGoy4891 @WestsideLAGuy Sounds like a giant losers club.

You're clueless. My friends have women in their twenties dying to date them. They're interested in settling down and having kids. They're interested in dating the top 1% of women in their 30's, extremely attractive, well educated, with successful careers, and socially graceful. Meaning, you know you could never date these women. So, you have to be arse and make fun of it. Grow up, dude.

@OneView01 @WestsideLAGuy Your divorced friends are rich, blue pilled schmucks. If it’s a deficiency in their looks, they can hire fitness coaches and trainers who will hold them accountable. Because who wants to pay several Gs 💰💰 to buy a hoe dinner and drinks? THINK! It’s the principles for me.

@Shay99087 @WestsideLAGuy @FCC @BrendanCarrFCC I guess it takes one to know one.

@OneView01 @WestsideLAGuy @FCC @BrendanCarrFCC it's called an escort service nigga

Says Erv. These men are my friends, and they're interested in getting married and having kids again. They're extremely busy. Some of them are accepted by these premier dating services at no fee, because they're still very good-looking in their 50's. They're too busy to scout around for extremely attractive, successful, educated women in their 30's who also want marriage and kids. Many of you can't even afford to pay for a woman's dinner. Please, if you want to see cringe, embarrassing, and pathetic, look in the mirror. Start treating women with respect, and grow up.

@OneView01 @WestsideLAGuy I can’t imagine how pathetic and low testosterone you have to be to pay $25-30k per year so you can find dates. This is cringe, embarrassing and downright pathetic.

Online male inmates are running the asylum, and the men with the greatest online presence are spreading this very negative and destructive psycho babble to their followers. Sincere dating is about finding that special person. Why would any man want a wife who had sex with him for a meal? These online male rodents are festering this hostility, and no group of Gen Z male leaders seems to be defending women and the objective to find the best person to marry as the key goal of dating. Step up, guys. Research shows 74% of married couples are happily married. Men and women have a 30-point increase in their happiness level when they're married. These insect men online, trying to gain a following and income, highlight the exception more than the rule. Marriage is a wonderful thing, get that through your minds. And if you want to achieve an even greater level of happiness and marriage, become spiritual (not religious) and find a woman who aligns/agrees with your spiritual mindset. 85% of couples who have spiritual alignment in marriage are happily married.

Thankfully I'm retired

I feel bad for this younger generation and all the bs people like you who are shitting out of your mouths about women, dating, marriage... If you want definitive research, not dumbass comments from clueless men and women online, you'll find roughly 75% of married men and women are happily married in the US today. With respect to being a happy person, married men are 30% points higher in living a happy life than single men. Stop talking about all this psychological manipulation and pure bs about how to disrespect women to get them and to keep them interested. Focus on becoming spiritual and finding a spiritual partner. And statistically, people who are spiritual and believe in something beyond themselves - The Universe, are close to 90% satisifed in their marriages. All your concerns about your money going away in a divorce or in an unhappy marriage go away if you're spiritual. Simple advice: pursue women in spiritual settings and find a woman who shares your same spiritual appreciation. You'll be happy for the rest of your life.

People always give me shit when I say successful men want to date girls that are also successful. Why? The data backs it up. If you make good money as a man you’re not dating the hot waitress or bartender. Youll be down to smash her but you’re not wifing her up.

Or maybe it's because these women are looking for love in all the wrong places and looking for love with all the wrong faces. Just look at your post, "hot, successful, and smart." Not one mention of kind, giving, spiritual, i.e., inner beauty. And with this lack of introspection, you end up looking for the 6'4", blue-eyed guy in finance with a trust fund. And your chance of being happy with that guy is close to zero. But, I'll bet you find happiness in a guy that's spiritual, Dad/husband qualities, loving qualities, kindness qualities... Two cents of advice to "hot, successful and smart women:" seek and find a spiritual partner, and you'll find happiness. And the bible is often right, paraphrasing: it's easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than it is to find your quality partner and soul mate who is super handsome, extremely wealthy - especially from generational wealth, genetically perfect with blue eyes, and has been handed everything based on his looks, background, ... That's fools gold. Seek real gold.

Everyone talks about male loneliness epidemic but no one talks about the hot, successful and smart girl who can’t find suitable partner cus dating in this day and age is equivalent to an involuntary check in at the mental hospital.

Well, I have a different perspective, having lived through a near-death experience, which was also a deep spiritual experience for me. I was an atheist for my entire life until I had this experience. I am always amazed at how many people with such a limited understanding of existence and the world think they're wiser and more aware than the Universe that has existed for over ten billion years. Evil people exist, which has nothing to do with your own path and spirituality. But that's just my two cents' worth.

@OneView01 @raqisright we live in a world run by pedos not sure how anyone can believe in any of the religions anymore

There are genuinely so few good men left. If he’s successful and attractive? He’s dating a 23 yr old model If he’s not? He resents successful women Women spent 4–8 years in school building careers, doing everything “right.” If a woman wants her equal in education and income, her options shrink fast (statistically relationships where a woman earns more fail) The manosphere is telling men to cheat, belittle women, and avoid commitment… Yet people wonder why women feel lost The uncomfortable truth? is that women leveled up and most men didn’t.