Ludwig Dieter 🌟🌟🎺

Men who stay abroad and then come back to get married, only to leave the woman in Nigeria for years without returning, have never made sense to me. Why not just marry a woman in the country you are living in and build your family there? Do these men genuinely expect these women to stay faithful for all those years? Again, what exactly is the benefit to the man? You don’t even get to enjoy any real benefits of marriage with your wife. I know someone who came back in 2023 to marry a girl, relocated and opened a shop for her in Ibadan, and since then he hasn’t returned to Nigeria again. It’s not even like he got her pregnant, which is what many of them usually do before leaving. I also don’t understand women who agree to this kind of arrangement, where you practically become sex and attention-starved for years. Any new marriage where the couple have barely bonded and then spend more than two years apart without seeing each other is already at serious risk. If you live abroad, marry a woman there. If you must marry in Nigeria, then make sure that within one year of the marriage, you bring her over to stay with you. Leaving your young wife in Nigeria for years without coming back is extremely risky and naturally makes her more prone to infidelity, unless you simply don’t care about that aspect. I have even read cases where the man eventually returns after many years and starts demanding that the woman swear oaths that no man touched her throughout the entire period before the marriage can continue. That arrangement honestly does not make sense to me.

This is how I missed the chance to play for the super eagles, ONE OF THE SADDEST DAY IN MY CAREER APRIL 5th 2014. Game week 21 in the Serbian super league match away to Spatark Subotica in a must win game for the title. 2 weeks before my agent had a chat with the Super Eagles at that time Steven keshi May his soul rest in peace and it was all set and done that I will be called up for a friendly match at Craven Cottage. I was having the best season with Red Star Belgrade with 11 goals scored in 20games and the league title was in our hands with 9 games left to play. 60mins of the game my dream of playing for Super eagles was shattered when i injured my knee after stepping on the ball wrongly trying to stop a counter attack. I was devastated by the incident and I went into depression for like 3months and I was so angry that I messed up my rehab for missing out on this big opportunity. I cried for days I lost weight I started partying in stead of doing rehab At this point I thought about quitting football because I didn't know how bad or how long would a total rapture of my MCL, meniscus tear and grade 1 ACL tear is. But then I remembered the reason why I wanted to play football in the first place and that was the therapy that helped me get a move to Vitesse Arnhem. In life you will always have setbacks but it's up to you to make sure that you come out stronger

People that moved to Canada in 2022 already having their citizenship is crazy, those of us that came to the UK the same year don’t even have a pathway to settlement yet

“Nigeria is déad let’s not deceive ourselves” “Once your accounting in naira, you are poor” —— Pastor Paul Adefarsin.

Incredible scenes in football today. Crystal Palace giving Arsenal a guard of honor Arsenal lift the premier league after 22 years Unai Emery presented a gift to Pep pre game. Villa players gave a guard of honor to both Bernardo and John Stones mid game, even the ref joined in clapping. Pep invited Gundogan and Ederson to join in his sending off as they were not properly sent off. Man City name the newly-opened North stand the Pep Guardiola stand. Add yours

I was introduced to sports betting during NYSC. I occasionally bet ₦100/₦200 and once won ₦365k, which helped me buy a phone and laptop. Deleted every betting app once I got my first job. I knew how destructive gambling habits can become.