Rusty shackleford

there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.

I gotta say: maybe the sex feeling like a "long board game you don't feel like playing" is actual issue...

there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.

there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.

married women, have you ever said yes to sex because you didn't want to deal with his moodiness if you said no?

Kiss during the day while you're doing shit and there actually is no expectation. Means more then, anyway. Thinking an extended makeout session at night in bed followed by "um, this was actually nonsexual" is reasonable explains this:

Hookup culture only benefits men.

All of these tradfemdom types describing a woman having sex with her husband as an impossible feat of self sacrifice are really not doing a good job of selling the institution of marriage lol.

Sex is the only case where this could be mistaken for a sound argument. That’s due to the weird sexual ethics of our time designed to legitimize behavior that used to be condemned and condemning perfectly fine behavior. But let’s make it a little more obvious and replace sex with another act of physical intimacy, say a back rub (one could call this non-sexual touching). I’ve never wanted to give my wife a back rub. I don’t particularly enjoy doing it. But she’s my wife, I know it makes her happy and that matters quite a lot to me her husband, so I’ve given her hundreds? Thousands? There are dozens of such acts both she and I do for one another in the name of our marriage. Acts where we are neutral or would simply rather not but because of love and our holy vow to one another means we perform them without complaint nor resentment. Acts of love that transcend other emotions. If one were to take her advice literally, that a wife or husband should never do something they don’t feel like for their spouse, they would find a quick end to their marriage. Again you probably shouldn’t take marriage advice from a divorcee.

Remembered this study in relation to Emily May’s crusade to demonise men for having a healthy libido & desire to f*ck thier wives. She wants men to feel shame & remain isolated & alone in their loveless marriages, so that abusive women can withhold sex to coercively control them.