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#28 Special Guest Edition: Dating Abroad From Lima to Manila with @WorldWingman Video: youtube.com/watch?v=0mLau4… 1) Dating success is not just skill—it’s positioning, environment, and calibration. 2) The same man gets radically different results depending on the country. 3) A small increase in your relative rank (top 10% → top 5%) changes everything. 4) Dating apps are skewed: photos decide, and a minority of men dominate. 5) In the West, small mistakes kill attraction; elsewhere, you get margin for error. 6) Women read social cues and neediness far better than most men think. 7) Hot women don’t want admiration: they want non-reactive behaviour. 8) Chemistry and vibe matter more than pure looks in real outcomes. 9) High-level dating is about selection, not chasing or “closing everything.” 10) Everything is a trade-off: better lifestyle = more competition, easier dating = fewer perks.
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@FrenchOG3 When it’s not a character issue, it’s a skill issue. Caring and having the capacity to provide what is needed as care are two very different things. The former without the latter is experienced as “well intentioned but impotent” So caring but not caring.
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Seduction is letting the other person’s mind fill in the gaps from the space you gave so they can convince themselves of something you never said.
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Welcoming women as friends without seeing them through a sexual lens is indirectly signalling you are not in scarcity. It does not mean you need to have any or many, but this is actually a good test to see how much sexual discipline and outcome independence you have.
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Men easily fall hard for women who genuinely care when they meet one because they are so rare.
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Remember you are not the only person in the world when you are dealing with someone. Although this can be used as cope to accept lesser treatment, but the reality is people are mostly driven by what matters to them. You are a variable amongst many. Arguably, you will have a bigger place in someone’s life based on how what you provide is scarce to them, and they will adjust accordingly, but the below saying is there to often validate and ridiculously stretch expectations from others for inertia purposes. “If they wanted to, they would.” Then ask yourself who are you to them. If they barely know you, or you are a stranger, if you don’t offer value to them one way or another through what you have displayed, then what do you expect when they don’t meet your expectations. If they do know you, but they are not meeting the milestones, then the medium is the message. The longer someone entertains you and what is expected is not met, the more valid the saying is. If you use it to validate your little contribution, and expectations to be chased or have your ego stroked, then you are just shooting yourself in the foot. Self-empowering delusion and lack of accountability.
Asanwa.sol@Chizitere_xyz

The most destructive piece of internet lore ever created is the phrase: "If they wanted to, they would." ​It sounds empowering, but it is actually deeply narcissistic. It assumes that a person’s actions are dictated 100% by their desire for you, while completely ignoring their capacity. ​A partner can desperately want to give you the world, but if they are fighting a silent financial war, battling burnout, or dealing with a health crisis, their capacity is at zero. Measuring a stressed partner's love strictly by their ability to "perform" is a lethal mistake. "If they wanted to, they would" is the fastest way to lose a fiercely loyal partner over a temporary lack of bandwidth.

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God made men romantics to lie to themselves so they can emotionally rationalise women’s shithousery
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I understand why older guys go for professionals.
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Mr K@Mr_Blue_Tiger·
@FrenchOG3 before covid, every guy i ever met was like HS since then, every guy i meet is more liberal and feminine like Louis Theroux the guys who didn’t take the jab still think like HS sounds like a conspiracy but those who know see it too
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Women will hate you for becoming even more shameless than them, because they can't control you like that. You are outgaslighting them.
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@NedFlandered I don't think so, french women are just more honest about it.
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@FrenchOG3 Is the female promiscuity thing as bad as they say in France or just a bit of a meme?
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