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Aaron Shutt

@A2Shutt

Happily married and father of 6 | real estate investor | lover of beautiful architecture, CS Lewis, brazilian jiu jitsu, and reformed theology

Michigan, USA Katılım Nisan 2022
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Michael Foster
Michael Foster@thisisfoster·
For years, I expected my family to leave me alone for a period of “decompression” when I got home from work. I’ve always worked in highly relational, conversation-based roles. I’d often arrive home overstimulated and disappear into my office. My wife would want me to address a discipline issue with one of the kids or take interest in how her day went. My kids would want to tell me about their day or hit me with a thousand requests needing dad’s permission. But I just wanted space. I was fried. “Give me a minute, guys.” Looking back, I see that for what it was: a missed opportunity. A failure of leadership. How a man walks into his home after work says a lot about the culture he’s building. A man doesn’t just bring home a paycheck. He brings direction and masculine leadership. So I changed. I started treating “re-entry” as a moment to lead, and I built three habits to help me do it. Habit #1: I stopped listening to anything on the drive home. I use the silence to pray, collect my thoughts, and gear up to do more work, the kind that matters most. If you work from home, you might need to take a few minutes alone in your office before stepping out. Habits two and three flow from this one. They start the moment I walk through the door. Habit #2: I ask my wife if there are any discipline or pastoral issues that need a father’s touch. There are plenty of situations where a mother needs the father to step in. Handle those. Once I’ve dealt with the kids, I move to habit three. Habit #3: I tell my wife something about my day. She’s been with the kids all day with no adult conversation. More than that, she’s my main support in the mission I’m called to. I want her to see what she’s helping make possible by being a helpmate to me. Of course, I ask about her day too, but I’ve found that priming the pump helps get a good back-and-forth going. I hear a lot of pastors scolding men for not doing dishes or folding laundry. I rarely do either. Not because I think I’m too good for it. It’s just already done. My wife oversees our home well. Besides, me fathering my kids and encouraging my wife does ten times more for the health of our home. My household doesn’t need a second mother. It needs a father. These habits help me get to that work the moment I walk through the door. They’re not rules I slavishly follow. Some days, I do need a moment. Sometimes the drive home just isn’t long enough. This is more about building a culture of action. There are other ways to do this. Find what works for you. The point is to seize every opportunity to lead your home. And a word to the wives: reciprocate. Don’t be the sort of wife who immediately dumps all, and only, the day’s difficulties on her husband. Be ready to share the wins too. And metaphorically speaking, give him a moment to put on his house slippers. If he moves toward you, and you move toward him, you’ll create a more peaceful home. Let this be the attitude of both husband and wife: “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others” (Philippians 2:4). That means the husband sets aside his fatigue to engage. And it means the wife doesn’t greet him with a flood of complaints. He moves toward her, and she moves toward him. That’s how you build peace. That’s how you build a home.
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ConfederateShop@ConfederateShop·
“I am a poor sinner, trusting in Christ alone for salvation.” - Robert E. Lee
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Aaron Shutt@A2Shutt·
@BowTiedRanger Trump’s judgment on female hires has to be one of his worst traits
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BowTiedRanger@BowTiedRanger·
Trump prefers to put Boss Queens with fake tits and tr00ned out husbands in charge instead of guys like this.
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Aaron Shutt@A2Shutt·
@chrismwojcik #2 is my biggest concern, especially since my kids train. Thankfully I’ve never gotten any weird vibes from any of their training partners or coaches but it’s always in the back of my mind especially with my daughters.
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chris wojcik@chrismwojcik·
5 of the biggest problems with modern Jiu-Jitsu: I started Jiu-Jitsu a little over 11 years ago. The sport has changed a lot in that time, in culture, technique, and as a competitive sport. One thing that has been a constant in Jiu-Jitsu is problems. Problems with culture, problems with the sport itself, and of course, problems with the way we train. Today, we're talking about the 5 biggest problems with modern Jiu-Jitsu. ----------- 1. There's still not very much money in the sport. At the pro level, you can make decent money for matches, tournaments, seminars, private lessons, sponsorships, and more. But everyone else has to scratch, claw, and grind just to get by. When your career is over, you either have to get a job or open a gym, because no one is "set for life" after they're done competing. ----------- 2. Sexual predators are rampant in the sport, even at the highest levels. This year alone, there have been a lot of sexual assault cases involving professional Jiu-Jitsu athletes and coaches. I don't think it's a new thing either. We're just finally seeing how common this is. It makes you wonder how many cases there are that have been swept under the rug. ----------- 3. Steroids are rampant. I know, I know, "every" major sport has steroid users. But if you get caught in the UFC, NFL, or MLB, you're punished. It's still illegal. In Jiu-Jitsu, it's almost encouraged. I don't really think that's good for both the next generation and our reputation as a sport and community. ----------- 4. A general lack of professionalism. I'll skip the horror stories and just say that we have shifty promoters, lazy athletes, and plenty of coaches who are checked out. Some people on all of these fronts are doing a great job with their careers, teams, and promotions, but it's not super common. The nice thing is, if you literally just act like you're kind of a professional, you'll go pretty far in our sport. ----------- 5. No one really watches Jiu-Jitsu. CJI 1 was the most viewed Jiu-Jitsu event of all time. In general, however, most people watch the highlights of matches and not the matches themselves. Jiu-Jitsu thrives in the short-form era because the clips can be stunning even if the actual match is boring. We're basically the baseball of combat sports. ----------- There are a lot of problems with Jiu-Jitsu today. Some of these problems have existed for years and will probably always be there in some capacity. But if we talk about the problems and work to implement solutions, we can make Jiu-Jitsu a better sport not just for athletes, but for everyone involved. That's why I wrote today's post.
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Megan Basham
Megan Basham@megbasham·
I want people in other countries to come to know Jesus Christ as their savior and experience the freedom of life in Christ. And I am also now an immigration hardliner. These things are not mutually exclusive.
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Aaron Shutt@A2Shutt·
This is really good bjj advice
chris wojcik@chrismwojcik

