becca

5 years ago I was diagnosed with early stages of cervical cancer, which meant I had to have a smear test every year. As of today, I have been officially cleared and won’t need another checkup for 3 years😭🥳

Well, the years start comin' and they don't stop comin' and they don't stop comin' and they don't stop comin' and they don't stop comin' and they don't stop comin' and they don't stop comin' and they don't stop comin' and they don't stop comin' and they don't stop comin'

call me a clit the way men be rubbing me the wrong way these days omg

Me quietly dealing with something that clearly affected me more than I’ll ever admit.

sometimes i’m like.....what is the point of all this ???and then i hang out with the people i love, and for a brief moment, i see

When you finally get the last bit of proof that makes you realize you need to let go and move on, but apart of you is stuck on how y’all were before everything.

big on "you could've just told me"

a lot of adults don't better themselves??? and have no intention of growth or healing??? they’re just living their lives with horrible communication skills, lack of emotional intelligence, selfishness, and hurt feelings FOREVER?????

even at my worst i’m still fucking considerate

I’m forever a ‘you could’ve just told me’ kind of person. I can handle the truth. I can’t handle being lied to.

personally, being ignored triggers me very, very badly.

Being ignored does something to my brain man and it’s not nice at all.

empathy burnout is real, after all these years of understanding the people around you, trying to put yourself on their situation, putting others first before you, and now you're drained and have became indifferent.

Once upon a time I got this overwhelming urge to text a friend of mine. Just to ask how he was doing. I was in the middle of folding laundry and my gut told me this text absolutely cannot wait. Not one moment. Not until I'm done with the laundry which would have taken just a few minutes. The text had to go right now. Turns out he had been moments away from committing suicide. He had everything ready. Important papers laid out. Note on the door instructing anyone who came looking to call the police and not enter the house themselves because his corpse is in there. He changed his mind because I sent him a text. Just asking how he was doing. A little ramble how busy I had been lately and we should go get some coffee and catch up soon. He changed his mind because there was still one person on this earth who cared enough to ask how he was doing. Remember to reach out to your friends. If your gut tells you must reach out, do it. You might end up saving a life with one simple text message.

A grandmother in Missouri is pushing for a new law that would require drunk drivers to pay child support if they kill a parent. (Bentley's Law)

people say cats aren't affectionate but they will literally follow you from room to room just to always be near you and if that isn't a love language then i don’t know what is

laying in bed and seeing this is like the house version of being in a boat and seeing a shark fin

i found this guy on youtube who films his cats with a 1999 sony camcorder and it's the most calming and soothing thing i've ever seen