Jae
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Ashley: ...Yes, thank you for having me. Um, I don't know, I just kind of went through something recently. I, um, ended up leaving my fiancé, um, for...
Dr. John Delony: How come?
Ashley: How come?
Dr. John Delony: Yeah.
Ashley: I don't know, that's the thing.
Dr. John Delony: Did you meet somebody new?
Ashley: I did. I did. It was somebody that lived in the area, and I got curious about who this person was, and I took it too far and I acted on it.
And then, yeah, ended up leaving my fiancé and regretted it almost immediately. And I actually just left that other relationship that I was in, um, and I think I want to repair things with my ex-fiancé, and I think he does too, but we just... I don't know where to start.
Dr. John Delony: How do you know you want to repair it?
Ashley: Because... I mean, he was my best friend. I mean, we were together for seven years, engaged for a year and a half. And I don't know, I just can't... I don't know, I can't imagine like, you know, meeting someone else...
Dr. John Delony: You already... You've already done that.
Ashley: I know. But like trying to like build a life with someone else, because the life that we had built was like everything that I could have wanted, I just didn't see it at the time.
Dr. John Delony: I'm wondering if you're not just in a cloud of guilt and loneliness.
Ashley: That's the thing, I just... I don't know. I mean...
Dr. John Delony: I would pause on trying to run back and fix this thing. Because I'm afraid it's going to happen again.
Ashley: I know, that's my worry too, and I don't want it to happen again. And that's why like, I'm taking the steps to try and figure out why I did what I did, and I just started therapy last week
Dr. John Delony: I know, but the... the bigger thing is you making an ironclad commitment of "I'm never going to do that again," and I haven't heard you say that. Like, figuring out why, that's... that's good.
That's part of the puzzle. But there's got to be that line saying, "I won't do this." Or let me put it this way: He can't anchor in and trust you again until you trust you. And you don't trust you right now.
Ashley: Right.
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@jptierney7 @AntiWokeMemes Cheating is never a mistake bro. Go simp somewhere else.
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@AntiWokeMemes A real Christian man with a Christian woman who made a mistake should forgive. But if you’re out there being a hobo maybe the guy just needed this opportunity to see who you really are so he doesn’t make the mistake of marrying you
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@JedediahBila It’s hillarious how these females think they can speak for what men want. BSTFU and go make a sandwich.
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