Jessica W

one of the best tweets i’ve ever read on here. it really stuck with me.

You guys ruined the women who dated for love. And you're mad you're stuck with the ones who only date for money. You can't have it both ways. You played the women who loved you genuinely. You cheated on the women who were loyal. You lied to the women who were honest. You wasted the time of women who were serious. You took their pure intentions and exploited them. You used their love as a doormat. You treated their loyalty like it was worthless. You made them feel stupid for believing in you. You broke their hearts and acted like it was their fault. Those women learned. They learned that love doesn't pay bills. They learned that loyalty doesn't guarantee faithfulness. They learned that being a good woman doesn't mean you'll be treated well. They learned that giving their heart freely only gets it broken. So they adjusted their strategy. If men are going to use them anyway, they might as well benefit. If relationships are transactional, they'll make sure the transaction is in their favor. If love doesn't matter, money might as well. If they're going to get hurt regardless, they'll get hurt in comfort. And now you're complaining about it. You're mad that women want financial security. You're upset that women have standards about what you provide. You're angry that women won't give you everything for nothing. You're frustrated that women protect themselves now. You created this. You taught women that their love wasn't enough. You showed them that being good to you meant being taken advantage of. You proved that loyalty gets you cheated on. You demonstrated that genuine love gets you played. The women who dated for love still exist. But they're hurt. They're guarded. They're cautious. They're healing from men like you. The women who date for money learned from watching their sisters suffer. They watched good women get used. They saw loyal women get cheated on. They witnessed loving women get their hearts broken. They learned the lesson without having to experience the pain. You don't get to ruin one group and then complain about the other. You don't get to break hearts and then demand softness. You don't get to play games and then want something real. You don't get to waste time and then expect someone's best years. Men who genuinely loved and valued women aren't having this problem. They're with women who love them genuinely. They're in relationships built on trust and mutual respect. They're experiencing the kind of love you're now complaining you can't find. But you didn't value that when you had access to it. You chose games over genuineness. You chose variety over loyalty. You chose ego over love. You chose the streets over a good woman. Now the streets are all you can attract. The good women moved on, healed, and found better. The good women learned to spot men like you from a mile away. The good women protect their hearts now. The good women require more than you're willing to give. You're not a victim here. You're reaping what you sowed. You're experiencing the consequences of your choices. You're dealing with the environment you helped create. Want women who date for love? Be a man worth loving. Treat women like they're valuable, not disposable. Be honest instead of playing games. Build instead of destroying. Until then, stop complaining. You made this bed. Now lie in it.

Marsai Martin reportedly never spent the money she earned as a child star. Her parents invested it and taught her financial literacy and now at 21 she's a multi-millionaire.

Ray J reveals he has slept with over 12,500 women at 45: "I did a booby trap party when I reached 10,000. Yeah, so we did a celebration, booby trap, celebrated my 10,000.I had about 400 or 500 girls that I f*cked with came through, supported. It was a massive parade. I just crossed 12,500"