@HazelAppleyard I think marriage shows you're committed to each other, & therefore is a very sensible precursor to having kids together.
I've also seen some absolutely disgusting divorce court decisions. Some jurisdictions really need reform, or a lot of people will continue to feel this way.
@DanM43549751@aander1987@Blacksword011 Yep, women are always looking for things to complain about. That’s what I like about most men, they are very stoic and never complain about anything.
@Madeinavalon@aander1987@Blacksword011 Some of us do daily tasks with the kids, kitchen, etc., and still get whined at about things like ‘mental load’. Some women just aren’t very stoic and anything to complain about will do in a pinch.
@aander1987@Blacksword011 Sorry this is a poor argument even if you believe in strictly gendered family roles - 24/7 total family mental load vs remembering to fuel car or occasionally buy tyres or flip a fuse? Blindness to inequity is what holds women back in all walks of life. What they need is a wife.
Gavin Newsom's wife recalls telling prisoners at San Quentin about running over and killing her sister with a golf cart.
She said that she wasn't punished because it was an accident but that the prisoners are doing life even though theirs was "probably an accident too."
@missdarnyl@libsoftiktok He’s not. He’s just explaining that when he was a child too young to know better, his doctors gave him poor care because they were brainwashed or bullied into uncritically following a medical fad.
@libsoftiktok why is he acting like they tied his hands and forced him to take hormone blockers? LMAO, this is obviously an MAGA stunt to malign the image of the trans community
Democrat CA State Sen. Scott Wiener SQUIRMS as a 23-year-old man rips into transgenderism for permanently destroying his body.
"They poison my body with blockers and hormones... The result? I'm a 23-year-old gay man who's never had an orgasm."
@fandompulse I think you can do it if you do your best to steelman both sides (like proponents of each side would do their best to do in a real life argument), or if you truly have an enlightening, original example. But I definitely get his frustration - so many authors are so ham-handed.
Project Hail Mary writer Andy Weir on social commentary in books:
"I dislike social commentary. Like… I really hate it. When I’m reading a book, I just want to be entertained, not preached at by the author. Plus, it ruins the wonder of the story if I know the author has a political or social axe to grind. I no longer speculate about all possible outcomes of the story because I know for a fact that the universe of that book will conspire to ensure that the author’s political agenda is validated. I hate that."
"I put no politics or social commentary into my stories at all. Anyone who thinks they see something like that is reading it in on their own. I have no point to make, and I’m not trying to affect the reader’s opinion on anything. My sole job is to entertain, and I stick to that."
"To that end, I also don’t talk about my personal political opinions publicly. I don’t want readers to even know, honestly. I don’t want that in the back of their minds as they read my stuff."
Is this why he has the #1 sci-fi movie in decades?
Piker: Every single dollar that is spent on a bomb is stolen from each of you because that’s a dollar that they spend blowing up a school overseas instead of building schools in your neighborhood.
🚨 MAMDANI: “The wealth of a median white household in the city is more than $200,000, while that of a black household is less than $20,000 … We are reckoning with the long history of racism here and starting to act upon a framework that puts equity right at the center of it.”
Bill Maher asks Ana Kasparian which Middle Eastern country she would feel comfortable wearing “that dress” and then this happened.
MAHER: “If you had to live in the Middle East. Any city. Where would you live where you’d be comfortable in that dress?”
ANA: “I’m sure I would not be comfortable in this dress in any of the various Middle Eastern countries that have been destabilized by—”
MAHER INTERRUPTS: “Really? You’re not really blaming it on whitey, are you? You’re blaming Islam on whitey?”
ANA: “I’m not blaming Islam on whitey.”
MAHER: “But what you’re saying is we destabilize? That’s why you can’t wear that dress?”
ANA: “Did we destabilize?”
MAHER: “Wait a second.”
ANA: “We were funding terrorist organizations in Syria during the Syrian civil war starting under the Obama administration.”
MAHER: “We’re talking about your dress.”
ANA: “It looks good, I know.”
MAHER: “You’re saying you can’t wear that dress in Syria because of whitey destabilizing?”
ANA: “I didn’t say that.”
MAHER: “Okay, that’s what it sounded like… When I asked about the dress, you went right to destabilize. So is that why you couldn’t wear that dress?”
ANA: “You want me to talk about jihadism and Islam.”
MAHER: “Why won’t you? Why won’t you?”
ANA: “I don’t believe in jihadism, which is why I’m furious the United States just had significant Al Qaeda terrorists in the White House.”
MAHER: “But it’s not just jihadism that is preventing you from wearing that dress there. Are you saying every Muslim is a jihadist? I don’t think they are.”
ANA: “Bill. Bill, Bill, Bill. Let’s focus for a second.”
MAHER: “No, you won’t answer this question.”
@VigilantFox Apparently “western destabilization” is responsible for all the problems in the Islamic world… except that they were capturing and castrating slaves en masse for long periods of time while nobody was “destabilizing” them.
@HazelAppleyard I’m sure when your former partner isn’t around, any man who gives your kid the time of day and lets you both hang out in his house looks like prime marriage material.