there is an older transwoman (60yo tall skinny man who wears mini skirts & lipstick) that frequents our favorite coffee shop. i have seen him come in multiple times and just talk to people's little kids and not buy coffee. we were there with our baby and for the first time in all the times we've seen him he approached us. i tensed up and turned away, hoping to avoid an interaction. my husband gave him one look and the man backed off. peak male performance. i never felt so protected