BeRealist
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@wisenser @venom1s If i hv to talk abt adults like president,army chief,traffic police, labourer then can speak acc to their positions, president will be sacked immediately over such remarks which dilutes her position labourer will be last,she is not jst Teenager,she took oath of a noble profession
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@blazingBrainz @Anuradha6jza Nowadays Only girls know how boys make fun & make vulgar jokes on bhabi... That's why a married woman who loves to hear didi instead of bhabi & what's the problem with calling someone didi ??
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A woman was standing at her food stall when a young customer approached and said, “Bhabhi, give me a plate.”
The woman immediately replied, “Aren’t you ashamed? How can you call me Bhabhi? You should call me Didi or Madam.”
The young man responded, “Alright, Didi, please give me a plate of food.”
The woman nodded and said, “That’s better. If you speak respectfully, only then will you get a plate.”
Before she served him, the young man asked, “Didi, how much does one plate cost?”
The woman replied, “Bhaiyya, one plate is 80 rupees.”
The young man said, “It used to be only 60 rupees. Now you’re charging a lot more.”
The woman answered, “I’ve been selling it for 80 rupees for the past year. Do you have any idea how much the price of a gas cylinder has increased during that time?”
The young man then said, “Alright, make one plate for me.”
The woman began preparing the plate. While watching her, the young man started pointing out flaws, saying, “The rajma is too watery, and the kadhi seems to have only pakoras in it. Where’s the actual kadhi?”
Even so, the woman finished preparing the plate. But just as she was about to hand it over, the young man suddenly said, “I don’t want to eat this food.”
The woman lost her temper and sharply scolded him. “Then why did you ask for it in the first place? If you didn’t want to eat, why waste my time? Now leave, and don’t come back here pretending you want food.”
Seeing the woman’s anger, the young man decided it was best to leave quietly. After getting thoroughly scolded, he walked away, shamelessly laughing to himself.


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@rishibagree @KanoongoPriyank @EduMinOfIndia this person is not suitable for teching role,plz releive hin from his duties permanently
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@Derivatives_Pro @CountryGulshan Bhaa bss kr dimag ka dahi mt kr, society kya hai isko pdh le pehle dhng se,i m no one to tell others what he can do, society can and does(only trivial issues sometimes bigger for other party),it is acceptable,right or wrong u decide,
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@Berealistt @CountryGulshan Who defines what’s others can do?
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A girl was looking for a rental flat in the Baner area of Pune. She had clearly informed the broker that the society she would be living in should not have any restrictions on guests coming and going. The broker assured her that there would be no such issues.
Based on that assurance, she rented the flat and spent around ₹1.25 lakh on rent, security deposit, brokerage, and shifting her belongings. After moving into the new home, she also hosted a housewarming gathering where some of her friends visited.
According to the girl, on the very same day, members of the society objected and informed her that there was a restriction on male guests visiting female bachelors.
She pointed out that the broker had never disclosed this rule while showing or renting out the flat, despite her making it clear from the beginning that having no guest restrictions was her primary condition.
As a result, she is now forced to look for another home. This has caused her significant financial loss as well as considerable mental stress.
It is the responsibility of brokers to clearly communicate all society rules and restrictions to prospective tenants. Unfortunately, some brokers misrepresent facts solely to earn their commission, leaving tenants trapped in difficult situations. People should be cautious and stay away from such brokers.


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@Abhishekkkk10 Yeah it happened with me two three times (i commuted by trains frequently for 2-3 yrs),i just say "apne feet side kro mam",most of the time it was just innocent i mean I don't think there were any malicious intent behind that from their side,but in bw thighs big noooo
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So I'm a 28 year old male and I was returning home by train. This 26-30 year old lady placed her feet between my thighs. Along with she was shaking that, which were touching my thighs and balls. I froze for like 3-4 minutes (doing nothing just staring at my phone for 3-4 minutes straight). I didn't have the courage to stand up or to ask her to put her feet down.
