Jandy Umoh

Some of you avoid your friends when you don’t have money because it feels humiliating. Some of you cut off your friends when they don’t have money. Even if you can’t help your friend’s situation, they don’t have to carry the burden alone. “I don’t have N500k to give you, but we gather dey. The little I have , we can share it.” A simple conversation and the awareness that they are not alone, could stop a person from going depressed, committing suicide or drowning mentally.

everybody wants to be toxic so bad, and i’m over here trying to unlearn every toxic trait in me. i don't wanna argue, i don't want to be disrespectful, act cold, match energy, or question love. i want to be gentle, accountable, emotionally intelligent, and supportive. i literally crave a soft peaceful life.

@AdekemiSaliu 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Some of you can't eat what you give to your babies, yet you won't stop complaining that they're not eating. You will blend oriṣiriṣi together and label it puree. You sef taste am, is it palatable??

Teach yourself to exercise your commitment muscle. Whenever you say you are going to do something, see it through. Life becomes so much easier when you habitually follow through.

Children deserve parents who actually want them....every woman isn’t meant to be a mother. The mother is a specific archetype, and it’s reserved for women who truly embody it. It’s not just a role you step into, it’s a level of consciousness. A reason for some of the chaos you see, comes from people stepping into roles they’re not prepared for or aligned with. Creating life is a serious responsibility, and when it’s taken lightly, the impact shows over time.

Me? Chase you? Goodness and Mercies sef, I don't chase, they follow me

The embarrassment that comes after loving someone wholeheartedly not knowing that he/she is busy with someone else and there’re people who know about it💔💔💔💔💔💔

No one has ever received award for the best wedding. Don't k!ll yourself with debts.

Once I realize you’re perceiving me wrong , I stay away from you. Because wtf are you talking about? Lol

"I've noticed one thing about you" Normally, plenty things dey wey you go still notice 😂

Not sure why people see 'introverted' as a synonym for passive, timid or just a pushover. I just prefer being in small groups or solitary thinking, relax lol.

You drink milk or anything with dairy and 10 minutes later, you’re sprinting to the toilet. You eat noodles and your throat starts acting up. You’re drinking water nonstop for the next hour. You take a soft drink and it tastes overly sweet, almost chemical. You eat certain snacks and your stomach just feels off. You use some skincare products and your skin reacts instantly. But when people point out that a lot of products sold in Nigeria don’t meet the same standards as those in Europe, you get defensive, like it’s an attack on the country’s image and start defending her like Batman. It’s about acknowledging reality. Quality control, regulation, and consumer safety still have gaps and we still have to demand better from what we consume.

Peace in a relationship is often mistaken for boredom by people who are used to chaos.

I withdraw every negative statement i have made about my future, and I speak favor and purpose over my life, in Jesus name, Amen!🙏🏽

It's extremely important to realise that you were beautiful before someone noticed and you'll remain beautiful in their absence. Your beauty is not subjected to who values you for it.

This is literally the worst time to fall in love with a loser. Focus on your life.

Can’t remember the last time I had to tell someone I don’t like what they did to me As much as i’m not so easily offended, all I have to do is reduce or remove access I don’t know how to keep whining about something to grown adults, I just remove myself from the equation.

Whenever you cannot decide, it is important to remember that it is often better to make a wrong choice, learn from it and move on than sit in the purgatory of analysis paralysis. That’s the real torture.

Major cheat code for life: Learn to delay your reaction. Anger, fear, and impulse will try to make you move fast. There's power in pausing. In the pause, you see clearly, you respond wisely, and you avoid decisions you’ll regret. Slow down to speed up.

life has a way of punishing you for being a little too nice & forgiving.