Winners Travel Consults

I watched this podcast fully and all I can say is that sometimes love blinds you, and to be honest this can happen to anybody, he was always doing things to make his wife happy but it was not reciprocated, they were red flags he ignored it also, how can you be calling your wife o not girlfriend o, wife o even if it’s girlfriend sef and she is not reciprocating your call or nothing four years abroad no gifts nothing and she was working o, and you allowed her have a male flat mate all in the name of love for her to be happy, one thing I can say for sure is that anybody that really likes you or loves you will never have to put you in situations deliberately where you have to compromise the standard and start questioning their trust and Men abeg start speaking up, Men are going through a lot especially if you know you are doing the right thing don’t die in silence, look at this guy now, he looks really drained, this thing has really eaten him up, it’s like his eyes it’s going inside, above all it’s well because this life there is no perfect manual, we are all imperfect.

“I’m 35 years old. Not married. Whenever my family told me to marry, I said it was too early. I wanted to focus on work, save money, and buy a house. I did all that, but at 35, when I finally went to propose, I was rejected — one was already married, another said I was too old, and the third wanted someone younger like her brother. I went home and remembered my family’s words. I didn’t listen. Now I have no wife, no kids, while my younger brothers are married with children. My mum keeps praying for me, but I know she’s tired. I went to see my younger brother after his wife had a baby. I saw him holding his son, surrounded by love, while I stood in a corner unnoticed, feeling like a stranger even in my own family. At gatherings, the married men sit together and talk, while I sit alone, not knowing how to join. Now I’m in my big house. Alone. I eat alone, sleep alone, even drink my coffee alone. I’m scared — scared I may never marry, and scared I might d!e without children. Please help me, how do I get married at 35 when people reject me because of my age?” — Man shares his emotional struggle with finding a wife, years after prioritising his career and financial stability over marriage

❝If I had a kid out of wedlock, I would have been justified. Mayowa travelled abroad 6 years and for the small money I had, I was sending money to Mayowa everytime. Since 2021, I didn't see Mayowa again..❞ Roby Ekpo cries out about his previous marriage to Mayowa Lambe.

My friend in the UK called me today and offered to fly me out. Visa money, flight money, everything covered. I said no. He told me there was no plan waiting for me there but that I could find a cleaning job or "at least escape Nigeria." I told him to send the money instead so I could put it into a business here. He was disappointed. That's his business. I have zero interest in relocating abroad without a plan. I am not leaving Nigeria to go and clean toilets in the UK because someone wants me to feel like I have arrived. That is not an upgrade. That is a relocation of suffering. I want to be established here, build something real, and then travel abroad on vacation as a man with options. Not as someone who fled. The only reason I would ever consider relocating is to make serious money, and even then, it must be a concrete plan. Not a cleaning job. Not a "you'll figure it out." Not a one-way ticket to survival mode in someone else's country. Japa without a plan is just poverty with a foreign accent. Nigeria has my frustrations but it also has my vision. I am staying. Above all, love God.