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WOLEY
@WoleyDM
Quiet, Calm, Reserved | Network Engineer | MSc (in View) | God is the source ❤️
Peace Village Tham gia Eylül 2017
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@WoleyDM @IroegbuLucky @JaggaJesse Emphasis on "years back"
I believe the economy was still bearable, but now, everything is so unsure. Every personal decision today seems like a life and death decision.
What a country to be in.
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I woke up thinking about my kid brother.
He is working with a salary of #250,000 monthly.
He is currently living with our parents and have come of age to rent his own apartment.
The reason why his thought came across my mind this morning was that he spent 5k daily on transportation to his place of work and he work 26 days a month.
He support the feeding of the house with 50k.
He is also a student with national open University of Nigeria.
As a Christian, he is firm believer of titheing which he removes 10% monthly from his salary.
His goal this year is to rent his own apartment preferably closer to his office and the cheapest room goes for 650k (self-contained)
What will be your advise(s) to him considering the economic situation in Nigeria and his monthly bills?
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@WoleyDM @sandrachiororo @Wizarab10 No mind them. Satan is always giving them new options to make them destroy their families.
If you watch closely most of these ladies who claim intellectual are empty on family values!
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If you want to be paid for loving your family, don't have one. It is okay to be unmarried and childless.
You people are becoming unlovingly dull.
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@Enny_choco @osemagnum Exactly. It should be 100-100. Everyone should build the home together.
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@osemagnum I agree domestic work is real and valuable. it shouldn’t be dismissed. But the goal isn’t to reject these roles; it’s partnership. Caring for the home shouldn’t fall on one person alone. Men should help at home, and women can support financially too. It’s about balance in d home
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i don't agree with this your take. all you mentioned are done by women of all race and colour.
when i first came to the UK, my landlord, a very rich man... his wife does much more than even what African women complain about... he also assists her... they are in their 60s without any help.
I joyfully assisted them too as they took me as their son.
Let's stop this narrative... paid and unpaid, it only breeds contempt.
My wife prepares food for me even before I come home... we just had a baby 3 months ago. When I'm home in some weekends... I cook and make delicacies...
I'm prim and proper... I clean up the house almost everyday... will i call that unpaid labour?
co-creator with God. 🥼🩺@MaryRoseMalomo
When we say women are doing unpaid labour and unappreciated labour, people like you will call us mad women. In many homes, women cook, clean, take care of the children, drive the children to school, do market runs, help the children with their homework etc. All of these things are actual jobs worked by actual people. Now imagine you had to pay for all of these things. You would be paying a chef, a housekeeper, a driver and a private tutor. You would be paying FOUR different professionals heavily for something that you claim is nothing and costs nothing. Women work hard. Women have always worked hard. The issue is that this labour goes unpaid and unappreciated. And women like you are one of the reasons why it is so.
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@sandrachiororo @MI7cap @Wizarab10 This isn't the issue. Man provides house, food, clothes, gives his wife money(even if she's working), pays school fees, etc. But the wife doing duties of taking care of the home, kids, running errands, going to the market and cooking...you guys are calling it unpaid labour. lol
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@WoleyDM @MI7cap @Wizarab10 If the woman is not working, please give her an allowance. She shouldn't have to ask you for the most basic stuff.
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@WoleyDM @maryakpa_n Competing with people doesn't end well, e con be woman.
Most of them always have their way around things. Don't bother too much.
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My junior colleague at work earns ₦70,000 monthly. I know because I’m the one who approves payroll.
Last Friday, she came to the office with a brand new iPhone 16 Pro Max and hair extension I know is at least ₦450,000.
At lunch I joked and said “big girl.”
She just smiled and said, “my friend, life is sweet.”
I was complaining about how hard the country is.
She said it won’t stop me from living well, that I should use my money and spoil myself.
I just looked at her and continued eating my ₦700 meat pie and coke.
By 4;00 PM, a GLK came to pick her up.
She didn’t even say goodbye to the HOD.
Some people are living a completely different Nigeria inside this same Nigeria.
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@sandrachiororo @MI7cap @Wizarab10 So is the husband without complaining. But Women tagged their own "unpaid labour" lol.
