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@PromiseOOmos

Christian || Software Developer || Co-founder at Quicktest || Writer Letters to the Young || Impact Making

Benin-City, Nigeria Beigetreten Temmuz 2015
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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
Sexually harassing or raping a minor deserves severe punishments that can deter others from even thinking about it no matter who the person is. In the same vein, Sexually exposing a minor to sexually explicit content should be severely punished too to the same extent.
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@Xsta29449 Yes, so the average man should bear all the weight while the woman earns 200k and the man earns 350k?
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Esther | Math Nexus@Xsta29449·
This is exactly what we mean when we say wives should support their husbands in every way they can. But Twitter people are making it seem like if I earn 200k a month and I can't drop at least a 100k,house rent and school fees won't be paid!!!
Prof. Qadira (TB), PhD,PhD🇿🇦🇺🇸@MrsBu_

Our loving neighbors who are both deceased now, they also chipped in whenever I had to go to classes, and Hubby had business meetings. Our marriage is a PARTNERSHIP, not a competition. And, I will step in at my own accord. My husband NEVER EVER expects me to pay for anything!

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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
Gen Z people, it's tiring. It's everything that is culture stereotypes and "African system", everything that is imposed by forefathers, everything that is societal norms, everything that is unnecessary. Which kind of generation is this self? It's tiring. Dressing - cultural Respect - cultural Family values - traditional, cultural, slavery, Virginity - societal construct Ehn be walking about naked na, be talking down on everyone, remove reverence from your life, swap husband and wife roles in your marriage if you would have one, then be sleeping around with every guy with Benz or Prado A Crazy Generation thinking they are the most sane
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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
@hackSultan Exactly. Biased and Blinded people. The man that will wake up by 4:30am to go to work and stay at work till 5pm or 6pm to bring money home for the family is a robot ba?
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Name cannot be blank@hackSultan·
The blind state of the world only sees her waking up by 4:30AM to pack a lunch, they’re not concerned that her husband is going to work by 4:30AM and would be at work long enough that he’d have to eat his lunch there.
Big Kryssi@DuhItsKryssi

When I tell people I get up with my husband every morning at 4:30am to pack his lunch and make him a hot breakfast they asked me if his arms were broken so I don’t think they want to hear it.

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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
Yes, definitely a man should no leave the running of the home to the wife alone. The man should also do cleaning and help out in other house activities. The argument does not even talks about proportion of contribution. The man's Job May be more demanding than the woman's Job, which guarantees more pay. He might be doing Uber after working normal work, he might be traveling now and then to work where there's higher pay for the family, would your argument still be him doing cleaning or cooking because she's contributing to the family? When her work might just be daily trading or a 9 - 5 office work, or Beauty or Customer service work? Let's be realistic.
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Glorious God
Glorious God@GloriousGod01·
God said to the man: "You will have to work hard and sweat to make the soil produce anything, until you go back to the soil from which you were formed." To the woman He said: "I will increase your trouble in pregnancy and your pain in giving birth. In spite of this, you will still have desire for your husband, yet you will be subject to him." Yet modern men claim childbirth is nothing compared to providing for the table. They want their wives to co-provide with them, but they refuse to share the burden of pregnancy. If you truly believe pregnancy counts for nothing, then start paying for it and see if you can afford it. Start paying for the cooking and cleaning she does for you. Only then will you value what she truly brings to the table. Many modern men are simply weak. Above all, love God.
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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
@d_ocheido It could be relative to the time life starts in their city. For someone living in a place like Lagos, 4:30am is the least they can wakeup if they don't want to be late.
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Deborah Ocheido
Deborah Ocheido@d_ocheido·
But what are we waking up to b up by 4am to cook though? Stone?? You could meal prep so you just heat up and it’s ready in less than 15 minutes Why should we wake up 2 hours before light to cook? There are ways around this thing nau
2.0@blixberrie

Why are people so dense. “Good PR” for marriage is NOT getting up at 4am to cook breakfast. Do you think there are single people out there hearing that thinking “God, I wish I could do that 🥺”

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LERRY@_AsiwajuLerry·
A closed mouth is a closed destiny. Shoot your shot today. You don’t know who’s watching.
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ChatGPT and Claude rivalry is unmatched. Chatgpt has a plug-in in codex for Claude
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Junior Mechanic
Junior Mechanic@Murakariuki·
Married for 20years 5 kids and a rich husband Her household has 7 cars She has a PhD Teaches quantum physics Rich, empowered, intelligent, accomplished, independent, mother of 5 Internet women are insulting her because she serves her husband. But they praise failed whores. 😁
Prof. Qadira (TB), PhD,PhD🇿🇦🇺🇸@MrsBu_

I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!

