Becka Clemente

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Becka Clemente

Becka Clemente

@JustCallMeBecka

PNW born & raised (PDX & SEA), bi/pan, enby/genderfluid (they/she), AuDHD, dreamer, singer, performer, artist, nerd/geek/dork, cat parent.

Portland, OR Katılım Nisan 2009
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Between my autism and being non-binary and my family not understanding or respecting either, I feel like I'm starting to disappear.
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@PlayChoices With the Duke gone and the whole place to ourselves, I'm sure we'll be doing LOTS of philosophizing. 😘😅
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Choices@PlayChoices·
Yeah well, Your Grace is actually a genius, soooo... Philosophize in tomorrow's new VIP chapter of The Duchess Affair! 📖
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@ask_aubry I wouldn't be half the writer I am without fan fiction. Also, demeaning a PhD for any reason is awful. Hobbies don't negate any of the work she did for that doctorate. He is 100000% an aashole.
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Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@autistic_hannah I was adopted & I always say I wish my bio mom had aborted me. But noooo. My bio grandpa just had to be Catholic so I'm honestly not sure she actually chose to go through with my birth of her own free will... which really makes it so much worse. 🙃
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@autismsupsoc Something happened & I don't like bacon anymore. I used to be obsessed with it. I'd eat it on/in everything or just on its own. I was in denial awhile. I think my taste buds changed due to age or meds. I like it on burgers & sandwiches but that's it. So sadly my answer is bacon😭
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Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@EGal89 @autismsupsoc Being trans is NOT a life choice either. Believe me. I'm trans. I tried for 27 years to be something I'm not. I masked like I did with my autism and ADHD. Then one day I realized that it wasn't who I am. I didn't have to force myself in to the said boxes you mentioned.
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SkyF🤡llDancer@EGal89·
@autismsupsoc Muddle myself in last tweet 😂🥺 while I agree that people putting people in boxes is a sucky thing to do... But autism and trans aren't comparable. You have the "hate" on trans for making that choice (which it's their life and no one else!)... But autism isn't a life choice.
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🌟Cheshire Cat ᓚᘏᗢ,@autismsupsoc·
I don't know who needs to her this but many Autists are Trans and it's part of their Autistic nature. You cannot be pro-Autistic and anti-Trans.
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@autismsupsoc Damm it I didn't meant to click great. I'm meant to click "ugh". 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ It's not something we possess. It's something we are.
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Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@AutisticCallum_ Omfg how have I never put this together before? I've always had lots of crushes/obsessed over people, which rightly scared some off. But then I'd get over it so fast. I always thought something was wrong w/ me. Now I see it's hyperfixation! So obvious now I have the word for it.
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Callum Stephen (He/Him)@AutisticCallum_·
Autism, ADHD and Romance How I tell the difference between love and hyperfixation - 🧵 For me: - Love feels steady, whereas hyperfixation feels frantic and anxious. - Love builds over time, whereas hyperfixation arrives instantly.
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@autistic_hannah Lmao! It was fun. I also took my mom's nail polish remover and added stuff from the yard. 🤣
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Gail Simone 💙💛
Gail Simone 💙💛@GailSimone·
Today's question of the day: I have asked this before, but I enjoy hearing the answers, so... ...what single video game have you devoted the most hours of your life to playing?
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@senresourceblog Yeah my immediate thought was "That's basically a straight jacket and that's really messed up".
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Georgina Durrant
Georgina Durrant@senresourceblog·
Don’t usually rant on here but seen a post where a teacher is worried about a non verbal autistic child not wearing their coat at break. Someone suggested putting it on backwards & zipping it up backwards. Unless I’ve misunderstood what they meant..this sounds awful… 1/2
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@hannaweeen I can't work, but was told I most likely won't qualify for SSDI/SSI. Idk what to do. 😭
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@hannaweeen Read about the overlapping symptoms w/ADHD. Then read about how there's bias w/ AFAB people. We're misdiagnosed w/ ADHD instead or have both but autism is missed. Was only treated for ADHD/GAD/MDD & yet I struggle in other ways. More I read, the more it fit. Esp my childhood.
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@AutisticCoach_ When I have the spoons I do. I cook a variety of things but my specialty is pasta.
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@adamfare1996 Add ✈️ to 2. Squished against stranger & no leg room. 😖 No job rn so no $ to upgrade. Dad kindly helps me see my gparents but we get cheapest seats. SW has COS policy for fat ppl. I am but others aren't. & not guaranteed. Wish there was one for ND but that'd be hard to enforce.
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@BWizard1984 @hannaweeen We do get to police language when it was crated by a literal Nazi eugenisist that used "functioning" labels to separate who could be used for labor and who should be euthanized. Functioning lables are harmful. Your son has different needs. That's how it should be phrased.
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Becka Clemente
Becka Clemente@JustCallMeBecka·
@adamfare1996 I say mental health struggles not sure if that makes any more sense. I used to say mental health "issues" but that felt worse.
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