Promise Omos

Why are people so dense. “Good PR” for marriage is NOT getting up at 4am to cook breakfast. Do you think there are single people out there hearing that thinking “God, I wish I could do that 🥺”

I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!

I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!

Or maybe they are equally tired of providing for who they don't eventually get married to. Do they have what they are doing? Do they have a Job? Are they working to have earnings? If they are working to earn for their families and they probably don't provide 100% in talking stage or girlfriend stage, they are not wrong, they are just only protecting their interest and commitment. The problem is many ladies expect in a relationship what is meant for married people, and then they get disappointed and go through the vicious dating cycle. Most likely the one before the last two you dated would have been a good husband, but became you expected a wifey treatment prematuredly, you left or he left, whatever the case. You will keep dating a couple of them until you remove some wifey expectations in girlfriend status. A man who is not your husband has limited and discretionary financial responsibility over you. Don't look at other ladies dating politicians and rich moguls who will never marry them and bring that expectation to your relationships when you are looking for marriage. This is my little advice to you, you may hear a different narrative from your fellow female, but they don't really want the best for you.

I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!

God said to the man: "You will have to work hard and sweat to make the soil produce anything, until you go back to the soil from which you were formed." To the woman He said: "I will increase your trouble in pregnancy and your pain in giving birth. In spite of this, you will still have desire for your husband, yet you will be subject to him." Yet modern men claim childbirth is nothing compared to providing for the table. They want their wives to co-provide with them, but they refuse to share the burden of pregnancy. If you truly believe pregnancy counts for nothing, then start paying for it and see if you can afford it. Start paying for the cooking and cleaning she does for you. Only then will you value what she truly brings to the table. Many modern men are simply weak. Above all, love God.

God said to the man: "You will have to work hard and sweat to make the soil produce anything, until you go back to the soil from which you were formed." To the woman He said: "I will increase your trouble in pregnancy and your pain in giving birth. In spite of this, you will still have desire for your husband, yet you will be subject to him." Yet modern men claim childbirth is nothing compared to providing for the table. They want their wives to co-provide with them, but they refuse to share the burden of pregnancy. If you truly believe pregnancy counts for nothing, then start paying for it and see if you can afford it. Start paying for the cooking and cleaning she does for you. Only then will you value what she truly brings to the table. Many modern men are simply weak. Above all, love God.

Telling men to have provider mentality is like telling women to menstruate! Provision is a hard-wired instinct in every man. Again, every man desires to provide. Men are spending money even on whores and women they do not care about, providing for a wife is the littlest worry for any sane man! The argument all along has nothing to do with men, but everything to do with women. They must take their solipsism and invest in their marriages just as much as the average man does. Again, if a woman is working, she must see her income as family income.