Ebenezer Ojuolape
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Ebenezer Ojuolape
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It’s my birthday today… and this one feels different. My first birthday without my mom. I’m in Nigeria right now, not even celebrating, but preparing to lay her to rest. Life didn’t even give me time to catch my breath… it just kept moving. I won’t lie, this is heavy. This is not how I imagined I’d be stepping into a new year. But even in all of this, God is still God. I’m still here. I’m still breathing. I’m still standing… and I don’t take that for granted. I miss her in ways I can’t even explain. There’s a space in my life that nothing can fill. But I carry her with me. In my heart. In my strength. In the way I’m still pushing, even on the hardest days. This birthday might not come with joy, or noise, or celebration… but it still means something. It means I survived days that tried to break me. It means there’s still purpose attached to my life. It means God is not done with me yet. So as I step into this new year, even in pain… I’m grateful. For life. For strength. For the grace to keep going. God, hold me. Comfort me. Carry me through what I don’t even have words for. Happy birthday to me.

NO Sarah @itsclassicsarah , rape trauma is fvcking brutal and it can haunt someone forever no argument there. But saying it’s better to be the one falsely accusing an innocent person than to be the victim? That’s saying it’s okay to ruin someone else’s entire life just to dodge your own pain. False accusations destroy people too careers, families, mental health, sometimes literally their will to live. And that damage doesn’t magically disappear either. Both are real suffering. Neither should be wished on anyone. But choosing to cause one kind of lifelong hell to avoid the other isn’t strength it’s just passing the trauma along. We should be fighting to stop both, not ranking which nightmare is the lesser evil.💔





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My mummy 😫 Even though you are strong right now, I just need to say this ,I love you. I may not say it as often as I should, but on your special day, here I am saying it with my whole heart. These past months and weeks have not been easy. I go about my days trying to be strong, smiling, acting like everything is fine… but sometimes I can’t hold back the tears when I think about the pain you’re going through. Watching someone you love fight so hard is not easy. But you? You have never stopped fighting. As I write this birthday message, my biggest prayer is for your healing. Complete healing. Every single fiber, every nerve, every vein in your body receives divine healing in the mighty name of Jesus. Strength where there is weakness. Peace where there is fear. Restoration where there has been pain. 2015 came and you beat breast cancer. You stood tall. You showed us what strength looks like. And now 2025 came with its drama again… but I know you. I know your God. And I know this is not the end of your story. You will still be with us for a long, long time. You will live long. You will stay strong. You will laugh again without pain. In Jesus’ name. Happy 76th birthday, Iya Seun ❤️ You are more than a mother. You are our strength, our covering, our testimony. And if this message gets to your TL, please say a little prayer for my mum. That’s the best birthday gift you can give her today. I love you. Even when I don’t say it enough… please always know that I do and I can’t wait to laugh with you ,like we always do❤️


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