Keres Neera

@hollowearthterf My dad does this. He gets grumpy and throws a tantrum on the way to events or says things in such a rude tone. At this point I've started calling him out on it. Then he gets all defensive and says he isn't doing anything.

Why do so many men insist on being such miserable lousy grumps that drain the happiness of everyone around them?

@gimpboy199 @surveyorLauren @luxemiaa It's an accusation of cheating and lying. No one wants to be accused of that when their partner has no reason to. If they made it mandatory at birth it would fix all this mess. No one gets accused and everyone can have peace of mind.

@KeresNeera @surveyorLauren @luxemiaa Why cant men just get peace of fucking mind? what is the issue? what does it cost you?

So, my husband woke up today and decided to make my life actively annoying. He cornered me in the kitchen while I was just trying to drink my iced coffee and casually announced he wants a DNA test for all three of our kids. Honestly, I didn't even look up from my phone. I just stared at my screen and told him that sure, we can do that, but if the results come back and prove that he is actually the biological father of these three loud gremlins, I am packing my bags and leaving him forever. Like, an absolute immediate divorce. The sheer audacity to add another stupid errand to my week is just wild to me. The funniest part is......

@michael_hu21908 @lorahmoe Honestly it would save so many relationships and protect everyone all around. No one would feel like they're being accused of cheating. The father can't deny their kid and the mother can't lie.

@lorahmoe In another case of 'it never happened'... Regardless, this is why paternity tests should be mandatory at birth

A man demanded paternity tests for all three of his kids after watching too many “red pill” podcasts online. His wife was devastated. Not even angry at first. Just hurt. She kept asking, “After 15 years together… this is really who you think I am?” And he kept repeating the same line: “If you’re innocent, why are you upset?” So she did the tests. Every single child was his. He expected relief. Maybe even an apology. Instead, his wife served him divorce papers two weeks later. Husband: “You’re seriously breaking up our family over this?” Wife: “No. You broke it the second you decided internet strangers knew me better than you did.” What makes it worse is that the oldest son stopped talking to him much after that. Not because of the test itself. But because during the waiting period, the father became cold toward him. Distant. Awkward. The boy noticed. Kids ALWAYS notice. One day the son finally asked, “Were you already practicing not loving me in case I wasn’t yours?” Apparently the father cried after hearing that. But some sentences arrive too late to fix what caused them.

@whonterL @lorahmoe Ancestry has proven so many times that fathers had other families on the side.

@lorahmoe Paternity tests are serving as a delusion reliever for men. But is there a test to prove men don't have other children or don't f*ck someone else? Ofc not, there's no such a thing like that

@Perez22478 @hamorahime @lorahmoe That's what I'm saying. Why after they're teenagers are you suddenly accusing the mother of cheating without any proof? The poor kid is rightfully devastated. Do it at birth or if there's proof. Don't blindly do it because you listened to a bad podcast.

@hamorahime @lorahmoe At birth, yes, understandable but when they are teenagers handle it better because kids are having a mental health crisis because Dad is insecure? No, kids deserve to be kids not pawns.

@FELIXO999 @lorahmoe The thing is that it's an accusation of cheating, so of course the Mom would be upset. Especially after having three kids. Blindly asking for it without reason just to satisfy your insecurities after 15 years is wrong. Also treating the child coldly is until you know horrible.

@lorahmoe Women will always sell this BS to stop us from confirming , take your BS else where it’s only in spiritual matters where we just believe let the woman go whether my son doesn’t want to talk to me it’s fine, if you innocent it shouldn’t be a big deal, most enter marriage veterans

@malyndell My mom went to night classes to get her degree. She gave me a snack before she left. My Dad asked me if I was hungry right after then didn't feed me for the rest of the night cause I said no. When my Mom came home at 9 pm she was pissed that I was awake and hungry.

