@BlGTREE @samlymatters With the tags attached!? What a weird delightful world we live in.
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Dallas Fletcher
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Dallas Fletcher
@CleverWhatever
bay area | non-profit grant writer | short and long fiction | crosswords | baked goods | autistic 🏳️🌈 he/him #BLM
Ohlone Territory Katılım Ocak 2011
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@CleverWhatever @samlymatters it’s like a status symbol abroad now lol there are crazy numbers of TJ totes in australia rn
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Lady in front of me at Trader Joe’s threw a fit bc they cut the tag off her mini tote bag. Cashier explained it’s to stop reselling. She kept going in on him.
Me: Omg, did they cut the tag off your tote?
Her: YES!
Me: Makes sense. I used to make a killing reselling those.
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@looneyfox_1 lmao I would love to know when the feeling special part starts bc I’m struggling as are most neurodivergent people I know.
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@beesniamhss Not just wild, it’s unethical and inappropriate and yet another signal that he only ever thinks about himself.
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@AliArthPainter @ohcomrade1 @epballou Internalized ableism. That’s why. They need therapy. Not worth arguing with them about it. I’m gonna block and move on.
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@ohcomrade1 @CleverWhatever @epballou It can also be down to autism. Why are you so dismissive of autistics who don't fit into your idea of the 'autistic genius'?
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"Is autism a disorder? Is it just a difference?" 🧐
Disability. The word you are almost certainly looking for is disability.
Autism is a disability.
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@CleverWhatever @epballou @AliArthPainter Uh, no, Autistics literally excel and process more than allistics do.
Isaac Newton wasn't disordered, sorry to say.
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@ohcomrade1 @epballou @AliArthPainter Don’t know if I should both but by every medical definition it’s a disorder and while the individual experiences of autism are a spectrum it certainly disables me and many other people in many other ways than just socially.
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@epballou @AliArthPainter Autism is not a disorder and is only a social disability at best.
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@CleverWhatever @v1olyn @theoceanblooms Also, not for nothing but your evidence that he’s a bad person is that he bought his kids a dog without talking to his wife (he doesn’t need her permission, but he should’ve talked to her about it).
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@dothejackal @v1olyn @theoceanblooms The very first thing we learn about Langdon in the very first episode is that he bought a doodle for his kids without his wife’s permission! That tells you everything you need to know about the man. Seems like maybe you haven’t seen the show so you should probably start there.
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@dothejackal @v1olyn @theoceanblooms No, not all addicts, just this one in particular who is a bad person for many reasons that have nothing to do with his addiction!
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If Frank Langdon were actually a changed man, he would recognize and accept that he is not entitled to anyone’s forgiveness and friendship nor to a workplace that is the same as it was before.
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@CleverWhatever @v1olyn @theoceanblooms The way y’all talk about addicts and addiction is so incredibly gross (and telling).
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@divalectics She did intentionally lock him in the car but it was because she found out he was the pittfest shooter
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i’m going to go on record and say that i don’t think his mom intentionally locked him in a hot car for a time out
sav 🩺 pitt s2 spoilers@mohabboting
the shot of their hands intentionally showing us his dirty fingernails but then the mom saying he didn't want to help in the garden.....
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@lovepanikkar Without telling her! This is literally the first thing we find out about him and somehow people think he’s a good guy???
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"my wife threatened to divorce me" you got her a dog to take of along with your two young children.. your wife should've killed you man
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@CleverWhatever I mean if no one likes him then why would she be a pariah?
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It is interesting how we know Santos feels like she’s been a pariah for ten months when we’ve seen most of her peers trying to have convos with her this shift, meanwhile we know Langdon was in recovery for ten months and no one from the hospital contacted him during that time
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@Judgejudyx4 @theoceanblooms THANKING HER!!!! 📢 yesssss for real
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@theoceanblooms And then get defensive when they bring up valid pushback and go on the defensive fishing for pity. His apology was literally. "Sorry I was a jerk, you can hate me and that's fine" 0 accountability,downplaying his actions. He should be thanking her for saving him.
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@v1olyn @theoceanblooms He’s doing it to look like a good boy for his sponsor and check it off his list so he doesn’t have to think about it any more.
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@theoceanblooms its because he's not apologising because he's sorry, he's doing it to get santos off of his back and clear up things so he can go back to being liked. he doesn't care about anyone but himself and his own reputation in this situation and its obvious
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@theoceanblooms He’s so antsy to get it over with he doesn’t take into account how the apology will land for people who are just trying to do their job in that moment. This isn’t restitutional behavior.
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@theoceanblooms Also, I hate that I have to keep saying this, but to properly make amends he should never be cornering people unexpectedly in the middle of a high-crisis workshift! He should have asked for time to talk in a neutral location when folks were ready.
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