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Trans-Inclusive Misogynist
Trans-Inclusive Misogynist@DeleteTheNats·
@MinModulation A variant of this I see a lot is if they have a proposed solution to a problem and you explain why it's a bad idea they expect you to have an alternative solution and if you don't they get mad and call you "unserious" or "a troll".
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tim@fl4bbergasted·
I really appreciate how LLMs have eliminated that fear and anxiety I had about getting stuck in a text, say math, but especially things I’m a lot less familiar with like philosophy
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shouko@shoukointech·
Controversial take on Steve Jobs:
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claude shannon
claude shannon@catpoopburglar·
@shoukointech people don’t understand how hard it can be to organize engineers to do something great there’s a reason most people don’t try to herd cats
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Iroquois Pliskin🌹
Iroquois Pliskin🌹@DaltonEverett_·
@LRSerling He's really fascinated with the idea that you can 'neuroplasticity' your way out of meeting the diagnostic criteria of a disease that physically and permanently alters the human brain, not understanding that the criteria are made for the convenience of the doctor.
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Lesbian Rod Serling 🇵🇸🇺🇦🇮🇷
Vaush, in a video: yeah autism is just a collection of symptoms, and ive gotten over those symptoms, so i dont consider myself autistic anymore Vaush, in the same video: i only eat rice, beans, and tuna fish. Every day. Eat something else? Why? Cmon man lmfaooo
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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@Pat_Stedman Ok but it’s the red pill who’s selling the paranoia that all women are sleeping with attractive men they’re not invested in. Not to say this is something that doesn’t happen though
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Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men
The issue is more the sense of double standards. Most guys get resentful when a girl that clearly likes them wants to hold off on sex, because they presume she didn't make other guys wait. This is especially the case with older women who are most angling for commitment. It feels like bad faith / manipulation to guys and they opt out of considering her for something more serious, in large part defensively because they feel she views them as a beta / will use sex to control them later Women have a hard time understanding this response because most of them will actually sleep with a guy they like less overall faster if he's hot enough and it's "right place right time". They know he has no future so they don't delay; the guy they want more seriously meanwhile they make wait because they "don't want to ruin it" and want him to invest more This dual strategy being revealed puts women in a bind, because the natural courtship process of delay and making the guy invest to have sex has now been undermined by her (and other women's) willingness in other scenarios to have sex opportunistically. They have inadvertently penalized the guys they want more, and these guys aren't having it The result is that women who don't want to be promiscuous anymore (and even to a large extent women who never were, because their chastity isn't believed) now lose investment from desirable men - only the desperate ones will wait. If these women try to counter this by putting out fast however these guys often devalue them anyway - it is the male sexual instinct to invest little in easy women This breakdown in trust has led to the destruction of polarity itself, and it is one of the major factors contributing to the overall collapse in the dating market. Exceptional personality chemistry is having to pull more and more weight to make anyone commit to anyone these days - everything else is commoditized So what I'd say to women who want to wait until commitment - first do not expect him to not see other women while you hold off, and second make sure you are bringing something to the table that is distinct and valuable to him in a woman besides sex. The problem is many women who want to hold off do not do this, they think sex with them is the prize, and unfortunately that is the furthest thing from the truth in 2026
Romy@Romy_Holland

the sentiment behind "why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free?" is very clearly wrong at an individual level—the reason many guys won't marry the girls they're casually having sex with is because their bar for marriage is much higher than their bar for casual sex. if a guy sees a girl as marriage material, having sex with her won't change this. but it does make sense at a societal level, which is maybe what people were historically trying to enforce. if *no* women will engage in casual/premarital sex, men are forced to date seriously and find someone to commit to if they want to have sex.

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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@louisvarge Maybe more importantly though 1. I don’t “own” the truth, I may actually be wrong 2. I’d never trust someone who says they can always handle the truth, reveals a huge lack of self awareness
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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@louisvarge No, I just don’t wanna argue over inconsequential stuff
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Louis Arge
Louis Arge@louisvarge·
within every white lie lays an assumption that the person you’re talking to is too immature to handle the truth not a good vibe to project if you actually like someone and see them as an equal
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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@MariGO2thepolls Saying this anywhere in latin america would make you far right
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Andy Rose
Andy Rose@the_andyrose·
@creatrix_ttv Well, no... that isn't quite right. If you don't have any money and refuse to work a job your responsibility is now to find a difficult way to survive. I balk at using this word, but you seem totally hemmed in by a bourgeois mentality
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Creatrix
Creatrix@creatrix_ttv·
Seeing women say things like this makes me feel like I'm from another planet. It’s such a horrible frame that encourages male nihilism and I just CANNOT relate. *Almost* every wealthy individual (unless they were born with money) started by answering to someone else. Even Elon Musk had a boss at one point. Nothing disgusts me more than laziness. There is nothing noble or attractive about being a bum.
Veronica, Collagen Scientist@celestialbe1ng

everyone’s losing their minds at her for this but she’s literally just saying what brute de force, colty brah and idk joe rogan have been saying for years: the men at the very top and the very bottom have more in common with each other than either does with the average guy. the founder and the drifter are both playing their own game. the guy clocking in 9-5 with a middle manager and a meal deal is playing someone else’s. that’s the difference. it was never about money

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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@rieszspieces Nah, math people are more likely to suffer from the opposite problem
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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@StellarFox16 @DrWallkick Maybe just get rid of the buzzword then confuses more than clarifies
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Stellar_Fox@StellarFox16·
@DrWallkick It is misogyny. I can’t believe in 2026 Gen Z is knocking back all progress millennials made for leaving each other alone in personal sex lives. Telling women their consensual choices aren’t choice is infantilization and misogyny.
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Godspeed You! Woke Moralists
Godspeed You! Woke Moralists@DrWallkick·
Whenever kink discourse comes up I always ask "if women ask for misogynistic sex of me of their own free will, what do you want me to do?" and their answer is "tell them no," which then begs the question, "if a man tells women what they want is bad for them, isn't that misogyny?"
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memetic_sisyphus
memetic_sisyphus@memeticsisyphus·
Woman is attracted to instability. With instability comes excitement, chaos, newness. Idk when or where my next paycheck is coming from means you can’t really plan for the future. Extreme openness leads to the inability to build anything lasting. The founder becomes boring after he starts to succeed, there’s always another couch surfer you could explore the Appalachian trail with. A new adventure, a new city, a new a new a new and suddenly you look around and realize you don’t have anything lasting. No family, no husband, no kids, maybe something new?
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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@dyingscribe I’ve had that same thought. Bad handwriting too
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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@Aella_Girl @robinhanson You’re literally unable to find a long term partner to have children with
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Aella
Aella@Aella_Girl·
it's not sexy when a man has a boss
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Empire
Empire@YuvrajS9258·
@SidPolitics @Empty_America I think I once saw a quote by a famous author claim that most of the most fierce hatred in this world is born for people who are too similar to us, not people who are diffrent from us. I can't really remeber who's quote is that tho.
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tim@fl4bbergasted·
@fredsoda This is just objectively false
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Soda@fredsoda·
stop lying to yourself redpill is for getting laid quit making it to be more than it is, you sound lame
LamedBet@LamedBet

@fredsoda Red-pill just means truth seeking The tactics work because the understanding of female behaviour is correct, so I kind of balk a little at this framing of 'redpill works for dating'. How about: "truth seeking works for dating, but do you want to be with a woman you understand?"

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