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Princess Dantrolene, Labetalol & Sugammadex
So as far as I’m concerned, men do not all have provider mindset. If you can’t show thoughtfulness and a sense of responsibility when dating, you won’t show it in marriage. Luckily for me, I am not the type that likes receiving insult from men “ in the name of billing” . I take pride in looking after myself with my own money but I’m not going to entertain one that doesn’t take pride in exerting his responsibilities as a man
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Promise Omos
Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
The transport fare is quite funny 🤣🤣 are you sure that one has work he was doing wey he nor get shame reach like that.... Well, it shows maybe you were quite richer than them all, and they weren't really looking to settle down with you, just to eat from you, both financially and Sexually.
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Princess Dantrolene, Labetalol & Sugammadex
The one that is married to my relative just resigned from work and sat down in the house. So is he providing for who he isn’t married to? For the ones I dated, I could clearly see they were happy to see me spend my money, one used to ask me due transport fare after coming to visit me sef. So if they cannot bring out money to do little thoughtful things for the person they are dating, is it in marriage they would provide for their wives?
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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
Or maybe they are equally tired of providing for who they don't eventually get married to. Do they have what they are doing? Do they have a Job? Are they working to have earnings? If they are working to earn for their families and they probably don't provide 100% in talking stage or girlfriend stage, they are not wrong, they are just only protecting their interest and commitment. The problem is many ladies expect in a relationship what is meant for married people, and then they get disappointed and go through the vicious dating cycle. Most likely the one before the last two you dated would have been a good husband, but became you expected a wifey treatment prematuredly, you left or he left, whatever the case. You will keep dating a couple of them until you remove some wifey expectations in girlfriend status. A man who is not your husband has limited and discretionary financial responsibility over you. Don't look at other ladies dating politicians and rich moguls who will never marry them and bring that expectation to your relationships when you are looking for marriage. This is my little advice to you, you may hear a different narrative from your fellow female, but they don't really want the best for you.
Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos

Or maybe they are equally tired of providing for who they don't eventually get married to. Do they have what they are doing? Do they have a Job? Are they working to have earnings? If they are working to earn for their families and they probably don't provide 100% in talking stage or girlfriend stage, they are not wrong, they are just only protecting their interest and commitment. The problem is many ladies expect in a relationship what is meant for married people, and then they get disappointed and go through the vicious dating cycle. Most likely the one before the last two you dated would have been a good husband, but became you expected a wifey treatment prematuredly, you left or he left, whatever the case. You will keep dating a couple of them until you remove some wifey expectations in girlfriend status. A man who is not your husband has limited and discretionary financial responsibility over you. Don't look at other ladies dating politicians and rich moguls who will never marry them and bring that expectation to your relationships when you are looking for marriage. This is my little advice to you, you may hear a different narrative from your fellow female, but they don't really want the best for you.

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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
Or maybe they are equally tired of providing for who they don't eventually get married to. Do they have what they are doing? Do they have a Job? Are they working to have earnings? If they are working to earn for their families and they probably don't provide 100% in talking stage or girlfriend stage, they are not wrong, they are just only protecting their interest and commitment. The problem is many ladies expect in a relationship what is meant for married people, and then they get disappointed and go through the vicious dating cycle. Most likely the one before the last two you dated would have been a good husband, but became you expected a wifey treatment prematuredly, you left or he left, whatever the case. You will keep dating a couple of them until you remove some wifey expectations in girlfriend status. A man who is not your husband has limited and discretionary financial responsibility over you. Don't look at other ladies dating politicians and rich moguls who will never marry them and bring that expectation to your relationships when you are looking for marriage. This is my little advice to you, you may hear a different narrative from your fellow female, but they don't really want the best for you.
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indispensable David@thedispenser_·
You can no longer Copy the link of a video anymore on X 😭😭💔
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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
@onyebebe @GloriousGod01 @Xsta29449 Hmm There are always outliers and exceptions. Igbo men are the last set of men that we can say don't have provision mentality, they are one of the best out there... There may be some lazy exceptions though
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Promise Omos@PromiseOOmos·
@Jboybreezzy @MrsBu_ Most people are not even married, where you reach too far, drive back small to this Junction. They are not married.
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OLAJIDE👮🏿‍♂️🇳🇬🇪🇸
The way ladies are melting out under this post says a lot about relationships and marriages. Most people are not helpers/partners to their husbands but scavengers and are just having a parasitic relationship. Crazy times man.
Prof. Qadira (TB), PhD,PhD🇿🇦🇺🇸@MrsBu_

I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!

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