

Conservative Pen
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@ConservativePen
Writer. Mom. Oklahoma raised. Conservative. Unapologetic. Exposing RINOs. Calling it straight. If that bothers you, good.



Ummm, super gay 🤣










Sitting here trying a new recipe for gluten free hot dog buns, and really focusing on every little detail in hopes of making the perfect ones. While I'm waiting for the dough to rise, it has me thinking. When we judge people, we often give every flaw our full attention. We dissect them, replay painful experiences, and let those parts shape the entire story. But we rarely give the same time and energy to their kindness, or growth, or the things they've done well; especially if those things challenge the narrative we've already decided to believe. People are a lot like baking. You can't leave out half the ingredients, or skip a few steps and expect to appreciate the finished product. That's how I try to view the people in my life. I can't judge someone solely by the ways they've hurt me, just as I can't expect perfection from them. I know I wouldn't survive being measured only by my worst moments. I’ve hurt people I love. I've made mistakes and I'll make more. None of us are simply one ingredient. We're the sum of our experiences, our failures, our victories, our wounds, and the choices we make in this life. Maybe that's why grace matters so much. It's the ingredient we all need to sprinkle a little more of. Of course grace and understanding doesn’t excuse everything, but it can remind us that people are almost always more complex than the story we tell ourselves about them.

