Abeja Zion
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Abeja Zion
@IamAbeja
CHEMISTRY// COMPUTER SCIENCE//BUSINESS//BAAE//DAUGHTER//Luke 1:45//LOVER OF FLOWERS & LIFE
Uganda Katılım Şubat 2015
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My friend sent me a screenshot last night and said “isn’t this you” 😭
It was a TikTok.
Someone had filmed in a coffee shop.
In the background me. At my usual table. With my usual order.
Completely unaware 😭
The caption said “she comes in every Friday at 9am and I’ve been trying to work up the courage to talk to her for four months”
Four months.
FOUR MONTHS 😭😂
It had 200K views.
I sat staring at my phone not knowing whether to laugh or cry.
My friend said “you need to go back this Friday”
I said…..
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@Munalozy Dont talk to me in the morning, just give me my greeting and leave the f### alone .
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@Pisces2000004 @jon_d_doe I want to repost but let me just leave it here.
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@jon_d_doe I have saved this video,screenshot your response & forwarded it to my hubby.Even d little I have saved,he wants to use borrowing & finish me.I dusted my CV & got a job & he has been asking me if d job is stressful?I love stressful job sir😂😂😂.I no dey house again.
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I don't know if she is having fun with this video, but I am aware that there are wives who are genuinely tired.
From all indications, she may be a housewife.
You heard her say, "Nobody is giving me money." Looking at her kitchen, it appears to be in good condition and part of a decent apartment, which suggests that her husband must be trying to provide them with a proper home.
However, this is where I am driving at:
Married men whose wives are housewives (especially) should endeavour to give their wives monthly stipends outside any monies that they provide for the upkeep of the home.
It's not good for a wife not to have her own little money. See it as a compensation or encouragement for her sacrifices..
In today's world, where women can be gainfully employed and earn their own money, leaving her personal finances empty could discourage her or push her to demand a significant change in the dynamics of her marriage.
And the kids may bear the brunt of it.
Your wife is not supposed to come to ask you for money to do her hair.
Your wife is not supposed to come to you to beg you money for airtime or data.
Your wife is not supposed to come ask you for money for her sanitary wears or whenever she feels like eating something outside of what you have given her money for.
Your wife should always feel like she can buy female things or do things without coming to beg you for money.
Earmark a certain amount from your monthly income for her.
Women love money, and that's why her major complain is that "nobody is giving her money".
And she has a husband.
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“I’m tired of being a wife and mother, I’m really tired” — Woman breaks down emotionally as she speaks on domestic pressure and exhaustion
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