Nixie_pix
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Nixie_pix
@Nixie_pix
"What care I for human hearts? Soft and spiritless as porridge!"
River bed Katılım Kasım 2011
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@MsMountebank Has anyone ever visited Melbourne and thought, 'you know what, let's check out Dandenong and Narre Warren?'
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@usuallypregnant No one has a set of keys to my house except me. I'd never feel comfortable knowing someone could walk in whenever they please. The in-laws were 100% in the wrong for letting themselves in.
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@comrade_kumar_ Ugh. Alyssa is still clinging to the laughable notion that the USA can do no wrong and is the greatest country on earth. She's wilfully ignorant.
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@leakylike @babybeginner I think he gets off on acting like a child as well as pretending to be a girl.
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@babybeginner He's 26 not a child
& That tantrum is controlled performative
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@Genghis_McCann @babybeginner Being mentally ill doesn't give you a pass to behave as disruptively as possible without consequences. He most definitely needed police intervention, as well as psychological help.
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@babybeginner This kid needs a psychiatrist, not police officers, but as long as society treats autogynophilia as if it were a life choice instead of a mental illness they will all end up in police hands.
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@B1TuckerCarlson Useless woman keeps falling over. Don't own a dog that you can't control. A pet rock is more her speed, I think.
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@Emilio2763 Personally I don't think people of any age need to be shaking their bottoms like that, but this woman is in amazing shape.
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What does Zendaya have on Hollywood filmmakers that they keep casting her in almost every major upcoming movie?
She plays the same character every time. And no hate to her, but her acting range is limited.
Despite years in the industry, can anyone name even one scene from any of her movies where she delivered a truly outstanding performance?
So why do they keep choosing her over other talented actresses?


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@HazelAppleyard The sister was horrible for making the kid feel bad about taking more food. But under no circumstances would I invite my kid to do as she pleases in someone else's house - even her aunt's. I would always ask first, I'd teach my child the same manners.
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@greendragonhq So Benny The Thumb here, thinks it would have been ok to m*rder the poor man if he'd got into the country the 'wrong' way? That's still f'd up.
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@Maxtheairbnbguy I think it's a pretty normal response from the guy, he's not being avoidant IMO. After the umpteenth time of trying to reassure the anxious party, it will exhaust anyone.
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Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Dynamic❤️🩹
Nothing new to see there. Just the classic dance between the anxiously attached and their avoidant partner. Same topic I have been touching on for weeks now.
The anxiously attached person is insatiable. Because their nervous system is wired to scan for threat constantly. They need reassurance the way a plant needs water. It is not a preference. It is survival. They ask questions not to annoy, but to soothe. They seek closeness not to suffocate, but to feel safe. And when they do not get the response they need, they ask again, louder, more urgently, hoping that this time the answer will finally calm the alarm bells ringing in their chest.
They will ask things like, are we okay? Did I do something wrong? Why are you being quiet? Do you still love me? Are you sure? Why have not you replied? Are you mad at me? What are you thinking? Tell me what is going on in your head. Is there someone else? Am I too much? Do you need space? How much space? When will you come back? Do you actually want to be with me? Are you just tolerating me?
And each question feels valid in the moment. Each question feels like the one that will finally unlock the peace they are desperate for. But the answer never fully satisfies, because the anxiety is not really about the answer. It is about the fear behind the question. The fear of abandonment. The fear of not being enough. The fear that this person they love will eventually realize they are too much and leave.
On the other side, the avoidant partner hears these questions and feels suffocated. They experience them not as bids for connection, but as demands, as criticism, as evidence that they are failing. Their instinct is to retreat, to shut down, to create distance so they can breathe. They love their partner, but the intensity feels overwhelming.

Zidyep Osborn@ZidyepO
We’ve become so used to validating one person’s emotions that we forget the other person has a breaking point too. He sounds stressed and emotionally burnt out he simply doesn’t have the bandwidth for another emotional roller coaster nau. That man wants some peace 🤦🏾♀️
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@ShegunTweets The original 1988 Dutch/French version was heartstopping.
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@OloriOfOloris I'm someone who needs reassurance and this guy's response is fine. Comes a point you can't keep insisting other people soothe you, and you just have to regulate your own emotions.
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