When I was a baby, my mother left me on the bed with my father and asked him to keep an eye on me while she did the laundry; he said yes but fell asleep, moved and I ended up on the floor, crying. She came running the moment she heard the loud noise and got really pissed at him.+

@MagentaClover @smoke_nd_pearlz That's my thing. If the lifeguard saw it happen and didn't do anything it shows that they don't really care about protecting the children. They only got involved when an adult got physical with her and it risked a police report.

@smoke_nd_pearlz My question is, if that woman has a history of being a nuisance, then why haven't they just banned her ass from the pool?? Was they just waiting for the day she tried it with the wrong person or what?! Kudos to you ma'am, but fuck them folks at the pool for real. 🙄

Had to cuss a white bitch out for making my cousin cry. She’s a 16 year old angst teenager who rarely cries. She swims up to me sobbing so hard her cluster lashes are falling off. I asked her what happened she said some white lady made her get out HER raft&she took it from her. Im pissed off at this point. I asked her to point the lady out again when she circles around and she literally circles around not even 5 minutes later. I swim up to the bitch and asked her why she took that raft from my fucking child. She said that she wasn’t using it. I said she was and to get out. She said no. I asked her one more time. She said “make me” lol BITCH! iight hold tight hoe. I flipped that bitch right out that raft and told her to come take it from ME and not a 16 year old child if she was REALLY bad. She tries to take it from me i give it back to my cousin and shove her backwards in the water. I tell her if she touches me or that raft again im beating her ass to SLEEP!! We yelling back and forth lifeguards get involved and pull us out the water. I tell them what happened and another l lifeguard came over said they saw the whole thing sides with me and said that this isn’t the first time she’s taken a child’s raft. People have complained. They ended up calling security and escorting her and her children out?? This bitch was a whole ass mother! Anyways my cousin is currently relaying the story to my mom and dad with a big smile on her face 😂 don’t FUCK with kids around me! I’ll beat yo ass behind some kids…I don’t play!

@JoshuaMatthewM2 @luv1bun Honestly, it would help a lot. There wouldn't be a chance for someone to claim a child is the guys without proof. It protects both sides.

Actually, it;s better to have a mandatory paternity and maternity for the baby before leaving the hospital, not just to prove he is the father of the baby, it also prove that the baby is yours, because sometimes hospital do make mistakes and changed the baby to another, and yes, it happens

Husband: “He doesn’t look like me… I want a paternity/DNA test.” Wife: “So after 12 years, you think I cheated?” Husband: “If you’ve got nothing to hide, it shouldn’t matter.” DNA test comes back… he’s the father. Husband: “See? Now I have peace of mind.” Wife: “And now I have clarity. I’m leaving.” Middle Son: “Mom… why does Dad hate me?” Husband: “You’re divorcing me… over a test?” Wife: “No. I’m divorcing you because you looked at your own child and saw doubt… and looked at your wife and saw betrayal.” Months later… Husband: “Can we spend Christmas together… as a family?” Son: “No.” Wife: “He deserves to be around people who make him feel loved.” Even later… Husband: “Why is everyone treating me like I’m the bad guy?” Everyone: “Because the DNA test proved he was your son… but your actions proved you weren’t acting like his father.”

@gimpboy199 @surveyorLauren @luxemiaa If you have that issue or fear, talk to your partner before you get them pregnant.

@KeresNeera @surveyorLauren @luxemiaa So women get the certainty of knowing the kid is theirs but men dont?

@d_realking0 @GDP_Misleads @Peacezogallery @AngelaGraceLOU @luxemiaa What are you talking about? No one mentioned abortion. Stop making up stories in your head and come back to reality.

@KeresNeera @GDP_Misleads @Peacezogallery @AngelaGraceLOU @luxemiaa Lol, so if it’s not my kid she’ll abort? I’d rather check the kid when it’s born and if it’s not mine I’d be happy to let people know and if it’s mine and she leaves so what? I already have a child.

@Odd_Legal @336Funny @_thearnie @luxemiaa After the first child, say you have concerns. Don't wait until you've had three kids then demand a DNA test for all of them. Talk about it to her privately and don't put right accuse her. Say it's for your peace of mind.

