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@Naskitchen55555 @Adamthallith We share the same genotype and blood group 😊

@Adamthallith Genotype AA A positive Abuja Nigeria

If you’re single, add your genotype and location to your Eid pictures. Taqaballah llahu minna Wa Minkhum

@toshine4u @Edacheocho Anti blue for screen light protection

Share a picture of an item you desperately want to get this week but you can’t afford it. Someone might surprise you.🤝

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@RileyTTS Why do we need this information?

NAME : Okikiola Ibrahim AGE: 28yrs. Location: from Ila Orangun, Osun State MARITAL STATUS. Single, no kids. genotype: AA Shes financially stable. A trader and graduate. Just need a serious man

@ABUJAPLUG I hope this is true

@Jemeelahh_ To respond to this might be confusing to some ladies because they failed to pay attention to have really known their parents or learn real things from their parents but they will just answer 😄

Would you rather: A. Become a mother like your mother. Or B. Marry someone like your dad

@ABUJAPLUG Hmm....... it's well

@Bidexraj Lol

The silence will be loud. I’ll accept the will of Allah but I’ll not attend the wedding, I’ll continue performing my marital rites and keep doing what makes me happy . But I won’t be friend with my co wife..

@Bqmbulu Which would you rather want to come first?

She goes: "You talk like you just want to sleep with me" Reply her below:

@peng_writer 'Sustainable way of income to raise a family " and what's sustainable in this economy? and they are saying men are no longer interested in marriage. In real life (Nigeria) so many people started with little (legal) and Allah's blessings sustain the marriage

My client, 29, AA, based in Ilorin, fair, with good values, character, integrity and self discipline is looking for a man for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage soon. My ideal man is someone who's between the ages of 30-37, kind, understanding, good communicator, and stable. He needs to have a sustainable way of income to raise a family. If you meet this requirement, please send a dm with this post.

@ifetemini @Quo_Riri Lol..........and if he says yes but never do it eventually 😁 You need a mind of your own......

@Quo_Riri Hmmm another angle. Lemme ask him

I just had a long conversation with someone I’m in the talking stage with, and honestly, I’m trying to understand what exactly I said wrong. We were discussing marriage and I mentioned that there may be days when my husband and I decide to order food, maybe for a change of taste, or on days when I’ve had a really long day and there’s nothing to warm up in the fridge. He immediately got upset and said a woman shouldn’t say something like that to a man she’s getting to know because cooking is a wife’s responsibility. Now I’m genuinely confused… is it really such a big deal for a woman to occasionally order food with her own money just to make sure both of you eat on days she’s unable to cook in marriage, and must she always cook?

@Jemeelahh_ You will blame yourself for bringing your home affairs to the public, because you will get more confused. You know the right place to go but you decide to play your age, adding more mistakes to what's on the ground. Do the right thing and leave sm

@ahmedhalimah02 I had the means to cohabit when I was in ATBU but I never allowed it

Back in the university, I had a room mate who only spent Sundays in the hostel, she would come from church, sleep, make a light meal and pack her bags before 7pm till the next Sunday. Most times she comes back, I would be the only one in the room and she would be like you no Dey ever go for weekend? Everyone goes out to enjoy themselves but you will stay and be reading nonsense novels and I will be like👇 Where you want make I go? Do you even know how many bridges and hours I spent on the road to get here all the way from Kwara to Bauchi? Fast forward to when we resumed for finals, it was already a wide spread news that I was engaged and would be getting married right after graduation before I even resumed, by this time we had drifted apart but she still came to confirm if I was getting Married to that my bf that I hardly visit and I said Yes. I could see the pain in her eyes, the guy she used cohabit with from 100lvl got married during our IT in 400lvl. We were all out of town for a year IT and he got married within that period. Sadly, she remains unmarried till date. Cohabitation does not favor a woman. He who has ears should listen 👂.

@ayanfenikky That's a perfect example of classic female self-sabotage. Fast forward a couple of years into the future and she will realize that the mantle of false security she had wrapped around herself will not reassure her when she needs the solid support of a man who always put her first.

There is a trending video of a lady on scarf ranting that she visited a man in Lagos for the first time and the man refused to pick her up, And that she is stranded without a T.fare to get back to her location. I want to believe she is a Muslim lady from her mode of dressing. This is how girls get raped, killèd or even used for rituals. As much as we order for the heads of rãpists, let's exert the same energy in admonishing our girls and ladies to have sense, How can you be visiting a man you don't know. Even if you know him, he isn't worth visiting. It should be the other way round. If a man wants to marry you, he should be the one visiting you. You don't even have to visit his parents or siblings till you are officially married. Unfortunately, when you talk about travelling with a Mahram, some women will be the first to criticize your message, that the Hadith is is not practicable anymore. Hardly will a woman be keeled and used for rituals while under her parent's roof, they always fall victim of such either in hotels, boyfriend's house or parties. Islam has chosen your father's house as your safe haven, but every lady wants to go far from home. The father you are away from home, the greater the danger around you May Allah protect us all Aamin 🤲🤲🤲

@naffaish01 So many of them will never listen or even learn

@ummuh_Zahra This cannot be true and if it is then you're just a maid

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He’s 36. From day one, he promised me marriage and said I’m the one who will mother his children. Because of that, I gave him everything. For 4 years, I’ve basically become his house help. I spend weekends (and some weekdays) at his place washing his heavy clothes by hand, scrubbing floors, and cooking soups to stock his freezer. I even travel to his village every planting and harvest season to work on his mother’s farm under the hot sun, just to prove I’m “wife material.” Yesterday broke me 💔. After washing a mountain of clothes and cooking until my body ached, my mum called needing urgent help. I told him I’d return the next day to iron, but he got angry and called me lazy. He said I’m not ready for marriage because I couldn’t iron after everything I’d done. He showed no concern for my tiredness or my mum’s needs. Now planting season is here again. I told him I can’t travel because I have a professional exam I’ve already paid for, my future is on the line. He said if I don’t go, I should forget the relationship. He called me weak, disrespectful, and not “submissive” enough to be a wife. I’m tired. I feel like a servant, not a partner. But I’m 28 and have given him 5 years of my life. Starting over scares me. How do I make him change, or is it time to walk away after everything I’ve invested? 😔

@peng_writer Hmm

Why do some women do this tho? 😂 😂 😂 Shey you sef dey do wetin you dey for your parents for his parents too?

@Jemeelahh_ 😂 " indeed there's blessings in what we dislike ....." some people understand and know the rest of the quote. I hope you come back to your senses before it's too late

@Jemeelahh_ Tell her your mind, don't keep mute about it let her know how ungrateful she is except if she has done something for you which she thought her wedding was a payback but even at that she wasn't raised well