Terence Efenudu

Peter Obi and Kwankwaso are not poor men. They don't need to use their money to bribe voters or give them bags of rice and garri. They should join funds together with all well-meaning Nigerians, and their party to: 1. Build a high tech central collation center and hire tech gurus to man it. 2. Pay volunteers and mobilization groups to cover for logistics. 3. Ensure that they have delegates in all 774 local governments (if possible) in Nigeria and all polling units who would live stream the results to the collation center. 4. Embark on massive grassroots awareness and campaigns across the country, especially in the remote areas of Nigeria. 5. Form an alliance with local and foreign media and alert them to any malpractices taking place. 6. Mobilize religious leaders to constantly campaign for them in the churches and mosques all over the country. The efforts would yield very good results. In my own little capacity, I am willing to donate N3m towards their campaign. Whether they win or not, I'll not regret it. End.

That girlfriend that you're dating & is hardly accountable to you, even when you give her money to do something, is the future wife that would not teach your kids to say "thank you" to you, when you pay their fees or buy clothes for them. And she'll be stealing your money. As a married man, your duty is not to go and pay school fees or go to the market or boutique to buy clothes for your children. It's your wife's duty. Yours is to provide the money and give it to your wife. And your wife should return to you, and give an account of what she spent, and if she spent extra, you can reimburse her later. I have told you young men. If you're stupid enough to give your girlfriend 500k to buy a phone or hair, and she goes ahead to use the entire money to buy it, you're dating a wasteful & a greedy girlfriend. Any girl that spends money that she doesn't earn on any expensive material thing, even if you gave her the money, is wasteful. Rather, she should use part of the money to do something useful for herself, and then show you and give an account of what she did with the money. If you demand accountability and she starts to say: "But you gave me the money, why are you still asking me to explain what I used it for?" Change it for her immediately. Don't tolerate it because what you're doing is enabling her sense of entitlement and accepting ingratitude. When you marry her, she'll start to see the school fees you give her to pay for the kids and the money you give her for shopping as her own, and she will not see the need to tell your kids to be grateful or thankful to you, their father. That's one of the ways to lead a woman. You don't wait until you marry her before you start correcting a lot of things. Otherwise: "But this is how you used to do it, why are you complaining now?" A man owes his wife financial transparency & efficient planning. And a wife owes her husband financial accountability & prudency. End.