M_TraditionalTaboo

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M_TraditionalTaboo

@MTradTaboo

Relationship Coaching for Individuals & Couples. Live 3 days/week. DM questions or topic suggestions!

United States Katılım Nisan 2019
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Noble Brown🗡
Noble Brown🗡@NobleBrown·
Guy here in the cigar bar is on a date He's decided to tell her about Warhammer 40k Is he cooked, chat?
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
@beardeddutchy Really? From what I’ve seen, communication is HUGE. communication leads to a deeper understanding of desire. What good is honesty about desire without communicating it?
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bearded_dutchman 🇳🇱
bearded_dutchman 🇳🇱@beardeddutchy·
@MTradTaboo My assumption would be that communication wouldn't be the big issue.a dead bedroom doesn't happen over night. And ussually lasts long, but they stay in the relationship. So communication might not be it. But perhaps honesty about desires.amongst a world of other things.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
Many “dead bedrooms” occur b/c both people are shackled by the shame of having sexual desires with heavy themes of power & control. The key to each of their satisfaction is held by the other, but they will never unlock it & never actualize their potential. It’s sad.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
@beardeddutchy Each couple will be very different & there really isn’t a “one-size fits most” answer. I will say this usually stems from being unwilling to have the challenging & uncomfortable conversations. Avoiding anything that feels like conflict is usually what keeps people stuck.
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Rob@RJReagin·
@MTradTaboo Shame destroys erotic confidence, which destroys perceived value, which destroys desire.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
Been laid up for over a week, sick. Lost my voice too! Avoid this thing going around, if you can.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
Dirty talk is my husband telling me stories of the things he did as Pararescue in the AF. Somehow, I always end up looking like this:
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
I’m hopping on OF live in about an hour to casually chat about what makes a man instantly attractive. I’ve got a few thoughts… curious to hear yours too!
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
@MicheleGalavan I’ll give you just a playful one, b/c he does this often. I took a post to him of someone who claimed to live free of tech devices in a beach community in Puerto Rico. I thought this would be amazing. He quickly pointed out the selfie on the beach was from a phone. 🤦‍♀️
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
Sometimes I bring my Husband something that feels mind-blowing & in 1.25 seconds, he cuts through it with truth. Simply, not dismissively or rude. Not to diminish me but to steady me. A good man grounds a woman without breaking her & women need that more than we realize.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
One of the fondest memories I carry of my father is watching him & my mother dance together just weeks before he passed. His body skin & bones, each movement an effort, yet his face carried a smile of joy. She held his hands to steady him as he shuffled his feet & led her through a twirl. One of many dances they shared over 53 years of marriage, but this dance would be the last. That memory has come to embody what marriage means to me. We can’t always expect steadiness from the person we love. We can’t expect perfection, or for expectations to be met without falter. What we can expect is presence. My mother could never have truly held up my 6’5” Viking of a father if what little strength he had gave way, but he believed in her, trusted her, & leaned in for the dance anyway. That’s marriage. Two people who choose, over & over, to offer support to one another through the unsteadiness within & the chaos of life.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
@tradman19822 I wholly agree with you. I can’t tell you how many people I end up losing as clients when we start digging in and unearthing some difficult truths. I’m not about just aimlessly talking. If I’m getting paid to help someone, we are getting work done.
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Traditional Leadership
Traditional Leadership@tradman19822·
@MTradTaboo Honestly, I think society needs more of that in general. Too many people become offended by the truth.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
@tradman19822 Yeah, unfortunately, the platform is different in the sense that I have to make it available later. I didn’t do that in this case because it was just a brief Q&A. Thank you for making the effort to watch it though!
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
I’ll be going live @ 12PM MST to discuss ED. Drop any questions if you’d like me to answer anything specific!
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
Two things can be true at once. A healthy love can hurt & heal. For some people, it’s difficult to see a person is not motivated to hurt them, but their triggers hurt nonetheless. Life & love are messy at times. We aren’t meant to live unscathed & we don’t make it out alive.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
@TaggedByMemes Ha! Ok. I’m fine with whatever a stranger on the internet wants to label me. I’ve touched grass today.
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M_TraditionalTaboo@MTradTaboo·
I really have little objection to trans people, so long as they don’t victimize others. Each to their own… But, I struggle with why they often have an energy of sadness even when aligned with their preferred gender. If that was the biggest issue, why does the sadness remain?
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