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Manuel 🇳🇬
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Prone to telling the truth,Ambassador Of Peace&Cruise/Cool as ice/Hot as🔥Don’t take things too serious I’m also here for fun• croc🐊city raised me.
Somewhere on earth Katılım Temmuz 2011
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@MrMekzy_ @sekaniayo @adeboye don block me I no fit tag am again abeg somebody should tag him and tell him these are the kind of preaching we need from him not the type he has been preaching.
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Conor Neill: "18 years of school trained you to ruin conversations"
"You finish your pitch and the customer says, 'Your product is too expensive!' You arrive home a few minutes late, your partner says, 'You are always late.' There's a dirty plate left on the table 'You never wash the dishes.' What do you say in this moment?"
Neill explains the problem:
"Most of you, me included, went through 14 years of school where we were taught one way to respond to questions. Teacher asks, 'How do you spell cats?' Student: 'C-A-T.' Teacher asks, 'What is osmosis?' Student explains in detail. For 14 years, you've been taught to give answers to questions. If you went to university, you probably had another 3 or 4 years of giving answers to questions."
Here's what that does to you:
"In real life in persuasion, in getting to what the other person is really about, what their needs really are, the worst thing you can do is give an answer to a question."
He gives examples:
"If someone says, 'Your product is too expensive,' and you say, 'No it's not! It's only €1,000'; you've lost every chance to understand what else is behind their reasoning. If you get home and your partner says, 'You're always late!' and you say, 'No, no, no, Tuesday I was definitely here on time', you're gonna have a crap weekend."
Neill explains why this happens:
"When your partner says, 'You're always late,' emotion goes up. And what happens? The thinking part disconnects. The way to make someone stupider is to insult them, object to them, tell them they are wrong. When you're asked a question, there's an emotional reaction, and the higher emotion goes, the lower thinking goes."
He continues:
"If you don't practice this response, you're not going to be able to do it in the moment. If you don't practice repeatedly how you'll respond to 'You're always late,' 'You never wash the dishes,' 'Your product is too expensive,' 'Your competitor is better,' 'You failed us 3 years ago,' 'I don't trust your company', you're not going to be able to do it in the heat of the moment."
Here's what to do instead:
"When you are asked a question or given an objection, I want you to say: 'I understand.' And repeat in your words what they're saying. Then give an open question back."
He demonstrates:
"'Your product is too expensive!' → 'I understand that money is an important factor for you. What other criteria will be used in making this decision?'"
Neill calls this "Conversation Aikido":
"Martial arts are about using the energy and force of the opponent against them. In Judo, if someone punches you, you pull their arm and allow the energy to keep flowing. In Aikido, the concept is you go toward the punch. You go toward the energy. If someone punches you, if someone asks you a question, if someone objects, the Aikido method is to go toward them and see the world from their view."
He explains how to practice:
"'You're always late!' → 'I understand you feel frustrated.' 'I understand you feel let down.' You'll have to work on this quite a few times over the next 10 years to find the set of words that captures what the other person feels, what's behind it. Then ask: 'What can we do now?' 'What happened during the day?' 'What would you like to talk about?'"
Neill shares what happens when you don't do this:
"When a client says 'You're too expensive' and you say 'No, we're not!' you learn nothing about who else they're considering, what other criteria are important, what process they've gone through, who else is involved in the decision."
He closes with a guarantee:
"By giving the answer, we shut down the possibility of hearing what's really going on in the other person's mind. But if you say 'I understand,' accept the energy coming from the other person, and give back an open question, I guarantee that if you do it 4 times, the answer to your 4th open question begins to be the real underlying need, issue, or interest of the person you're listening to."
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One of the scenes that impressed me the most in cinema is this scene.
The result of 20 years of perseverance of a prisoner. It symbolizes hope and patience.
The Shawshank Redemption
Love Classical Music and Movies 🎺🎻💖🎥🎬@AlexTran677026
What is the most impressive moment in your movie?
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Farouk Adamu “Spits” On The Grave Of President Buhari 💥💥💥💥💥
I watched a very intense and explosive exchanges between @ruffydfire and Farouk Adamu on @ARISEtv this morning and concluded 99.9% of those who claimed they were with PMB from the days of CPC played PMB handicap
@ruffydfire : “President Buhari was better democrat, during the PMB era he never stifled opposition, the opposition were easily winning elections, Buhari was a better democrat than what we are seeing today……….”don’t mind he avoided calling Tinubu
Farouk Aliyu Adamu : “if you think Buhari was a better democrat that is your opinion………”this same Farouk Adamu during several media appearances claimed he is the authentic Buharist
99.9% of this generation of Northern politically exposed thieves are dangerous and very treacherous
For context Farouk Aliyu Adamu is a brother of the @icpcnigeria chairman who has unlawfully abducted @elrufai for the past 44 days
If Farouk Aliyu Adamu is your father, please forgive me; you should be ashamed of yourselves because he is a disgrace to your ancestors
This is pure insanity
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@afolabiodun Oponu ni e,a certified f%l.
Going by the typographical error on your bio. Onikure tebi tara. All your children will end mysteriously like the children in Nigeria has been experiencing since this evil came on board. Ur comparison shows your dumbness. Olofo.oloriburuku.Wa shofo omo
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@TheNationNews Foodbank for country wey get lands for farming……
When you can empower, and create enabling environment for them to grow arables that will benefit them and the country Economy.
Doing everything to Impoverish the people to control them..
Omoo.. dis ppl evil ooo
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PHOTOS: First Lady launches national food bank programme, N65bn raised
Oluremi Tinubu has launched the National Community Food Bank Programme, aimed at reaching 500,000 vulnerable households within its first year.
She said the initiative is designed to tackle hunger and improve nutrition, particularly among children, in line with the Renewed Hope Agenda of Bola Ahmed Tinubu.
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@iNspiritextra I can Never forget the kaduna own.That was the first place I saw live miracles.Not the rented actors like this new generation pastors do.We were only singing “He is miracle working God,he is the alpha&omega.he is a miracle working God” they had2ban him,cos ppl were converting



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Evangelist Reinhard Bonnke held his largest crusade in Lagos, Nigeria, in November 2000. It was called the Millennium Crusade. On the final day alone, about 1.6 million people attended.
Over the six days, a total of about 6 million people came, making it look like a sea of people.
During the crusade, about 3.4 million people decided to follow Christ. On the last day (Sunday), over 1 million people (1,093,457) submitted decision cards.
This event was very important because it fulfilled a prophecy he received in 1984, where he was told he would see one million people give their lives to Christ in a single service.
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@RedVikingWrites @SkySportsPL @Carra23 He is an hypocrite lol.
i dont mean to disrespect anyone but it's kinda some bristish tingy.
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@SkySportsPL @Carra23 When he’s with Thierry Henry he always heaps praise on Arsenal but when he’s with Gary Neville he rips into Arsenal as a boring, lethargic team that doesn’t deserve the title 😭😭
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"It's absolute nonsense!"
"He had to find another way and he's done it!"
@Carra23 says there is no right or wrong way to play football in response to the criticism Arsenal have received for relying heavily on set pieces.
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@KvngGenerous you're so f%lish,see mumu talk.
oponu you can celebrate lateef without disrespecting others
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@damzyy0609 @SavageResponses 100%
they showed him glimpse of the love when he signed.
That airport show of love was massive, even CR7 didnt get that in madrid
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Victor Oshimen breaks down in tears as Galatasaray pays tribute to his late mother.. #ChampionsLeague

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@SavageResponses galatasary just wan lock osimhen down by all means. dey won use loving you finish our boy.
make ambitious player avoid that club.
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