Drew

@honeyandsting @Aek366 🤦🏻‍♂️

@Aek366 @Drewuhuu Understanding the meaning of the words gay and homosexual is hardly trying to “enforce ideological purity” 😂

I can’t express how much pity and anger I feel toward gay men who are willing to throw their fellows under the bus for asserting boundaries. One day they’ll look back at themselves in disgust, at how easily they were captured by slogans disguised as inclusivity.

@MatthewGreenf11 @AllianceLGB ❤️

And while I have your attention, Stonewall may have abandoned gay people in return for richer funding opportunities and the social lives of its handsomely rewarded officers but here is the one organisation that hasn't; lgballiance.org.uk/donate/ @ALLIANCELGB

This is going to be a longish, rambling, bottle-of-wine-in-the-afternoon thread about why I take the dereliction of duty by (while conveniently continuing to fundraise in my name & presuming a right to still speak for me) nominally LGB orgs like Stonewall so personally.

@JEFFVARNER @Aek366 @benappel 👏🏻 👏🏻

@Aek366 @benappel I reject that gaslight. Now, straighten your wig and move on.

Ben Appel’s WSJ piece “I’m Gay, but That Doesn’t Make Me ‘Queer’” is excellent and necessary. @benappel bravely stating what so many of us feel. Our sexuality doesn’t require rejecting what’s normal and legitimate. It doesn’t force us to embrace “queer” ideology or become an identity insurgent. He nails it. Queer theory isn’t gay rights; it’s a misguided rejection of shared human values and reality itself. It’s rare to see this perspective from a gay male in mainstream media. Well done, Ben.

@Aek366 Gay men are not monolithic in thought, politics, or expression. The one common trait they share is being same sex attracted. What you call ideological purity is nothing more than an attempt to override reality

@Drewuhuu Understanding an argument and finiding it convincing is not the same. Your position collapses under the slightest scrutiny.

@RandomGadgie @doberman_tony @RealPeterLeo A gay man willing to be guilted or shamed into sleeping with women as a supposed form of progress or self acceptance is a far more accurate description of internalized homophobia. Setting boundaries, and being comfortable in your sexuality is not.

@doberman_tony @RealPeterLeo @Drewuhuu Exactly. I'm glad you agree. Now you understand why being homosexual doesn't preclude you from homophobia (prejudice against homosexuals).

These people are insufferable. How many times do I need to answer the same question? 🤦🏻‍♂️

@Aek366 I clearly stated my position. Use your reading comprehension skills, or ask for a refund back on that psychology degree.

@Drewuhuu Calling it weak isn’t an argument. Either explain the flaw or address the contradiction.

@Aek366 Weak rhetorical move

@Drewuhuu You start by saying gay men aren’t a monolith and end by trying to enforce ideological purity. That contradiction is doing most of the work here.

@JolythNOLA He explicitly states he’s gay in his profile, but who knows. 🤷🏻‍♂️ It doesn’t detract from the point I was making.

@Drewuhuu That doesn’t sound like a gay man (not that I have experience being a gay man). It sounds more like the GenZ version of a “phag hag”. (A transman obsessed with gay men who thinks they can get real gay men to date them)

@Manyliany I’ll admit that being gay is not a monolith. However, the common factor we share is our same sex attraction. If you’re “gay” and open to experiences with women you may need to rethink your sexuality. Otherwise I’d suggest finding some semblance of self respect.

@Drewuhuu Look, no one cares if you're a nymphomaniac who cares abt sex and nothing else. You do not speak for every gay men, especially not for me. You are just projecting your own personal experience and tastes on every gay, LOL.

@LaVidaDeOliver 🤣🤣

@RealRynix Good for you man!

One year in, and I’m still figuring it out but I’m so grateful for how far I’ve come. I’m excited for what the future holds as I keep living more authentically. (5/5)

One year ago today March 30, 2025, around 8 pm I finally decided it was time. Time to stop hiding. After dinner, I sat down with both of my parents and told them I’m gay. I was scared, but I knew I couldn’t keep living half a life. (1/5)

@ShahFahmil His orientation doesn’t change. She remains a female.

@Drewuhuu Let’s say you are a straight male and find a female that identifies as a woman that you are attracted to. They decide the next morning to identify as a man. You see them the next day before they speak to you and are still attracted to that female. Did your orientation change?

@eyeswideslvt It’s because of people like you that more and more gay men and lesbians are happily embracing being “transphobic”

- no one is forcing you to sleep w/ transwomen. People are simply stating that if you as a lesbian, cant/wont date a transwoman that makes you transphobic. Either embrace the label & deal with it, or change your attitude & you won’t get called a transphobe and bigot. Simple.

Sometimes I think you should shit with the fact that you might be a little bigoted and then work through that. Being bigoted went out of vogue years ago so now instead of acknowledging your bigotry you have to deny it exists. You don’t HAVE to change anything about yourself -

@minimalist2021 Most likely

@Drewuhuu It's like arguing with an autistic virgin.

Thanks for the comments. Fortunately @NotThatDragonD and myself were able to amicably part ways.

@NotThatDragonD I really feel pity for you. Your parents/society failed you miserably. ✌🏻

@Drewuhuu I mean, you literally just said you use your eyes. Did you say that? If you use your eyes, you can't be same sex attracted. Your eyes cannot see gametes. Your eyes cannot see chromosomes. They can't even see hormones. So if your attracted via eyes, you're not attracted to sex

“same sex attraction” is a conversion therapy term terfs are desperate to push conversion therapy on gay people the idea is to normalise conversion therapy and administer it online against our will while denying the history and origin of the term

@NotThatDragonD take a look at my profile. Maybe some of the other answers could help you.

@Drewuhuu Ah, so your eyes. Great! Thanks for confirming that you cannot tell what sex someone was born as and that you use gendered clues to determine who you are attracted to! Not at all "same sex attracted" cause your eyes can't see anything related to sex.

@NotThatDragonD @mushycrouton 👀

@Drewuhuu @mushycrouton And how is that?