The Incredible

The road from rags to riches is a mental journey. It's all in your head. Think it, work it and achieve it.

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@Marylinbeckas @Teeniiola Same here, last time I did was around 2012 lol

@Its_Amzy @Teeniiola Hehehehe… The soup no dey respect anybody o😂 But i haven’t eaten it in years now though.

Abeg who can enlighten us about this Okoho soup? This is my first time seeing it on the internet. The way ee dey draw enh, na only professional go fit chop this one ooo. This lady gave a proper lecture on how to eat the soup

@Marylinbeckas @Teeniiola I can relate the first time I went to the village and it was served, I almost embarrassed my ancestors 🤣

Aside being a very nutritional and healthy soup, Okoho is also a very delicious soup to say the least. Okoho is a stick like plant. By mare looking at it, you’ll likely mistake it for a dry wood. You have to learn how to eat it, if not that soup will embarrass you. So much so that one wrong scoop can drag the whole soup from the plate 😂😂. But as an idoma person, the tactics of cutting comes easily, probably as an inbuilt skill, or as a result of repeated practice from childhood😁. Plus, this soup is not just peculiar to us alone, as people from other West African countries eats it as well.✌🏾

@Timmyofdelta May your days be very long sir

EGUSI soup is the greatest of all soups in Nigeria

@jon_d_doe Make I add "Blocked for 600 years" 🤣🤣🤣

This is the first time that I'll notice you, and the last time too.

@jon_d_doee A lady asked me why is it difficult for men to forgive cheating and I asked her to tell me how would she feel if she walks into a room and her bf is been drilled by another man (gay), she couldn't really explain the pain, I told her that's not even as painful when a lady cheats.

Remember what I said about why some single ladies of marriageable age are still single? Please read.

@jon_d_doee It's how everyone sending a screenshot has all notifications on for you Agba. Na why "them" dey cry be this, they can never.

If you're a mutual on the main page, please post screenshot evidence under this, I'll follow you back. AJD.

@jon_d_doee Present sir

@ericaovoke @jon_d_doee Answer na make we know 😅😅

This was in the university. He was the only guy I dated from 100L - 400L. He broke up with me when I caught him. He said I wasn’t giving him sex (I wanted to keep my virginity till wedding night 😂). He came back after 2 months, then we dated till 400L. We were in a sexless relationship all through. But the other girl was fully with him. They’re married now. I later ended the relationship after my final year exam. I do not regret it.

When you caught your girlfriend cheating, what did she say to you? When you caught your boyfriend cheating, what did he say to you? If you can't publicly type it here, you're free to send a DM. AJD.

@ashiedu_victor @jon_d_doe Read what you wrote again and then sit down and think about it.

I’ll speak to the first point. I think a man can love his wife even if she isn’t sexually attractive anymore. As men we love the sacrifices of what our wives have done and still do for us. So irrespective of the sexual unattractiveness, we will still love her and try to help her become what we want at the present. An example would be a woman who has added weight due to childbirth.

Can a man find his wife sexually unattractive and still love her? My answer is No. A man does not even need to love his wife, for him to be sleeping with her. In marriage, sex is a duty. And not necessarily an obligation. It's a duty because it's affiliated with roles, positions, and moral and ethical standards that marriage is expected to uphold. It's not necessarily an obligation, because it may be seen as being legally forced to indulge in it to avoid some form of punishment. Meaning, it may not be a consensual act. Love is ephemeral in marriage. It may be there, or it may not be there. But the couple must be intentionally committed to each other. "I married this woman, I don't have to love her, but I owe her a duty of care, protection, provision and sex" That's why you're her husband. If you deny your wife of sex, what you're doing in essence is dereliction of duty. You're willfully being negligent of her emotional or sexual needs. Can you as a married man, stay for one or two months without sex? Especially when you're not even far away from your wife? Where are you getting sex from if you've not been sleeping with your wife for months? Now flip it. Can a married woman stay without sex for months? Especially when she's not far away from her husband? Where is her husband expecting her to get sex from? You cannot tell me that blood is not flowing in her veins, or that she is no longer attractive to you as her husband. If you don't see her sexually attractive to you anymore, it's because you're not taking good care of her. You cannot use the excuse of her breasts getting sagged or her stomach not being flat anymore to deny her of sex. Those are the "scars" of motherhood, which you put on her. You must embrace those scars and appreciate her body the way it is. As long as your wife is not recalcitrant, or that you have caught her cheating, or that she is not dirty, you should not deny her of sex. And if you're a kind provider, you'd further keep her in the mood and constantly or ever ready to accept you into her bosom & "Jerusalem". Being a pastor or Imam should not be used as an excuse either. You cannot be denying your wife of sex in the name of "I am praying to God to grant me my wish, so I have to abstain from sex". God himself ordained marriage. And he blessed your vows and covenant. So stop using religion as an escape route. Go and fuck your wife. End.

I think all broke babes should be automatically recruited into the army 😭

God no dey do ojoro 😂😂 all the girls wey whine me say my mama dey sell puffpuff for secondary sch don dey sell small chops

Overprotective girlfriend wey no get money na bouncer

@EncryptedEarth @PenTitan See where you hang ball bro 😅😅

@PenTitan Humiliating, bro! Imagine going out with the maid of the group 🤣🤣

Imagine meeting her friends and you find out she's not even the leader of the group. The embarrassment!

@LilianErnest_ How can I like this twice?

Make God take you for me🙏🏻 When y’all go about setting ridiculous standards, you don’t know The simps we have today is because of you people There’s no single day you won’t see one idiot broke shaming a man and y’all would be clapping for her and clocking rubbish Y’all say, a man making a honest living from his 9-5 is not fit to bag y’all retarded broke souls Cars you won’t have but you would demand he has one Money you don’t have but you would require him to be filthy rich Connections, you don’t have Rich parents, you don’t have Then the little less than 11% brain that God has given to you, you still chose not to have common sense again Enough is enough! If men can be broke shamed and y’all keep quite and act as though it’s normal Then shut up and enjoy this trend in peace Sheybi it’s easy to make money Oya naw Go get your bag up Men are now materialistic and high maintenance Deal with it!

They just want a woman that can take care of their bills, feed them, house them, send them on trips abroad and basically be there for him. It’s not too much of you ask me

@CallmePat_ricia You can, I started with 1 per week, then 1 bi-weekly, then once in a month. Won't be easy at first but it's doable and you can

It’s so hard to stop taking soda ooh! Day one in and I almost called this woman selling drinks to give me one cold Pepsi.😭😭

The people shutting down your businesses and killing your careers will be asking you to re-elect them so they can keep their jobs. Never forget what they're doing to you.

@Prestigious_Gt 2 sharp

Who would you rather marry? 1) A 29-year-old lady living alone with a 1m monthly salary (non-virgin) and good character. 2) A 22-year-old lady still living with her parents with a 100k monthly salary (virgin) and good character. 1 or 2?

1. Drink water, put a bottle by your bedside, drink when you wake 2. Ask your friend abroad to buy your multi-vitamins. Take them daily 3. Stop taking soda and “juice”, eat the fruit with the pulp, chew an orange, don't drink orange juice. 4. Slow down on the carbs, garri,