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Gilbert Ahimbise
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Gilbert Ahimbise
@GILBERTGILO2
Industrial chemist, business man. Man. united ❤️/Agbafian
Kampala, Uganda 加入时间 Mayıs 2018
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Guyz, something happened in my neighbourhood and its one of the most disturbing things I have heard in a long time 😔😭.
@jon_d_doe
@iamklausenburg
What can be done traditionally to help this situation.
Please read:
A few years ago, the wife left the husband due to domestic violence and abuse from her husband. They are a deeper life household. They have 4 kids together. 3 girls and a boy. Oldest daughter was 9 at the time. People begged this woman to carry the kids especially the daughters but she refused and left.
Fast forward to last year November, I saw the oldest daughter who was now 13 at the time with an iPhone 12pro max and I had to quiz her where she got the phone. She said her dad got it for her. I was baffled and started quizzing her further as to why her dad will get her such an expensive phone at that age. So I decided i was also going to ask the father just in case she was lying which I did and he confirmed he got her the phone. I was livid but didn't think much of it after his confirmation. After all we are in the Genz era.
People of God, it all came to light yesterday/this morning. The father has been sleeping with his daughter and even got her pregnant at the moment 😥😢. Oh lord have mercy.
Apparently, he took her to a hospital for an abortion and one of the nurses is the mother's cousin. She saw her and contacted the mother who came with her family to confirm the situation. They started asking her who got her pregnant and she said it's her daddy 😭. Upon further investigations they found out he asked her to bring her friend who is 14 but that one refused. Her friend told her mom and the matter has been reported to the community chief. Right now the man is nowhere to be found. The mother is wailing and rolling on the ground.
Pregnancy is already obvious and should be around 5-6months. I looked at how innocent this 13 year old is greeting everyone Aunty good morning, Aunty good morning and I couldn't hold back the tears 😥😢. You can see the innocence in her voice and face. She doesn't fully understand the gravity of what has happened to her and what it means for her future.
Why why why. Why will a father do this to his little girl 😥. Why take away her innocence this way, why ruin her future this way. A child you are supposed to protect and guide, you end up being the monster she should be protected from 😢.
The community said they will send something for him that will drag him back to the community because he is an indigene. People are saying he will be banished.
Please, for those that are traditional, what are the spiritual implications of this abomination? How can this little girl be helped ? What happens to the child after birth because as it stands, termination is no longer in the table.
This is just so sad 😢
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@jon_d_doe @Sampsolo The husband of the married woman, when you find out that your wife is cheating on you, you don’t confront the man he cheats on with. You just send her back to the streets and find another woman that will have respect for you.
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I don’t want to be this animal. Meet the sea horse. male seahorses are the only animal species where the male gives birth. Female seahorses transfer eggs into a specialized brood pouch on the male’s abdomen, where he fertilizes, nurtures, and carries them for 10 days to six weeks until delivery. He experiences contractions and he pushes the babies out.
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Most men we see today on Emeka’s show are the archetypical products of the early 2000s programming from the media, movies, novels and songs. The beta males who hold no spine in them, little to no self esteem, and hungry for female approval. The generation before millennials dealt us really bad. They kept quiet in the face of attacks against masculinity. Now we have men who have no idea what they are or value themselves at all. They have become cuckolds whose only possibility to like themselves is dictated by the women they date or marry.
In their minds, they are like, “if she dated and slept with all those other men and still came back to me, that means I am more of a man than them”. No dude, other men conquered your territory. She was a “moment” to them even though she thought she could be their “forever”. And just because she left and dated other men, doesn’t mean that you are less of a man.
Her hypergamy and promiscuity speaks more of her. It has nothing to do with you. Actually be rest assured, if that man she was looking for in her hunt ever shows up, you will be thrown under the bus again. Manipulated in the same way, just like she made you believe that she failed to find a man like you, she will find something to make you believe you are to blame. Your self esteem will then be crushed again.
We are the first generation of men giving second chances to promiscuous women. The men before would never tolerate this kind of bullshit. If at all they had a consideration for search a woman, they gave her a house in the family yard where she would live and raise her kids but not taken back as a wife. Dude, you need to get out of cuckold fantasy and grow some self confidence and self esteem. These things are simple and crystal clear. Even in our fellow mammals a female animal that cheats on the alpha male in the pack is thrown out. Your wife is the gatekeeper of your empire, if another man can crack that gate easily, nothing is safe in your empire, including you.
The Romantic Mukiga@emeka_ug
“During divorce, I dated different men because I wanted a father figure for my kids but they all went away but no one could replace my husband. My girl kept asking the men I dated why they left. She asked me if the men left because of her.”- Daphne. youtu.be/P7ftzkRDHpY
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Someone please help this brother. He needs an evacuation.
@kyamageroandrew our brother is about to make the same mistake twice. Man cave emuyambe🙏
📸 @emeka_ug

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@AKasingye Am a victim of these bus park goons. I was hoodwinked to pay for a certain bus only to be given a ticket for another bus company coupled with harrasment.🙌 i had to pay again in order to travel with a bus of my choice.
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I had never taken Mbarara seriously. Every time I came home, I wanted to go back quickly. Now, I don’t want to evacuate the city in haste. The development is vivid. The city is cleaner. Coming from Kla, you breathe fresh air. The people are now dressed well than before. Churches are well built & vibrant, shops well stocked & prices competitive, hotels better managed & schools back to their best. My only worry is about transportation. The taxis & buses lack organization, coordination & respect to travelers. Stories of passengers being clobbered by bus managers or delayed for 6 hours in some city bus companies are many. These managers are feared by the police, & city big wigs for reasons known to them. The NRM government is known for fighting goons like those who harass citizens & bribe officials wantonly. One person was almost killed by officials of a certain bus company. Surprisingly, the victim is now charged of murder to protect the top managers of this company by the police. Why are you keeping quiet of such transport nobodies? If this is not checked, I will lay bare the facts, for the good of travelers who have suffered for quite a long time in a developing city like Mbarara. Say NO to goons & protect citizens.

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“We divorced and after 11 years, we’re setting to re-marry. In our first marriage, I knew I was in trouble on our wedding day, we had no popppers and they popped sodas. I told them not to pour soda on me but he cared more about photos not me.”- Daphne
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