The real "fundamentals" of grappling: When I played baseball, "fundamental baseball" involved throwing, catching, baserunning, making contact, and fielding. When we think of a fundamentals class in Jiu-Jitsu, we think of closed guard arm bars. That's not right. The "fundamentals" are not techniques; they're the basic things you must be able to do to eventually do advanced things in the sport. These are the 5 real fundamentals: ----------- 1. Base. What is base? At a fundamental level, the base is simply not falling over. Not falling over when someone pushes you. Not going down when someone tries to take you down. Staying in the pocket. Once you can stay up without falling over, you can graduate to more advanced movements. ----------- 2. Off-balance. Just like in baseball, where hitting AND fielding are fundamental, the opposing action of base should be fundamental as well. Can you make somebody fall over? Can you put a standing opponent on the ground? Can you make their hands or hips touch the mat so you can pin them? Good grapplers are masters of off-balance. ----------- 3. Pinning. After you off-balance someone and get them down, the next skill to master is pinning. When you get someone down, can you keep them down? It's like Craig Jones said, "Jiu-Jitsu doesn't work if you just stand up." Don't let them get up. ----------- 4. Pin escapes. Just like the inverse of base is off-balance, the inverse of pinning is pin escapes. It's also fundamental to our sport. Even if you have no skills except being extremely hard to hold down, you're an effective grappler. Learn how to escape pins and not be pinned. ----------- 5. Grip-fighting. Every exchange in grappling involves grip-fighting to some degree. We fight with our hands on our feet. We fight with feet and hands in the guard. All of this is done to gain inside position, put someone down, keep them down, and finally, submit them. But if you can't grip-fight, you lose at phase 1. ----------- I posted briefly about this last week, but if I were running a fundamentals class, we would not spend all of our time doing arm bars, Omoplatas, and Americas. If you focused on the 5 things above, you'd build really solid grapplers without even teaching them submissions. Injury rate would, in theory, drop. By the time submissions are added, the students will be excellent at all of the preceding skills. Try to name a part of Jiu-Jitsu that does not contain these 5 components. Even ideas like "positioning" or "timing" are skills developed through learning these 5 "fundamental" skills. I'm not the brightest of light bulbs, but I can't think of many exceptions. If you're in the same boat, it's pretty fair to say that these are the 5 essential skills you should be focusing on in your training.

