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M_TraditionalTaboo
@MTradTaboo
Relationship Coaching for Individuals & Couples. Live 3 days/week. DM questions or topic suggestions!
United States Katılım Nisan 2019
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@beardeddutchy Really? From what I’ve seen, communication is HUGE. communication leads to a deeper understanding of desire. What good is honesty about desire without communicating it?
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@MTradTaboo My assumption would be that communication wouldn't be the big issue.a dead bedroom doesn't happen over night. And ussually lasts long, but they stay in the relationship. So communication might not be it. But perhaps honesty about desires.amongst a world of other things.
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@beardeddutchy Each couple will be very different & there really isn’t a “one-size fits most” answer. I will say this usually stems from being unwilling to have the challenging & uncomfortable conversations. Avoiding anything that feels like conflict is usually what keeps people stuck.
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@MTradTaboo That's quite the take. But what would be the or a solution for it?
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@MTradTaboo Shame destroys erotic confidence, which destroys perceived value, which destroys desire.
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@MicheleGalavan I’ll give you just a playful one, b/c he does this often. I took a post to him of someone who claimed to live free of tech devices in a beach community in Puerto Rico. I thought this would be amazing.
He quickly pointed out the selfie on the beach was from a phone. 🤦♀️
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One of the fondest memories I carry of my father is watching him & my mother dance together just weeks before he passed. His body skin & bones, each movement an effort, yet his face carried a smile of joy. She held his hands to steady him as he shuffled his feet & led her through a twirl. One of many dances they shared over 53 years of marriage, but this dance would be the last.
That memory has come to embody what marriage means to me. We can’t always expect steadiness from the person we love. We can’t expect perfection, or for expectations to be met without falter.
What we can expect is presence. My mother could never have truly held up my 6’5” Viking of a father if what little strength he had gave way, but he believed in her, trusted her, & leaned in for the dance anyway.
That’s marriage. Two people who choose, over & over, to offer support to one another through the unsteadiness within & the chaos of life.
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@tradman19822 I wholly agree with you. I can’t tell you how many people I end up losing as clients when we start digging in and unearthing some difficult truths. I’m not about just aimlessly talking. If I’m getting paid to help someone, we are getting work done.
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@MTradTaboo Honestly, I think society needs more of that in general. Too many people become offended by the truth.
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@tradman19822 Yeah, unfortunately, the platform is different in the sense that I have to make it available later. I didn’t do that in this case because it was just a brief Q&A. Thank you for making the effort to watch it though!
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@MTradTaboo I went to try and watch this later and it doesn’t seem to be available
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@TaggedByMemes Ha! Ok. I’m fine with whatever a stranger on the internet wants to label me. I’ve touched grass today.
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