You're free to disagree, but I see marriage proposal as a very private affair.
You, your wife-to-be and God.
Both of you make a vow to each other, & commit your marriage & your future to God.
And this should be after your parents have consented to it.
Then you can choose to announce it to the world with a vuvuzela, if you so wish.
I don't understand this thing that some of you do.
The public, instigating or gaslighting your woman to "say yes".
Are they the ones that would be in the marriage?
Will they be the one to be fucking her?
Will they feed, cloth & protect her for you?
Will they feed your unborn kids for you?
Why do you care so much about public validation over a moment that should be private, solemn and symbolic?
This is how I see it.
Like I said, you don't have to agree with me, but think about it before you make yourselves a public ridicule.
End.
I'll make it Four.
1. Everyone can't make it, regardless of how we all try
2. Karma doesn't exist. If you want revenge, go and get it by yourself or forget it and leave everything to God.
3. Those who you were always there for can wake up one day and say you never did anything for them.
4. Money makes you a better person, a better sibling, a better friend, a better neighbor, even a better child.
When 10 girls are in a room…
Do you know at least 6-8 of them are not looking up to the one with a good job and a good degree?
You see that one with a “intentional man” in her life that spoil her with millions…. That’s the OG they all look up to.
HOW TO INCREASE YOUR AURA:
1. Don’t talk about your plans, show results.
2. Smile with your mouth closed.
3. Nod, instead of saying yes.
4. Don’t talk that much about yourself.
5. Don’t always be available.
6. Have a firm handshake.
7. Speak calmly and deliberately.
8. Dress in a clean, confident style.
9. Be comfortable with silence.
It’s one degree outside 🎓…. Keep warm pleaseeeee 🤭😂
I came, I saw, I conquered and left as the overall best graduating student🤭…. With distinctions🙈
Jah did!!🙏
@LadeMrsMoney I saw the speech you read for them on TikTok, I just knew that face was familiar but I couldn’t point out from where. It was a lovely speech that made me smile all through the video, and the hug at the end of the video 🤭🤭 I love 🤭🤭
Unrelated but a lecturer saw me wearing offshoulder in Uni and took me to his faculty staff room where a lot was said but the one that stuck was “what are you trying to show off, your bones???”
I don’t remember your name but Agbaya ni yin sir and I hope you’re balding fast.
My sister and I planned a girl’s trip in December but now she’s telling me that she’s going to travel with her man instead.
And so it begins….. I’m losing my sister to a man. I need oxygen 😭