The five neurodivergent love languages: infodumping, parallel play, support swapping, Please Crush My Soul Back Into My Body, and "I found this cool rock/button/leaf/etc and thought you would like it"

@AmberlynWhite the 5th one is also called penguin pebbling and i think thats super cute!!

@AmberlynWhite for the fourth one I recommend getting a cat. they WILL crush your soul back into your body

@AmberlynWhite >.> idk what parallel play is, but i think all of these are what i do

@AmberlynWhite What’s Please Crush My Soul Back Into My Body 🫢

@AmberlynWhite @eli3jas Are you supposed to pick one or can you have all 5? Asking for a friend

@AmberlynWhite @stallionxf

@AmberlynWhite I think this meme started with this tweet, which comes as a handy thread with explanations of all five twitter.com/neurowonderful…

@AmberlynWhite Support swapping? Is that like an unspoken understanding that we can’t both collapse at the same time?

@AmberlynWhite @brennalevitin OMG my autistic ass just screen capped this and sent it to my husband and …

@AmberlynWhite 6: let me assign you as a character from my favourite media

@AmberlynWhite *purrr*

@AmberlynWhite All of these!!! The original 5 made some sense but these. Now these I can get behind. Please crush me and give me a cool rock and I’ll do your dishes if you’ll lift heavy things for me lmao I vibe w this

@AmberlynWhite Iirc that last one is called "Penguin Pebbling" which is my favorite name for a love language I've ever heard

@AmberlynWhite I groom my partner 😂 I'll shave him, when we shower I put his shampoo in. I don't know what this love language is but it's weird as hell 😂😂

@AmberlynWhite Cool rock, button, etc is definitely my love language!

@AmberlynWhite What is support swapping?

@AmberlynWhite Idk but parallel play is the best thing you can do with your loved ones. Like idc if youre playing Val while I do my assignments and we say nothing to each other, just the presence of you is enough. But usually ppl find it weird tho so it's hard to ask them to parallel play 😞😞

@AmberlynWhite Also weird noises just to confirm to each other you're still there without needing to talk. 🙈

@AmberlynWhite @bibicosplays When I’m having a moment of really bad anxiety that presents as crawling feeling in my legs, I ask one of my brothers to just lie on my legs and that pressure is perfect. I didn’t realize it was the autism until like. Now 😂

@AmberlynWhite ... we've been with each other for 18 years now and do ALL OF THIS. Husband especially loves the soul crush. I mostly enjoy the parallel play. Neither of us is diagnosed but he had childhood trauma and I have like 20 signs of female ADHD.

@AmberlynWhite every time i go somewhere, i come back with a leaf, and i only just started feeling weird about having all these fucking leaves in my house with no further intent, but now i feel seen 🖤

@AmberlynWhite Number five is my little cousin. He still asks about a penny he gave me six years ago.

@AmberlynWhite @glitchingmoons Me yesterday at work to my co workers: “I found this little plastic frog and kept it because I knew y’all would like to fidget with him”

@AmberlynWhite But I did find a cool purple rock the other day and you'd prolly like it 👀