Jack Napier

the lioness

We seldom seek what we truly need.

Men can pretend to be in love with you for months just to fuck

A good buddy of mine I've known for YEARS. 34. -Great job, hard worker, good with money -In great shape. Training for an iron man. -Close with family. Grew up Christian, went away in college-- now reignited as his personal faith & locked in! -Has a flip phone. Zero porn, didn't want the temptation. -Goes to church, volunteers, reads the Bible daily. Objectively a great catch. Wants a wife & to be a dad. Went on a date a couple weeks ago. Had a blast. Talked for hours after dinner. The next day they hang out all day, and she takes him to her home meets her family for a cookout. They kiss & both say best date ever. He invites her to his church that week (she says she's Christian with no home church) & she accepts. They make plans that week to go on a run before work. He texts & she ghosts him....... He calls the next day..... ghosts. A couple days later...... "been really busy sorry." He was a little bummed & asked my advice. 1) Why do girls/guys do this? Why not just reply, be upfront? You don't have ONE MINUTE you were that busy...... come on. 2) What would you tell him? 3) I said, bullet dodged, her loss, respect yourself & keep it moving. Feel extremely sorry for her that she blew her chance with a great dude. Don't chase, keep building you. There's 3 billion girls, you need 1 great one that wants to hop on your mission with you, follow Jesus & you. Make sure she'll make a great mom & can communicate well or marriage will be miserable. Go run, lift, read the Bible, & never give her a second thought again unless it's to remind yourself to feel sorry for her as this will be the biggest regret of her life. Make sure it is & keep building!