@KeresNeera @336Funny @_thearnie @luxemiaa Oh please will do me a favour and explain how he should discuss his concerns. He has a suspicion. What will you advise him to do? Conduct it privately? Well that would have been a better option.

@andrews1375 @336Funny @_thearnie @luxemiaa Asking for a DNA test, without saying you're worried all three of your kids got swapped, is accusing her of cheating.

@KeresNeera @336Funny @_thearnie @luxemiaa From the write up he didn’t accuse her of anything, he just requested a DNA test. People get their kids swapped at hospitals, DNA shouldn’t always be about infidelity.

@d_realking0 @GDP_Misleads @Peacezogallery @AngelaGraceLOU @luxemiaa When she gets pregnant the first time. Not after three children have been born.

@GDP_Misleads @Peacezogallery @AngelaGraceLOU @KeresNeera @luxemiaa And when should I bring it up? When I’ve trained the kids to college?

@Based_Smurf @Esimiimi23 @luxemiaa Wow I'm so surprised that you are misogynistic. 😑 Anyway if he was truly concerned about it he should have talked to her before having three kids. He's accusing her of cheating out of nowhere, with no proof and after having three kids.

@Esimiimi23 @luxemiaa The sheer fucking irony of you saying I lack reading comprehension after you failed to read the part of my comment regarding "holding it against him for asking for a paternity test" (which is what the OP is doing!) is exactly why women should not be allowed to vote. Dumb bitch

@surveyorLauren @luxemiaa Because he is accusing her of cheating without proof or any conversation. And clearly he didn't care about it until now to have three kids with her. Most people that accuse their partner of cheating without proof are the ones actually cheating.

@luxemiaa So you think it's not his right to know if the children are biologically his? Why are you offended by his decision?

@Nzoic10 @NotBUFFY_VS @luxemiaa Some men would trade anything for peace but some men like to cause chaos and stress. Just because you wouldn't do something cruel doesn't mean others wouldn't.

@NotBUFFY_VS @luxemiaa A man would trade the world just to have peace, now tell me how someone would intentionally want to create chaos in his home ??

@336Funny @_thearnie @luxemiaa Because he doesn't trust her and didn't talk to her about his concerns. Instead he accuses her of cheating on him and demands a test. Trust is a major part of a foundation of a relationship. He also clearly checked out of the relationship when he easily agreed to divorce her.

@_thearnie @luxemiaa Why break up the family if they his kid I don't get it ?

@Peacezogallery @luxemiaa Except asking for a DNA test to prove he is the father is him telling her he thinks she cheated on him. And he wants it for all three kids. If he had any reason to believe she cheated he should have talked to her about it.He also clearly doesn't love her as her agreed to divorce

I actually don’t see anything wrong with your husband requesting for a DNA test. He has his reasons. In a world where there are different happenings everyday, he needs some safety, he needs to know for sure if he’s not just fetching water in a container that is not his, the way you feel doesn’t really matter, they are his kids if the DNA proves right whether you choose to stay or leave. He’s just scared and you should be glad to tell him through the test that he has nothing to worry about.

@LadyCaroOomf @tachiru_nat You were 17 and the doctor wanted to force you to show your privates for no genuine health reasons? Forget being fired, someone needs to check his hard drives.

@tachiru_nat OLIVIDATE. Pero es algo muy necesario. Después de esa experiencia estuve 2 años sin hacerme el PAP. Pero hoy a mis 30 entiendo que una mala experiencia no puede poner en riesgo mi salud. Yo tenía 17 en ese entonces

Fui a buscar la receta de las pastillas anti a la clínica. Como no estaba disponible la gine de confianza me derivaron a un viejo que a FUERZAS me quiso revisar en ese momento. Le dije que no y SE ENOJÓ, me dijo de todo, IRRESPONSABLE y PUTA. Hice la queja y lo echaron al mes.