Idk man if it's normal or not. But i felt very awkward. When her feet were touching my balls and thighs I got scared so bad that my heart beat doubled.


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@Derivatives_Pro @CountryGulshan Society and I can't exist simultaneously,when u will understand this u will get it what i am sayin and what others are,(and keep in mind rules here are trivial kind of, precautionary kind of,not absolute and sacrosanct)
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@Berealistt @CountryGulshan So you are telling me, if I create a society where you live & I design new rules which I like, you will comply?
Ever heard of constitution rights? I may be knowing less knowledge than you, but I know my rights well.
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@Derivatives_Pro @CountryGulshan Just because they live in society they don't.... Lol,u need to study what is society actually,they indeed can form rules,thats hiw society works,here broker is at wrong
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@CountryGulshan Don’t blame the broker, or blame the girl.
Blame the society, no one has the authority to stop anyone’s freedom. Just because they live in a society doesn’t permit anyone to create rules to objectively define anyone’s freedom.
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@JustBotBecky @njp_1 Leavin aside generational money point all r valid here in east too,more or less bt ys they r valid,female raping minor is 110% valid here,actually worse thn west,false words harmin reputation is also same as it is In west,more the patriarchal societyMore Harm To men's reputation
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@njp_1 Sure, Western women complain about how western women have it bad and as example we should look at Eastern women.. Totally makes sense
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Noone said women don't get bodyshamed. We said men get bodyshamed too because someone claimed they do not.
We, women, are the privileged gender if anything. Women get raped and get support for it. Men get raped and they get mocked for it. Adult men who slept with 17 year old girls are getting jailed while adult women who sleep with 13 year olds tend to get spared jail.
Women had about the same voting rights as men. All women having the right to vote came only 10 years after all men getting the right to vote.
Women can have women-spaces only while men dont.
Women are morelikely to graduate than men thanks to organisations focussing on women.
There are women who have access to generational money too just like there are men, often earned by their fathers or grandfathers who worked hard for that. They worked hard to be able to leave something behind for their children and that's their right.
We, women, hold the power to decide whether we procreate or abort a life, can ruin a man's life with just false words and if you were to admit having lied, you dont get jailed.
We are privileged, not oppressed.
USArJokerz@usaRjokers
@HungryyBurgerr @JustBotBecky Lol women also get shamed daily for our bodies. Your privelege is having male generational access to money, land, education, voting rights, and being able to be in public spaces and not be graped
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@gazetory Bekâr erkek belli başlı iyi özellikleri olmadığı için mi bekâr evli erkeğe yapışan kadın karaktersizdir evli olduğu halde bir kadının kendine yapışmasına fırsat veren erkek de karaktersizdir nokta. Teşekkürler.
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Psikolog Buse Aydın'a göre evli erkekler neden daha çok ilgi görüyor?
🔶 "Evliyim" diyorum herkes yapışmaya çalışıyor.
🔶 Neden bekarken kimse yapışmıyordu?
🔶 Hemen söylüyorum bunu her zaman açıkladığımız gibi gene bilimsel olarak (!) açıklayalım.
🔶 Kadın kadını, para parayı çeker.
🔶 Neden diyeceksiniz?
🔶 Bir kadın sizin yanınızda bir kadın gördüğünde diyor ki, bu adam demek ki o kadar da mal değil.
🔶 Belli başlı iyi özellikleri var ki yanındaki kadın bunu tercih etmiş.
🔶 İşte kadınların düşünce sistemi tam olarak böyle çalışıyor.
🔶 O yüzden kız kankalarınızı yanınızdan ayırmayınız.
🔶 Teşekkürler.


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It's funny how we use to tell people with anxiety that "people in public aren't making fun of you, they don't even notice you so don't be scared" and then the internet just proved to us that people will make fun of you when you're in public for virtually no reason at all.
Beer@BeerBehavior
holy no return offer. no belt, pants too long, and nikes lol #nobid #geed
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@GyaniBabaHu @PhantomPetalss Rehn de Bhai, she already said every woman is beautiful.
