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Why are we this predictable?
Midwest vs. The Rest@midwestern_ope
As it gets colder midwesterners begin to point out driveways that will be “tough to get up in the winter”
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@badblades @VitallyMelanie Could you point me in the right direction to learn lymph massage for these areas?
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@iamjessicaflynn @VitallyMelanie Branwyn has very comfy / breathable merino wool bras that might work for you!
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@VitallyMelanie Haven't worn one in over 3yrs. Grown about two sizes. No back/neck issues & they don't 'sag'. They used to be sore during certain cycle times, rarely have that now. Having one for workouts would be nice tho, any recs? Can't seem to find any non-synthetics for a large chest size.
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So many women are with me right up to the point where I suggest that maybe their abusive ex isn’t mentally ill, he didn’t have NPD, he isn’t a ‘psychopath’ - maybe he’s a man living in a misogynistic, pornified society who uses and abuses women because he likes it and it’s celebrated.
Cos let’s face it, it’s a lot easier for women to label their exes and abusers as mentally disordered narcissistic psychopaths than it is to realise that we live in a world that supports and celebrates his vile attitudes, his behaviour towards women and his porn obsession.
It makes more sense to believe he’s a one-off, he’s evil, he’s disordered, he’s psycho - than to have to look at the world and think;
‘Well shit, there are millions of men like that dude and they are objectifying and abusing women left, right and centre. He’s no different.’
It’s a real shame that’s where they switch off, because that’s where the real work needs to be done. If we reframe every abusive ex as mentally ill, they get to use that too - and they get to claim that they can’t help it, and they need help and support from the woman/others.
The amount of women who have been abused for years who then say ‘but it wasn’t his fault, he’s got bipolar, he’s got PD, and everyone around me kept saying I needed to support him and not push his buttons and be more understanding’
HELL NO.
Your ex was abusive because:
1. He enjoyed it
2. He wanted to
3. He got something personal out of it
4. There are no societal or personal consequences to his behaviour
That’s it.
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