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Andrew Torba
Andrew Torba@BasedTorba·
Perhaps it's confirmation bias, but every parent I know in my peer group is willingly choosing hard mode by homeschooling their kids, sacrificing temporary comforts to ensure mom can stay home, and having 4+ kids. Very encouraging. They all deserve to be highly regarded, rewarded, and elevated in our society when we win.
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C.Jay Engel 🌲
C.Jay Engel 🌲@contramordor·
Saying America is an idea is like saying your family is an idea. It creates a cult of abstraction in the place of Familial bonds. It is destructive of the family and it is dishonoring to your fathers and your children alike.
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Alex Forbes
Alex Forbes@AlexForbesOps·
I started a custom cabinet shop at 23, scaled it over 10 years, and sold that business last Summer. Now I’m in the laundromat business growing what I think will become the strongest brand in the industry. I also signed up to build 10 stores in Cleveland, Ohio with partners. Ask me anything.
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Morel season has begun 👌🏼
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Brandon Harnish
Brandon Harnish@PaleoGOP·
From time to time I travel up to the Michigan UP. One of the things I love about it, besides the beautiful country, water, and sky, is how there’s almost nothing corporate. It’s like returning to 1970s capitalism where everything is mom and pop owned.
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Aaron Shutt@A2Shutt·
@wrathofgnon The horror of installing solar panels on beautiful houses like this 🤮
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Wrath Of Gnon
Wrath Of Gnon@wrathofgnon·
In Bärnau, Bavaria, in 2024 a young student architect (Julius Schönberger, 23 at the time) built a series of homes using only natural materials and with techniques handed down from Romans and medieval craftsmen. The idea was to trial methods to create contemporary homes with modern comforts using local materials and skills (the majority of the necessary labor can come from completely unskilled people). Hemp, lime, clay, wood etc. Electricity has been installed, as well as a modern pellet heater rather than fireplaces, and some of the traditional roofs have been extended to provide more space for future solar panels. The design was completely informed by the materials and the local climate, as it always was before plastics and the ideology of modernism. An interesting discovery was that the building process itself generated no garbage at all. All natural insulation easily cleared modern codes and the buildings generate less waste, pollution and CO₂ than any single part of a home built with modern materials. I am looking forward to following this project to create a method to build homes for 500 years and that break the destructive teardown and rebuild business model that is currently ruining both us and nature.
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Aaron Shutt@A2Shutt·
One of our greatest
Gippie@BGibbus

Lt. General Thomas Johnathan "Stonewall" Jackson was a man with noted peculiarities and undeniable military genius. "Tom Fool" to his students at VMI, "Old Blue Light" to his his men, Jackson was a devoted Christian who served his God, and brought death and destruction to his enemies. Born in what is now West Virginia Jackson became estranged from his family for serving the Southern cause, including his favorite sister with whom he often corresponded before the war. He walked with a peculiar gait, sometimes held an arm in the air to balance his internal organs, and often sucked on lemons. Though gifted fine uniforms, he didn't care for the pomp and finery. Approached by a little girl at a house where he was visiting with Lee & staff, Jackson peeled the braid off his kepi and gave it to the girl to her delight. When next he visited and learned she had passed of an illness he wept openly. The same man who, when asked what was to be done with the enemy who plundered and pillaged the homes in Fredericksburg replied, "Kill them. Kill them all." During his Valley Campaign, where he almost miraculously beat three different armies in turn, Jackson pushed his men to the limit and beyond, saying, "I'm obliged to sweat these men tonight so that I might save their blood tomorrow." Jackson, who achieved such fame, looked so disreputable in worn clothing, slouching against a fence, the following occurred. A wounded northerner, hearing the great Jackson was nearby, asked to be lifted up so that he might see him. Upon seeing him, he became dispirited and said, "Oh God. Lay me down." His men howled, and the story spread quickly through his army, and when they were pushed by Jackson they would often say among themselves, "Oh God. Lay me down." At Harper's Ferry Union soldiers expressed similar sentiments, but also, "I wish we had him." Jackson formed a working relationship with Lee that resulted in further victories against overwhelming odds. On the eve of his greatest success Jackson was shot by his own men after scouting the front lines after dark. He developed pneumonia, and with his wife by his side he crossed over the river to rest under the shade of the trees on May 10, 1863. The Southern nation was heartbroken, and Jackson remains the greatest "what if?" of the whole war; what would have happened differently if he'd survived?

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Dave Collum
Dave Collum@DavidBCollum·
I almost passed on this interview of Tucker and Buckley Carlson. I think if you lean way left, way right, camp right in the middle, or live in rabbit holes, if you hang tough on this one you will be rewarded. It is quite amazing in its depth and clarity... tuckercarlson.com/tucker-show-bu…
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O.W. Root@owroot·
The Mackinac Bridge on 35mm film.
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Sam Costner@samuel_costner·
Abortion is worse than slavery and it's not even close
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