Ọmọọba Adébimpé 👸

Here’s something for my women. 💕💕💕 I’ve created this Women’s Pleasure Workbook for you. Yunno your pleasure is my pleasure 😇. This pleasure workbook will guide you through important questions pertaining to orgasms and pleasure. 1/2

My first abortion was at 15. The boy & his friends threatened to kill me if I didn’t “get rid of it”. My parents didn’t know, my school counsellor let me skip school for the procedure, & picked me up afterwards. I caught the train alone to the clinic & there were protestors at the front calling me a murderer. The counsellor dropped me at the end of my street so my parents didn’t see me. I got in the front door & put my school bag down like it was a normal day. My mother asked, “how was school?”.

@HerDreadsRock @nattyturner247 Facts! At 6 we used to run errands and walk to school in Nigeria.

@nattyturner247 They send kids in other countries to school and grocery stores on their own at like 6!

The boy is throwing food I already cooked for him and a pack of fruit snacks into a box lmao

I don’t even have a problem with people sending their children back to Nigeria for whatever reason their circumstances require. What I have a problem with is how some people gloss over corporal punishment that would be melted on them in Nigeria and the deliberate breaking of a child’s spirit. What’s that?? Some of you should be ashamed, there are exceptions though…..You failed at one of your primary responsibilities as parents, then took it a step further at negligence and outsourcing your responsibility and expecting someone else to raise and discipline your child for you. That’s lazy parenting!!! Some people complain that they can’t hit their children in the UK. Have you actually tried other forms of discipline? Sending your child back to Nigeria while you remain here is not the flex some of you think it is.

Ṣe wọn ṣepe fun yin ni???

One lesson from the ongoing conversations around women’s academic achievements led by @mydearenomfon is that women deserve far more respect, recognition, support and rewards than they often receive. While men historically held an advantage, a significant reverse gender gap has emerged over the last two decades. Across many parts of the world, women are now outperforming men in educational attainment at both secondary and tertiary levels. For instance: 🔺In the UK, approximately 54–55% of young women progress to higher education by age 19, compared to just 40–43% of young men. 🔺Across OECD countries, 52% of women aged 25–34 hold a tertiary qualification, compared to 39% of men, a substantial 13-percentage-point gap. 🔺Research also shows that men are now more likely to drop out of higher education, while women are more likely to successfully complete their studies. 🔺The Institute for Fiscal Studies further notes that around 85% of women experience positive net lifetime returns from their degrees, compared to 75% of men. These statistics indicates how women continue to excel despite facing structural barriers, family responsibilities, workplace discrimination, and societal expectations. We need to continue to support women by creating a safe space for them to achieve their academic, professional, or personal goals. In particular, we need to recognise and reward their efforts by advocating for “Equal Pay for Equal Work” to close the global wage gap, which sits at roughly 12% across major economies.

@wenduly09 @mydearenomfon 😂😂😂

@SexEdWithSugar @mydearenomfon 😂😂😂😂 I still have my mum's copy. She hasn't looked for it, yet since I borrowed it in JSS2😩

@CandleyV @wenduly09 @mydearenomfon Girlll You need to find it!

@wenduly09 @mydearenomfon How come I haven't read it😭, just hearing it for the first time.

@wenduly09 @mydearenomfon We really “borrowed” it o. 😂😂😂

@mydearenomfon Many of us borrowed the book, Every Woman, from our mum to read 😂🤭

They are looking for career women to control. Let everyone dey their dey o.

Ladies, beware of men who start toasting you just when you are about to go abroad for school or have a big career break. The men who even pressure you to bring them abroad if you do go. Only to start beating you. Beware of these men. They are often abusive. #16DaysofActivism.

@WolfCouer @Zioraife If you won’t create time for your kids then don’t have them!

@Zioraife I don’t quite agree wit u. 1. We’re talking parents working their ass off, less time 2 supervise kids 2. Even if they were not lazy, you can not control peer pressure from kids who are seeing other kids misbehave plus you’re in system that if you touch them, they take them away.

Do people not realise that the testimonies of Nigerians abroad sending their children back to Nigeria for school so they could be disciplined is a sign of lazy, detached parenting? What hands-on parent looks at Nigeria and thinks the country is worthy of educating their child?

Common sense🤷🏾‍♀️

@MariamOlaide10 Oya oya

Bsc Health science MSc Public Health (D) Cert. Global health institute Cert. Disease intervention for public health roles. Make I gather small strength for PHD 🤣🤣🤣

I think women are the best of God’s creation/

@larabillionaire @NPeopley Please link to the autogele vendor😌😌

@NPeopley She’s not serious 🤣🤣

My sister said my daughter’s headband bow looks like auto gele 💔

Many parents who choose this route are essentially looking for schools to "parent" their children, especially those showing early signs of antisocial behaviour. They feel hamstrung by Western legal systems that limit traditional discipline, & are constantly exhausted by the inflexible immigrant work schedules they met in the West It becomes almost impossible t to "Karate Kid" their kids into compliance. So, they outsource the heavy lifting to Nigerian institutions. Clinging to memories of the "good old days," they romanticise an era of absolute teacher authority, where any flicker of rebellion or wayward curiosity was swiftly beaten out with a cane or suffocated beneath a pillown of strict conformity. To them, a Nigerian boarding school is like a cultural boot camp. They ship their Westernised teens across the Atlantic, expecting unrelenting routines & uncompromising authority to "exorcise" Western entitlement & factory-reset the child's cultural hard drive. They want a hybrid: a child with a Western passport's opportunities, but the submissive obedience of a traditional upbringing, while conveniently ignoring the profound psychological whiplash this exile will inflict. This highlights the great, unspoken paradox of the diaspora. Parents have endure immense hardships to escape their homeland for Western freedom, yet outsource their parenting back to the abandoned system the moment Western liberties they once dreamed about threaten their control. It's why some first-generation Nigerian immigrants send their children back, they want their kids to inherit Western triumphs, but demand it with the rigid compliance of the motherland.

@Sai_Ishaya_ This!!! They are outsourcing parenting.

@____Oyinkansola Where have you been???

BSc: Community Health Sciences Master of Public Health; Epidemiology Doctor of Pharmacy (Pharm.D.)- in view Almost 8 years of work experience as a 25 year old 😂 I’ll be back in a few years!!!