SSpeedmeal

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SSpeedmeal

SSpeedmeal

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شامل ہوئے Eylül 2024
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SSpeedmeal
SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@heretobotherr @lezzsoups Maybe that your forcing women to inadvertently date men when they very much dont want to. Its the same thing as one of those arranged marriages where people take no accounting of the womans opinion.
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Samir@heretobotherr·
@lezzsoups Can you explain how this is rape culture /genq
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SSpeedmeal
SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@nyaraVT And your identify as a woman yet you havent been cancelled for the same boundaries goes to prove deep down you will always be. A Man.
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nyara@nyaraVT·
Women in the VTuber community get cancelled for calling out misogyny and setting boundaries.. by men who protect rapists, pedophiles and groomers
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SSpeedmeal
SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@ArinChickInn Ill pray for your safety. That friend of your's probably has you walking on eggshells and thin ice. Hopefully it'll get better
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ArinChickInn@ArinChickInn·
My best friend has BPD. My best friend lives with me, I am her caretaker. BPD does not 'ruin' lives, she has improved my life in many ways and is a joy to be around. BPD is a coping mechanism that is caused by trauma. People with BPD had traumatic experiences and they only know how to deal with things in certain ways. There are ways to tell when someone is going to "blow up," which is called splitting. There are active signs and triggers, it's not just random and it isn't fair to demonize people with BPD. Those with BPD DO have the responsibility to tell those around them what those triggers are and how to help them when they're at an elevated emotional state. I've had great success with just telling my best friend the gray when she starts to see black and white. When people who have BPD are taken out of those situations where they're around the people who caused and those who trigger the BPD, they start to heal. It's a slow process that takes a lot of work and in most cases medication. But spreading that BPD is some horrible thing that makes the people who have it to be horrible people is just misinforming others. This sister/wife just sound like not so great people, it has nothing to do with the BPD. Most people who have BPD are not going to blame it for their negative actions
Emerald Apple@AI_EmeraldApple

Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder. It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD. They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged. People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves. They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim. They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off. She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife. Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her. The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be. The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral. The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to. TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.

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SSpeedmeal
SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@yukaaVT Have you considered getting treatment for the Bitch Personality Disorder
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yukaa 🌿🐾🦦 | otter vtuber
This is honestly the reason why I do not talk about my BPD diagnosis… For years the stigma on BPD has haunted every single person that has been diagnosed, that they’re this unlovable, unempathetic monster that will use and abuse you at any given moment for their own personal gain. Do you people know the amount of trauma a person has to go through to be diagnosed with this awful disorder? Do you know that our brains literally REWIRED themselves as children to save us from that very trauma causing us to be the way that we are as adults? We are how we are because we were let down and abused and neglected. And do you think labelling us this way is going to help us feel like we are deserving of love and we do deserve happiness? It isn’t, living day to day with this disease is HARD. We are humans too you know, we were just let down… and we spend everyday of our lives trying to be better, for our families..friends…children. We aren’t monsters, and labelling us as such is so damaging.
Emerald Apple@AI_EmeraldApple

Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder. It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD. They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged. People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves. They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim. They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off. She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife. Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her. The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be. The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral. The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to. TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.

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SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@KyukekoVampneko The problem wasnt that she had boundaries. You BPD people are all the same you cant see the bigger picture and just continue with stupid, dumb, and idiotic statements over and over
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🐈‍⬛🩸 Kyukeko | VTUBER
🐈‍⬛🩸 Kyukeko | VTUBER@KyukekoVampneko·
the demonization of borderlines, and people with cluster b personality disorders as a whole, will always break my heart. especially as someone with BPD. we are human too, and we are like this for a reason. please be kind.
Emerald Apple@AI_EmeraldApple

Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder. It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD. They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged. People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves. They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim. They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off. She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife. Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her. The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be. The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral. The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to. TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.

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SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@rosiebellmoo All those wondering it involves the vtuber who got fucked lived on stream and makes fun of peoples suicides and is a BPD Filipino
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Rosiebellmoo
Rosiebellmoo@rosiebellmoo·
I tried to tell you .
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SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@StuG_Heidi @zak_muzak No. She made that post saying no more NSFW art which is fine, chibi replies to her hypocrisy as she reposted nsfw art right after posting no more NSFW art, she then replies making fun of a traumatic event which chibi went through and his suicide attempt for it.
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StuG_Heidi@StuG_Heidi·
@zak_muzak Hold on is that the entire point of the deme drama??
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µZAK
µZAK@zak_muzak·
A Vtuber asks ppl to not rule34 her and respect bounderies -----> ppl online are now making fun of how her (ex?)bf attempted suicide and she got stabbed trying to save his life this shit is surreal
Hayachii@hayachiichan

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SSpeedmeal
SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@nyaraVT @Tectone Tranny calling someone a rapist? What the fuck type of kettle calling the pot black bullshit is this
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nyara@nyaraVT·
You can block me, but you can’t silence the truth.. @Tectone is a sexual abuser, cry bully and serial harasser who pushes these hate campaigns because he is desperate for clout.
nyara tweet medianyara tweet medianyara tweet media
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♡ mari/cohe ♡
♡ mari/cohe ♡@noinconsistency·
so you're telling me right wing weirdos are crucifying a vtuber just because she doesn't wanna see NSFW of her model? do you people legit have nothing better to do
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SATTA
SATTA@sattatheultimat·
Mfs were genuinely listening to Oliver tree at one point
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nyara
nyara@nyaraVT·
They use AI to kirkify me and then pretend this is what I actually look like and attack me for it.. Transphobes are so fucking deranged🧍‍♀️
HowlingGhost@ghosth0wling

@nyaraVT You’re a man with 5 o’clock shadow you could at least try to shave with a razor I know you’re too afraid to try at passing

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Odd Tip@OddTipMedia·
@sosonosonosono all of these comments and op are very depressing. i thought progressives would've been more accepting of femboys; to see a lot of y'all just degrade them and mudsling is very depressing. you folk really should be more open-minded about femboys
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SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@SakuraSnowVT You must've missed the part she made fun of a guys traumatic event which caused him to attempt suicide
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SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@wangovt Your defending someone who laughed at a person who attempted suicide btw
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WANGO🥭🐶【vTropical🌴🏖️】|outfit contest📌
W the Deme situation... Yall are mysoginistic af. Deme can feel sexy and not enjoy more heavy nsfw of her vtubersona. She IS allowed to set boundaries. Womans bodies are pretty but not all nudity should be sexualized. There IS artistic nudity for a reason. Yall need to stop
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SSpeedmeal@SSpeedmeal·
@AustralianTony @OtakuEspiritu Deme made fun of a guys traumatic event which caused him to attempt suicide right after posting about mens mental health month
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Espiritu@OtakuEspiritu·
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