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we buy the foodstuffs, kitchen equipments and gas. we buy clothes, pampers, healthcare, baby foods and other baby needs. market that you're going to, na my money ooo. Tuition fees, excursion, uniform, books and other things that are education related, na still me pay am ooo
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@MI7cap @Wizarab10 By taking care of the house and the kids, the wife is already doing an excellent job supporting the husband.
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That framing misses the point. It’s not about “getting paid to love your family,” it’s about acknowledging that caregiving pregnancy, childbirth, raising kids comes with real costs and sacrifices. Expecting support from your partner isn’t being transactional, it’s part of shared responsibility.
People can choose to be childfree, sure but for those who do have families, fairness and support matter just as much as love.
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@IroegbuLucky @JaggaJesse Well, just sharing that maybe he could pick a lesson from there. But I recommend not leaving until you are fully capable. However, don't relax while you are there. Keep pushing.
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@WoleyDM @JaggaJesse In nutshell, he should still wait a while in the family house?
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That Sisi Alagbo video is wild. In a marriage that’s not even a year old, what’s missing that you had to bring in a threesome to spice things up? And that man, a grown man like him left his first wife and children, moved in with that raggedy Sisi Alagbo, and now your recorded threesome is already all over the internet just a year later. Some people are really wilding out
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@MorganExpert01 @Tolbat3 @fattylincorn_01 She dey facebook. Crazy stories and confessions on her page. I had to block her page
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From lyalaje courtroom
When I asked Eniola Sisi Alagbo why she' was involved in 3X0ME, she told me she learnt the style from Aunty Yinka TNT platform and she's a good student in her school
I was so shocked when Sisi Alagbo told me....
Pls for all of you insulting Engineer Alagbo, go and ask for forgiveness, that man is innocent
It was Sisi Alagbo that initiated the whole thing, the man is been controlled by Sisi Alagbo and he doesn't have choice
Sisi Alagbo needs to change and turn a new leaf, she can't continue with all the nonsense she's doing.
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South Korea has an obsession with self-service stores: self-fuel stations, self-retail stores, self-ice cream stores, and self-photo studios.
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Nigerians are the most onomatopoeic people ever 🩷
she said it's tinnnnnnnn
tife 🎀@bolutifee___
do you randomly hear this sharp, high pitched "tinnnnnnnnnn" sound in your ears that only you can hear or it's just me?
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I really love love❤️
The real kind. The one that is intentional, steady, and can actually last.
Over time I noticed something…
There are good people everywhere. Serious people. Genuine people.
They just haven’t met each other.
Life, work, location… all these things get in the way.
That’s what led me into matchmaking, and I’ve been doing this for over 5 years now.
And let me say this clearly, this is not hookup or random stuff. I don’t care about that at all.
This is a ministry for me.
It’s about bringing intentional people together. People who are ready to build something real.
Balancing this with life is not always easy, but I don’t give up on it because I’ve seen what it can do. I’ve seen people who would have never met find each other and start something meaningful.
I genuinely pray that everyone who desires real love finds it. That the right people cross paths at the right time and choose each other fully.🙏🏽☺️
This is something I’m deeply passionate about, and I’ll keep showing up for it. 💯😍
@PMatchmaking is my passion, yes it is❤️
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There’s a guy I know who's now a staff engineer. His grandma was a computer scientist.
He grew up reading her Fortran textbooks, and built his first website before uni.
Not necessarily smarter than you. Just started with a wider worldview.
I think that's a gap we don’t often talk about.
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Travel in your 20s
20s, don almost finish, I no pass Lagos
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Ajao Kabir, our Head Boy.
Gem Nursery and Primary School, Ilorin - 2006
Bobo took first positions from Pry 3 to Pry 5.
He is now a Medical Doctor ☺️☺️
Me, I dey shuffle between 3rd and 5th. I'm a Network Engineer. We thank God for where we dey too 😃😃
Tax Payer ⚖️@mosalamandani
How far with that one brilliant person in your class back in basic and secondary school? That one person you all thought was cut out to be successful no matter what.
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@maryakpa_n Like when my female colleague bought a high end PC of about 1.5M. I've wanted to get a new PC too. I saw her own and said, if a woman with the same pay as me can buy that, I can buy it too. Lol. Later I heard her man got it for her. I just calm down go buy the one I fit afford.
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