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Jay Kay

@JayKayYae

B2B Sales Leader | "Risk averse" indie producer Storyteller. Father. Dreamer.

Munich, Bavaria Katılım Mayıs 2009
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
#BlastFromThePast 13 yrs ago this date, I completed the stage run of my own directed modern rendition of Henri Purcell's Dido&Aeneas - which was blasphemous with the legacy it carried. Of all things I have done in my life, this one is something I am most proud of (1/n)
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Julius Betschka
Julius Betschka@JuliusBetschka·
Hui! Innerhalb der nächsten drei Jahre sollen „80 Prozent der Syrer“ in Heimat zurück, sagt Friedrich Merz. Gut integrierte Menschen könnten bleiben, würden aber auch in Heimat gebraucht. Selten gesagte Ergänzung: „Danke an die deutsche Bevölkerung, die zur Aufnahme bereit war.“
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
@mayukh_panja The identity issue is a real pain. Thankfully my kids dont deal with it at this stage of life (hopefully never but one cant be sure). I, as first gen, definitely do - not German enough for Germans, not Indian anymore for Indians.
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Mayukh@mayukh_panja·
Just want to add an angle to the "should I move abroad" debate that this is often completely ignored. Indian/brown kids growing up abroad often feel intense alienation and struggle to form an identity. The worst case scenario is that they grow up belonging neither in the West nor in India, are somewhat detached from Western values and also cannot fully settle in India because they are also not really Indian. Kids and especially teenagers can be especially mean and without filters and I have heard so many stories of brown kids growing up in the West who were made fun of because of their food choices, their skin colour, how odd their names were or because their parents stood out culturally. I once spoke to an girl of half Iranian descent who grew up in Germany and had to deal with two competing cultures at home and at school. In the end, they developed a strained relationship with their parents because they saw their parents as societal misfits and only now after reaching adulthood are they trying to form an active bond. Now all of the above may or may not happen. It is also less likely for childrent to feel alienated if at least one parent is Western. But these are real possibilities and I urge you to at the very least factor them in. I know of so many Indian professionals here in Germany who had kids and now they are accelerating their plans to go back to India, because they are certain they want their kids to grow up surrounded by cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents. This is not a one-sided issue. There are nuances and layers to it, and life is so much more than material comforts.
Ravi Handa@ravihanda

I would strongly recommend that you continue to stay out of India, especially for your three-year-old kid. There are multiple advantages. In many cases, there is the possibility of getting a better passport in the long run, but let’s leave that aside. The core question is what leads to a better life for your child, not just over the next 15 years, but over his entire lifetime. A large part of that upbringing is in your hands, but a significant portion comes from the culture he grows up in. The culture in India is largely competition-driven and quite cutthroat, and there are also civic sense issues, as you are aware. Yes, Indian culture has its benefits, but if you think long term, a more balanced culture abroad can lead to a happier life for the child. Your kid may not grow up prioritizing just making more and more money or being extremely driven, and I don’t think that is necessarily the ideal outcome. Personally, I would want my child to have a smoother, more comfortable life, still achieve something meaningful, and be happy. That becomes easier in many places abroad. The cohort your child grows up in also matters. It will likely include expat Indians, but also a broader, more diverse set of people. On average, NRIs tend to be financially better off than the average Indian, and that reflects in the peer group. Exposure to different cultures and ways of thinking can help shape a more well-rounded individual. Even from a career perspective, growing up in an economy without a scarcity mindset or low-trust environment opens up more opportunities. There is also the safety angle, especially relevant if you have a daughter. Practically speaking, apart from the lower cost of raising a child in India, I don’t see many strong advantages of moving back.

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Sumit Kumar
Sumit Kumar@TweetsOfSumit·
Ich kann diese Anti-Leistungsträger Haltung in Deutschland nicht verstehen. Selbst wenn man Empfänger von Sozialleistungen ist - woher kommt das Geld dafür? Es kommt von Steuerzahlern! Also sollten vor allem Sozialempfänger ein Interesse daran haben alle Steuerzahlenden (Arbeiter, Unternehmen) zu unterstützen damit diese motiviert nach Großem streben. Denn daraus entstehen die Einnahmen, mit denen wir unsere Mega Sozialhilfen finanzieren. Lasst den Menschen Wege Vermögen und Reichtum aufzubauen, denn auf dem Weg dahin (und am Ziel, falls es erreicht wird) werden sie mehr Steuern zum System beitragen als jeder andere. Win win.
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
@BOMgirltweets Depends how many you lose throwing them on those arouns who dont pay your heed 😀
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Can a girl have enough #juttis?
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
Some men are generally organised and taught to live in tidy surroundings growing up by their parents. They dont have to wait for the women to teach them. P.S. I once broke up with a woman because of me not willing to put up with lower standards of house hygiene.
Chetan Anantharamu@gandabherunda

Married men are injected so much with the cleaning OCD from wives that when there is a boys night out at anyone’s house, after the party is over every guy like a robot gets into the cleaning act & ensures no mess is left behind before leaving the house in the morning. The fear of wives tantrums at a messy house is real, bhai log

