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1 in 10 Keeper dates lead to marriage. Building the relationship singularity.

NYC 加入时间 Nisan 2022
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Finding someone to marry is harder than ever. We used to marry for practical reasons and grow into love. Now we hold out for a soulmate. That’s good! Marriages today are much happier. But soulmates are extraordinarily rare, and too many people are struggling to find theirs.
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Few people want to marry someone who hates any group they belong to. This doesn’t mean you can’t acknowledge male/female differences or sex-specific bad behaviors, but it does mean you should avoid becoming bitter about them. People can detect this and don’t like it.
— don@dracosrevenge

i’m immediately put off by women who carry very negative views about men, even if those views aren’t directed at me. there’s something off-putting about that energy — it just doesn’t sit right with

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Measuring attractiveness is critical to matchmaking, so we trained our own model on our own data to rate photos. It outperforms all frontier models on both accuracy and cost. If the tool we need to find your soulmate doesn’t exist, we build it.
Jake Kozloski@jakozloski

The most important input to a matchmaking algorithm is physical attraction. Not "shared values." Not "love languages." Attraction. Every study on marital satisfaction says this. Every matchmaker knows it. Nobody builds for it because it's uncomfortable. We built a photo testing tool at @KeeperAI, collected millions of human ratings, and trained our own model (keeper-1) to score attractiveness at near-human accuracy. 50x cheaper than GPT. Better than every frontier model.

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Often, the evolutionary reason for a behavior is not the same as the subjective reason. Our sex drives exist to encourage reproduction, but the conscious feeling is just “this feels good”. Women who give bad advice to other women probably don’t feel like they’re sabotaging them, even if that’s why the tendency evolved. They probably believe they’re trying to help.
Rob Henderson@robkhenderson

"Female intrasexual competition can be understood, at least in part, as serving to lower birth rates. Giving poor relationship advice that leads to breakups is an example. Or encouraging behaviors that increase the chances of single motherhood." podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/106…

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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
The most important input to a matchmaking algorithm is physical attraction. Not "shared values." Not "love languages." Attraction. Every study on marital satisfaction says this. Every matchmaker knows it. Nobody builds for it because it's uncomfortable. We built a photo testing tool at @KeeperAI, collected millions of human ratings, and trained our own model (keeper-1) to score attractiveness at near-human accuracy. 50x cheaper than GPT. Better than every frontier model.
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Women end up in situationships because we no longer have a social script for courtship. They think pushing for commitment too soon will scare men off, so they linger in relationships that are going nowhere.
@astralbaes

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Keith Humphreys@KeithNHumphreys·
It's really okay to marry someone, stick with them, and raise kids together. No journalist will write an edgy magazine piece about your lifestyle, but you'll have a great shot at a fulfilling and meaningful life.
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Tweaks can’t fix this. To make a product that works, that helps people find lasting love, you have to start with a fundamentally different business model.
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Whatever the intentions of founders and CEOs, corporations inevitably follow gradient ascent to maximum profits. The locally optimal solution for dating apps is to keep you lonely and miserable, to string you along with just enough false hope to keep you swiping and paying.
Caleb Hammer@sircalebhammer

Dating apps destroyed EVERYTHING. The analytics around Gen Z regarding dating, marriage, and having sex are dramatically alarming. We need to talk about that AND how they monetized loneliness. Check out today's mini-documentary: youtu.be/xDcKMjDOeuc

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Most doomsday predictions fail not because the underlying problem was not real, but because people step up to solve it. Acid rain was real. Ozone depletion was real. And fertility decline is real. In the words of @DavidDeutschOxf “Problems are inevitable. Problems are soluble.”
Lyman Stone 石來民 🦬🦬🦬@lymanstoneky

Paul Ehrlich is dead. His legacy is misunderstood. He was, in fact, correct about a lot of things-- he was rendered wrong because innovative and industrious people chose to make him wrong. The lesson for today is simple: people have to choose to make low-fertility-fears wrong.

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Most people with happy families don’t participate much in dating discourse. This is good for them individually. But culturally, it’s a disaster. We disproportionately hear from unhappy, unsuccessful people, and internalize this as the norm.
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