Based Therapist | Marchese Methods@MarcheseMethods
In the Marchesian spirit let’s examine more deeply than “erhm women want attention then get mad when they get it”
It’s always about power for the eternally low self esteem, low agency, and id subordinate insentient. They feel powerless because they’re subservient to their id, but since that’s indulgent and antithetical to their ideal self they feel miserably guilty and like a bad person.
Women like this resort to sexuality as the first and easiest stop to rectify their felt powerlessness without having to actually exercise discipline to feel powerful and “above”. Because lizard brain hurtsies
BUT it only works if THEY get to distribute sexuality in varying degrees, to include soft porn in provocative and revealing clothing. Control of the supply, with the button to push belonging to them.
So when YOU take pictures of them dressed that way, it feels to them like you’re “TAKING” sexuality from them. Especially if they’re deeply neurotic to this degree. Upon this “taking” it feels to them like they have absolutely no means to act on the world, and excavates their low self esteem and felt valuelessness.
It sends them into existential crisis, both because they’re left with nothing but the deep dark hole of low self esteem they’ve dug themselves in, and because this “taking” of sexuality is one step closer to actually “taking” sexuality from them, which activates hunter gatherer panic, because to “take” sexuality is to impregnate without provision, risking her and her child’s survival.
