Promise Omos
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Promise Omos
@PromiseOOmos
Christian || Software Developer || Co-founder at Quicktest || Writer Letters to the Young || Impact Making



Our loving neighbors who are both deceased now, they also chipped in whenever I had to go to classes, and Hubby had business meetings. Our marriage is a PARTNERSHIP, not a competition. And, I will step in at my own accord. My husband NEVER EVER expects me to pay for anything!



When I tell people I get up with my husband every morning at 4:30am to pack his lunch and make him a hot breakfast they asked me if his arms were broken so I don’t think they want to hear it.





Why are people so dense. “Good PR” for marriage is NOT getting up at 4am to cook breakfast. Do you think there are single people out there hearing that thinking “God, I wish I could do that 🥺”



I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!



I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!




Or maybe they are equally tired of providing for who they don't eventually get married to. Do they have what they are doing? Do they have a Job? Are they working to have earnings? If they are working to earn for their families and they probably don't provide 100% in talking stage or girlfriend stage, they are not wrong, they are just only protecting their interest and commitment. The problem is many ladies expect in a relationship what is meant for married people, and then they get disappointed and go through the vicious dating cycle. Most likely the one before the last two you dated would have been a good husband, but became you expected a wifey treatment prematuredly, you left or he left, whatever the case. You will keep dating a couple of them until you remove some wifey expectations in girlfriend status. A man who is not your husband has limited and discretionary financial responsibility over you. Don't look at other ladies dating politicians and rich moguls who will never marry them and bring that expectation to your relationships when you are looking for marriage. This is my little advice to you, you may hear a different narrative from your fellow female, but they don't really want the best for you.






I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!





