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@InnocuousShark

If you’re reading this you must be lost

Katılım Şubat 2018
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@allie__voss And just to clarify this, you absolutely are not expected to say yes to any and every approach. If the guy keeps pressing after a simple no, then by all means put him on blast because now he’s the one not holding up his end of the social contract
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Allie ✞
Allie ✞@allie__voss·
As a woman you simply need to be okay with any guy approaching you Our options are “all guys can approach you” or “no guys can approach you,” but you can’t magically choose to only be approached by guys you personally approve of
Dcn. Garlick, Chancellor 🇻🇦@HarrisonGarlic1

Here are the rules: Church isn’t for dating until it is. Guy you’re not interested in asks you out = inappropriate place and time Guy you’re interested in asks you out = God’s providence Those are the rules I’ve observed.

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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@GambelerQuail Okay but in my experience, going out and living my life results in developing a close circle of people you hang out with often, and very rarely interacting with anyone new once that circle is set Can we really just ban the idea of approaching a stranger you find attractive?
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Quail friend 🪶🍁
Quail friend 🪶🍁@GambelerQuail·
Yeah I think the biggest problem is that they should already be doing these things. They should already have places to meet people. You can’t just live your life in isolation and then come out of your bunker to find a mate like you’re in Fallout or something
Pixie@FirstOrderPixie

@GambelerQuail The whole “[X Space] is not for dating!” vs “then WHERE IS??” back and forth is two groups entirely talking past each other. It is not that any particular space is not a place where you can potentially meet someone you connect with and then date. But that entering this space with

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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@soto_marche @greek_groyper @HarrisonGarlic1 I was hit on by a guy once. I wasn’t appalled, I simply told him I appreciate the compliment but I don’t play for that team and we both went on with our lives We need to make it more normal to express attraction without these adolescent reactions
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Dcn. Garlick, Chancellor 🇻🇦
Dcn. Garlick, Chancellor 🇻🇦@HarrisonGarlic1·
Here are the rules: Church isn’t for dating until it is. Guy you’re not interested in asks you out = inappropriate place and time Guy you’re interested in asks you out = God’s providence Those are the rules I’ve observed.
Mack@kenzietuff

Man posts in local Facebook group, moving to area. Asks which Catholic parishes have thriving community, would be best for single man to attend- “is successful + seeking wife soon” + same faith is priority. Entire comment section berating him. “Church isn’t for dating!”

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Chaotic Good
Chaotic Good@_ChaoticGood42·
@kangminlee You can meet people through church, but asking someone out while AT CHURCH services is definitely not the time or place.
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Kangmin Lee | 이강민
Kangmin Lee | 이강민@kangminlee·
If women at church are like this, where can men find good women today?
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@squrrlwhsprr26 @allie__voss How is a man supposed to get to know you as a person if they’re not allowed to approach you and start a conversation?
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Emerald Jade@squrrlwhsprr26·
@InnocuousShark @allie__voss The normal way is to show genuine interest in the other party as a person. Women react negatively when the way in which they're asked out makes them feel as though the man views them as a stand-in female placeholder that could easily be replaced. Rather than a whole human being.
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Allie ✞
Allie ✞@allie__voss·
Church is for dating That’s not its sole or primary purpose and it shouldn’t be your motivation for faith But yes, one of the purposes of the church is to bring together believers for many types of relationships, including romantic ones
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@squrrlwhsprr26 @allie__voss That may be the case, but all the stories I see from women on here never seem to indicate the man asked in an abnormal way Every single one seems to imply asking at all was the problem, not just the method
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Emerald Jade
Emerald Jade@squrrlwhsprr26·
@allie__voss You overestimate how many young men are capable of asking women out the normal way.
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@BlaireWhite Is she leaving her house ever? Because if she is I’m not sure how she hasn’t had a mental breakdown. I haven’t seen someone in public with a mask in years
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BLAIRE WHITE
BLAIRE WHITE@BlaireWhite·
My first instinct was to clown her, but I actually feel bad. She’s in a prison.
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Comrade Hayouhi
Comrade Hayouhi@ComradeHayouhi·
@AlHendiify @LaserDiscChris Man, the comments are giving me an aneurysm. There are entire civilizations lost to time that we have little to no knowledge about. What makes people so sure anything, let alone texts about nuclear waste will remain from today's world in 500 years,esp. given how things are going?
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@kenzietuff Like a lot of places you may find a potential spouse, it’s seen as bad form to explicitly state that as an intention For some reason, everyone is expected to never actually be interested in seeking a relationship with anyone
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Mack
Mack@kenzietuff·
This sentiment seems very common in a lot of churches, so “go to church to meet your wife” advice seems like bad advice. What do you think?
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Mack
Mack@kenzietuff·
Man posts in local Facebook group, moving to area. Asks which Catholic parishes have thriving community, would be best for single man to attend- “is successful + seeking wife soon” + same faith is priority. Entire comment section berating him. “Church isn’t for dating!”
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@AlexC_NJD If the NHLPA wants to keep letting their members get hurt with only minor repercussions, who am I to argue
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@Duderichy It’s also only women who use this term. I’ve never seen a man say he’s in a situationship. It’s purely women who think the guy they’re sleeping with is more than that
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the Rich
the Rich@Duderichy·
I think situationships are far less common than people think it's like the most slutty 10% who are also bad at dating who are in them most people just date and get into relationships
girlsay.@_GirlSay

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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@jack_stjames @upstatefederlst At the end of the day, above a certain standard the main difference between where you go to college is the people you’re around for those 4 years
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Jack St. James@jack_stjames·
@upstatefederlst Only kind of... everyone understands that it is 1. Excellent at advertising and 2. A country club for the rich kids who didn't get into an Ivy or otherwise prestigious colleges, and 2b. A college degree for the academically unimpressive children of those with money
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@schenn4jvr @KSG_SKOL A carrot is a positive incentive and a stick is a negative incentive. How do either of those apply here?
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Graham Ruthven
Graham Ruthven@grahamruthven·
We’re going to look so good as Brazil score their fifth goal against us 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@CodifyBaseball This is making me realize I should’ve been lying about my height all this time since apparently no one notices
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Codify
Codify@CodifyBaseball·
THAT IS SOME SERIOUS SHRINKAGE
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Foreverbiscoff
Foreverbiscoff@foreverbiscoff·
@LilUziVartan @CartoonsHateHer I promise they don't. Haven't read minotaur porn myself, but NC fantasies do not, on any level, correlate with actual desire to be raped.
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Just A Shark
Just A Shark@InnocuousShark·
@HallvardHolte @CartoonsHateHer As someone else posted awhile back, there are no bi people. Sexuality is entirely based on whether you have sex with men. Bi women are straight, bi men are gay “But I have sex with women too” Yeah, everyone does that
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Hallvard Holte@HallvardHolte·
@CartoonsHateHer It really is understudied and odd how it seems extremely common for *completely straight* women to watch lesbian porn, while I think close to zero *completely straight* men would ever watch gay porn. It's easy to speculate about the reasons, but it's all a bit lewd to get into.
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