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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
@Batla_G I love the songs of part 2 so much more. For the movie part 1 was real craft bar raising movie. Part 2 was just excessive. I have considered going a second time but am reminded how bored I got intermittently. Seemingly there is an equal split between those who like each part more
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
@TweetsOfSumit Its indeed true. FAANG has been letting go in big numbers. They ofcourse course correct and hire some small number back for critical functions where AI not ready yet. And its gonna not be changing direction next few years at least.
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Sumit Kumar
Sumit Kumar@TweetsOfSumit·
The job market in tech in Germany seems to be pretty tough right now. Maybe I'm in a bubble, but I'm seeing lots of folks, engineering leaders, PMs, developers, who struggle to find jobs right now. Unemployed for months. "Open to work"-badge on LinkedIn. They all had cushy 6-figure positions before and can't find anything right now. Are these isolated or something you can see as well?
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
@rahulj51 Not a new phenomenon- Turkey, Hungary, Israel, the country i dare not name, maybe soon US as well - its already been happening for some decade+ now: Performative Democracy. Next step Pretense Democracy. P.S. Russia and China are outside the scope of above :)
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Rahul Jain
Rahul Jain@rahulj51·
There should be a new word for a type of government where the citizens elect a dictator every 4 years and award him with sweeping dictatorial powers.
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Mayukh
Mayukh@mayukh_panja·
@JayKayYae there is only a weak correlation with education
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
There are no Holy Cows on the internet. All will be butchered, some more some less.
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
For once i cant complain about TACO - I was inches away from pressing that Sell button.
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
@emiliesutalun2 True, am usually a bit shy about writing in German. Especially on Social Media 😀 But a lot of good local perspectives. I agree maybe i am equally guilty of painting all with the same rising poverty broadbrush and maybe the nuances are way too many that we are not dissecting well
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
Der Aufstieg der AfD im Westen ist darauf zurückzuführen, dass die Krise der Lebenshaltungskosten auch dort Einzug hält. Die schlechte Wirtschaftslage führt dazu, dass politische Kräfte der extremen Rechten und Linken an Boden gewinnen. cc @emiliesutalun2
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
@mayukh_panja People make a decision - for good or for bad, it should stay a personal decision. Why they seek validation for their decision from an online audience? I can understand if someone is seeking information for making a subsequent decision but i dont comprehend both gloating/cribbing.
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Mayukh
Mayukh@mayukh_panja·
I agree. And this typically happens with Fresh Off the Boat immigrants. They have just discovered an entirely new universe, and everything seems better. And this makes sense, after all India is still a sub 5000 GDP per capita country. And relocating to a richer country feels like heaven. Once you stay long enough all of that AQI, parks, walkable streets become kind of invisible. Work is work, people are people, life is life. And just like India the whole spectrum of extremely difficult people to extremely smart people exists everywhere. And then around year 3 you start noticing new problems. Problems that don’t really exist in India. Homeless junkies everywhere, mentally deranged and often violent people making public spaces unsafe. In the case of US, a single whimsical change to visa regulations can completely destroy your life. So in the end it doesn’t really matter. Staying outside is not a flex nor does it give you an objectively better life. It improves some aspects while degrading others. Like every life decision, moving abroad is a trade-off and some people find this difficult to admit. My personal goal is to somehow figure out how to make the best of both worlds. I want to be equally comfortable in both the East and West and build a somewhat distributed life. I am not really sure how to do this though. Or if this is even meaningfully possible.
VatsRohit@KesariDhwaj

To my Indian brothers and sisters who have found their Shangri La abroad - I get it that you're enjoying your relocation to a foreign country. More power to you. May god bless you with success and happiness. BUT For the love of God, please stop the 24x7 preaching about how your chosen country/destination is better than India. The ad infinitum reference to AQI, work-life balance, parks, sports etc. gets on the nerves. And it seems that you're trying to justify your decision to yourself by constantly making the comparison so that you can satisfy yourself that you got a great deal. Reality is that even if these aspects weren't there but if the pay was equally good or even better, you'd still chose to relocate. So, please enjoy yourself by all means, share reels abut your chosen place, share knowledge with others about how to navigate themselves if they go abroad but please, don't give gyaan.

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Nicholas Martin
Nicholas Martin@meilaoban·
But what these people want is _not_ handouts or more welfare spending, otherwise they would vote Linke (they’re not completely stupid). They want well-paid secure jobs. *That* must be the focus of any serious anti-fascist economic policy. Growth, Growth, Growth.
Isabella M Weber@IsabellaMWeber

Election after election exit polls show that those who consider their economic security as poor vote for the neo-fascist AfD. We need an antifascist economic policy instead of a revival of 90s style neoliberalism. This has become only more urgent in face of the energy crisis.

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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
The music of D2 is better than that of D1. Unfortunately, cant say the same about the movie itself.
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Jay Kay@JayKayYae·
#nofilter Cherry Blossom London edition.
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