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@PhantomPetalss That's a strawman. The post says nothing about whether ugly people should live or die. It's making a claim about confidence and self-awareness. If you think the claim is false, explain why it's false instead of arguing against something nobody said.
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According to the man who posted this and the people agreeing with him, if your sister is ugly,should she just stop living? Bcz in a world where people constantly remind you that you're ugly, you'll always be made to feel less confident. It's better to die than live in this hell😂
Pawan@_bas_kar_pawan
Applied to all bitches
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@ImRadioactive0 @TheRubric_Medic Absolutely true,thats why i am against this view of feminism where perfect equality exist cuz it is not possible, tum jitna mrzi try krlo even then 1-2% population will always remain criminal,they r usually blame men,not govt for their protection, algorithm make it worse,no end
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@TheRubric_Medic We both genders keep fighting each other, but deep down we both know that 50% of us are dirty, dishonest, and cheating. They either trap innocent men or women.
We innocent people keep fighting, and they are fueling this by cheating more and more in relationships.
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@sangriaenjoyer @rohantruroi Assymetry doesn't matter here,this debate is abt benefits received by one gender from others,in sex both are getting what they want with their consents,r u also one of those who bring new irrelevant point in a debate cuz u can't counter another valid point (mod women cook less)
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@rohantruroi Yeah they do enjoy, but it doesnt remove asymmetry that is inherent in the act.
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There was a time when a man had to get married to get home cooked food along with sex from a woman.
Now you can get both without marriage.
Modern Dating culture is a jackpot for men and a reckless debt for women.
Prateekaaryan 𝕏@AaryanPrateekX
roommate’s gf cooked paneer-rice for us
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@kadaipaneeeer @Grumpy_91 @frenkieee9 I thought bro will say she is just one not army and wo valid bji hota thoda sa, prr bhai to gaslight hi kr gya,lol,bro rehn de tu neutral ban ne aya tha bta k chla gya k hai nhi tu
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haha comparison is the thief of nuance. reread the tweet & her replies as well. she’s not defending her. i genuinely don’t understand why people are forcing a comparison between two different incidents, two different offenders and two entirely different contexts. not every discussion needs a whataboutism attached to it. you can put your own points if you disagree with any of mine?!
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to all the men out there, i urge you not to debate women right now.
i see a lot of men defending that clown by saying, “it was just a joke” or “you went to a comedy show, why are you taking it seriously?”
that’s exactly the point.
women aren’t reacting to a joke, they’re reacting to the mindset behind it.
because when a man casually suggests that spending ₹370 on a date means a woman owes him something in return, it stops being comedy & starts revealing character.
that’s why so many women are angry not because they missed the joke but because they’ve met that man before.
& he didn’t stop there.
in another video, he went on to talk about intimate details. about kissing her. about trying to put his hands where they weren’t wanted. about openly objectifying her body & about being rejected.
if your first instinct is to defend it & feeling sad about him losing his job over a viral reel, maybe ask yourself why.
it is exhausting to be a woman.
not just in rural villages.
not just in small towns.
everywhere on this earth.
women spend their lives calculating risks that most of us men never even notice.
which road to take.
whether to share their live location
whether to ignore a comment or confront it.
whether the man staring at them is just staring or planning something worse.
in past one month, three of my friends shared three different stories with me & honestly i had no idea how to even console them
one had an old man masturbate in front of her while she was returning from the gym at seven in the morning.
another stepped outside her house & walked 100 metres thinking it was the blinkit guy cause she ordered something. but no it wasn’t. it was a complete stranger who asked her to help her with an address & showed her a glimpse pornography on his phone & sped away with an evil smile.
the third stepped out of the gym (same gym as mine), crossed the road and was groped by a man on a passing bike.
three women. three stories. one month.
the saddest part is that none of those stories will shock most women reading this because almost every woman has her own version.
a stranger who followed her home.
a man who stood too close.
a relative who made her uncomfortable.
a crowd that looked away.
women don’t need statistics to understand fear.
many of them have lived it.
