Steve
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Steve
@SearchingTLight
It's a v long journey. Quest to better understand #trauma, #abuse and #darktetrad personas. Mindfulness 🙏 Awareness 💚 Compassion #INFP #cptsd #Mentalhealth
England, United Kingdom 加入时间 Ekim 2021
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Normalize a boring life. Go to bed early, read long books, drink tea, regulate your nervous system, spend time alone, take walks without headphones, eat simple food, shrink your circle, and turn down the noise. Peace will look boring to people addicted to chaos, but that’s the point. Life doesn’t have to be loud to be meaningful, and it doesn’t have to be public to be powerful. Sometimes the magic is in being unreachable, rested, focused, and quietly becoming someone nobody can disturb.
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Narcissistic people are the worst type of character in society. Full stop. No debate. No "but maybe they had a tough childhood" excuse. No.
They don't just hurt you once, they get inside your head, rearrange the furniture, and charge you rent for the discomfort.
They drain you slowly, quietly, strategically, then have the audacity to call you "too sensitive" when you finally break.
They don't make mistakes, they make victims. And the worst part? They never even lose sleep over it.
Watch how they operate. Charming in public, catastrophic in private.
They'll be the loudest supporter in the room until you outshine them, then suddenly you're the enemy.
They'll love you with conditions you didn't know existed until you violate one.
They'll rewrite history mid-argument, gaslight you into questioning your own memory, and somehow walk away looking like the reasonable one. It's not accidental. It's a skill. A dark, deliberate, exhausting skill.
And society? Society keeps feeding them. Keeps promoting them. Keeps mistaking their ruthlessness for leadership, their manipulation for charisma, their emotional unavailability for mystery.
We built entire industries around their aesthetics. We watch their highlight reels and call it inspiration. We excuse their behavior because they're "successful," as if success launders cruelty into something acceptable. It doesn't. It never did.
Here's what nobody tells you early enough, narcissists don't change because they don't think they need to.
You can love them harder, communicate clearer, give more, sacrifice more, bend yourself into shapes that hurt, and it will never be enough.
Because the problem was never your effort. The problem is that they see people as resources, not relationships. You were never a person to them. You were a function.
So stop waiting for the apology. Stop replaying conversations hoping to find the moment it went wrong. It went wrong the second they decided your feelings were inconvenient.
Walk away. Rebuild. Guard your peace like it's sacred, because around a narcissist, your peace is always the first casualty, and if you're not careful, it won't be the last.
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Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you; because they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you.
People rarely take accountability when it's easier to paint you as the villain.
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@OunkaOnX Still Netanyahu facing justice would be good and send a signal that the world will hold them accountable
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@incomplete1511 @RespectfulMemes @aj_arciniegas Sounds like there has been misunderstanding between us. I wasn't meaning to call you out. Only intended to make a casual joke relating to cats being independent natured. But can see now how you could have perceived it that way. Definitely wasn't attempting to make you feel stupid
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So what was your goal by calling me out in an attempt to make feel stupid if you know nothing about cats? ..likes? Is this an ego thing? Doesn’t that go against everything your background picture in your profile is about.?awful way to approach someone like me,awful. im vegetarian who saves animals and receives no money doing it,so i give a shit about animals and I’m not actually stupid.i just look stupid to people who want to put me in a fucking box so they can claim to know “people” like me..now that we are past all of that,dogs.the answer is that because I can bring them with me places .cats not so much…not really a practical thing .but if you’re someone who’s home mostly.i can see someone saying cat…cats aren’t useless animals,they single handedly save the world from dying of the black plague..they get a pass to be whatever the fuck they wanna be in my eyes ..again I’m not what you think when you see my picture,I’m brain actually does work buddy
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@incomplete1511 @RespectfulMemes @aj_arciniegas Admittedly I don't actually know that much about cats. Maybe they would text back. You prefer cats or dogs (have become v bonded to a sweet and gentle cockerpoo recently - didn't know much about dogs till a year with him)
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@SearchingTLight @RespectfulMemes @aj_arciniegas I fully understand you. you need to fully understand me. My cats love me enough to respond back.obsessed people who care want attention ,and you give it to them if you actually love them .
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yes its called ptsd and cptsd, we know this.
All day Astronomy@forallcurious
🚨: Brain scans have revealed children living with unstable families (excessive, arguing, abusive and neglectful) have brain changes similar to combat soldiers after active duty
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Admittedly plagiarised from these two x.com/i/status/20524…
💫 Supernova 💫@supernova_freak
@RespectfulMemes Dogs on the other hand...
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@incomplete1511 @RespectfulMemes @aj_arciniegas Ha, some truth there.
I was just suggesting if you had a need and text them, they probably wouldn't be concerned (and might not bother texting back, as the orig post suggested) 😂
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@SearchingTLight @RespectfulMemes @aj_arciniegas WORNG!
how many times does ANYONE actually have to change the fucking WATERRRR..? 2 times a week tops .same with my dogs.or as needed. MY POINT was they act like obsessive girlfriends who want my attention because I know they don’t need no fuckin water BRAHH
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@eyojoel77 When someone consistently dismisses, deflects, or turns your concerns against you, speaking up can start to feel emotionally unsafe rather than productive.
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@eyojoel77 Some people don’t want honesty. They want access to you without having to change anything.
So every conversation turns into defending yourself instead of actually fixing the issue.
After a while, silence feels easier.
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