and that’s why so many men miss the point.
yes, some women use men, reject men for money & behave badly.
but those things do not make men afraid to walk home alone at night. they do not make men stay in high alert mode 24*7. they do not make men text their friends & family that : “i reached safely.”
they do not make men rethink what they wear before stepping outside. that is the difference.
so when women are angry, stop rushing to explain why they shouldn’t be. stop using your manchild logic to make her feel more stupid for venting out.
stop treating every expression of pain like a debate competition.
stop responding with “not all men.”
women already know it is not all men.
the problem is that it is enough men.
enough men for almost every woman to have a story.
enough men for mothers to worry.
enough men for daughters to stay alert.
enough men for fear to become routine.
there is so much that we as men will never fully understand but something does not need to be personally experienced to be taken seriously.
patriarchy isn’t just a system. it is a habit.
it lives in jokes. it lives in silences.
it lives in the casual objectification of women disguised as humour.
it lives in comment sections where women are reduced to objects and cuss words for having a voice.
it lives in the laughter that follows a degrading joke about women.
most of us inherited parts of it without choosing to, but being an adult means deciding what stays and what goes.
unlearn it because one day a woman will trust you enough to feel safe around you and if she cannot feel safe with the men who claim to love her then ask yourself what exactly have we become ???
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@_Kalicharan_ Wtf is this logic? Be a man? Like if someone thinks she said offensive things he is not a man?? Men are not supposed to take offence just bear everything as a joke cuz kalicharan decider of every men's psyche is saying it,bro give phone back to ur parents,u still need 18 yrs more
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Thought of not posting it but let's do it .
People will not like my opinion, but I think this man is more at fault than the girl.
I watched the entire video, and the guy said far worse things. What the girl said is honestly pretty normal. Guys themselves often joke with each other about their sizes. If we men were there, we'd probably joke about it too.
And the main point is , since when have men become so sensitive that they get offended by such a little thing ? Or is it that everyone in India is insecure about their sizes 👀, which is why they're taking it so personally ?
But the Fact is the criticism of this girl is happening now only because a guy said something offensive, and people suddenly feel the need to find faults on the women's side as well.
Where were all these critics when the video first came out ? She gained a huge following, and I'd bet that 90% of those followers were men, because most men simply didn't care about these comments & joke .
As for people saying she mocked a dead body ,how exactly is the dead person supposed to feel offended ?
Someone who donated their entire body for medical education probably wouldn't care whether people thought a particular body part was small or large. The doctors and students would likely just laugh and move on.
Personally, if I die, I'd donate my body too. And if people wanted to laugh at my private parts, go ahead make it viral online and let the whole world laugh. Mujhe or meri family ko jhat farak nhi pdega isse.
Don't keep such a narrow mindset.
Be a man !!

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@mishradidi @ravaldosa Shares a REAL example happening in her own vicinity (which is something EXTREMELY common, in fact rare to find exceptions to it), and then says feminism always meant gender equality (yes, only in dictionary). In real life it's always about seeking more privileges.
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true story: a couple went on a trip. spent approx INR 60k including flights, hotel, food. after the trip, the bf asks her to chip in cuz things got expensive and she was reluctant
so the gf asked her girlf for advice and her friend said “feminism is a choice and you choose not to pay” and as a feminist that is the worstt thing i’ve heart so far! like WTFFFF
if she’s out with her girlfriends, the bill gets split down to the exact rupee right!? splitting bill is not only the most feminist thing to do; but it’s also the most basic human consideration to extend since everyone has families, EMIs, loans and financial anxiety and honestly why wouldn’t you support your partner??
splitting bills shouldn’t be gendered in 2026
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He adopted her from a third world shit hole, allowed her every possible privilege in life and this is the thanks he gets.
There is a lesson in this.
non aesthetic things@PicturesFoIder
Brad Pitt’s daughter Zahara files to legally drop his last name
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@KrishaAsiagh Ended the video as she said narrative is being ...,this is not apology this is damage control by blaming others for ur actions
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