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@kronikcurtis @lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT If she keeps having sex out of love, with out "being filled" with love she will fade away over time.

@kronikcurtis @lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT Side bar... Most women do not feel loved by sex, sex is where we come together to express that overfill together. Sex is the end of that cycle not the start. If she isn't interested but loves you her tank may be empty. We are filled with love then want sex.

Dear men, As a general rule, if you make sex enjoyable for your wife, she will want more of it. There are exceptions to the rule, (trauma histories, medical issues, intimacy breakdowns, etc), but broadly speaking, this is a good place to start. If she knows you’re approaching sex as something to which you are entitled as opposed to an opportunity to bless, it’s probably not going to inspire feelings of romance.

@kronikcurtis @lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT Unfortunately sometimes neither party know what they need. It is a road worth the bumpy travel on if people are willing.

@kronikcurtis @lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT I think men and women are giving love but not knowing what the other needs to feel loved. It's true intimacy to learn that.

@kronikcurtis @lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT Agreed, Same goes for the wife :)

@Eowyn_the_Fair @lorddarrin @jujubenby @KaeleyT Lol I get you

Yours is one of the most measured responses I have seen. People also seem to have difficulty figuring out the difference between just being passively not super interested in something, like I don't feel like eating Chinese tonight. Hand comma being actively opposed Two or disgusted by something period Like I cannot stand steamed okra Lol It is so gross and sticky. But fried might be okay. You could convince me to eat Chinese food if I wasn't in the mood, and probably would enjoy it once I was actually at the restaurant and eating it. There is zero chance of you convincing me that the weird sticky okra is good no matter what LOL

@Eowyn_the_Fair @lorddarrin @jujubenby @KaeleyT I don't think most men know their wives enough to know the difference. Same honestly can be said for wives to husband. People arnt taught how to be married anymore.

@kronikcurtis @lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT Study your wife. Oftentimes women show love how they feel loved :) friendly and kind doesn't mean I feel seen and loved 😍

@Redeyewithcream @lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT This is not accurate. Love and passion are completely different things. You can be loving, supportive, happy laughing and united. And passion can still drain away…. you can lead a horse to water, but that won’t make it love you passionately. 🤣 Sex ≠love ≠ passion

@lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT If there is an issue in the marriage ( wife is pulling away) the man should take lead and suggest a time of fasting from sex and come together in prayer to resolve the problem. It's about union not release. Bible teaches self control for a reason even in marriage.

@Eowyn_the_Fair @Redeyewithcream @jujubenby @KaeleyT I’m not talking about that though, and never suggested such. Yes men owe that to their wives. They are commanded to do so. And we are commanded to be fruitful and not deny one another. That means we have a duty that goes beyond our desires.

@lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT Gratification*

@lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT If you only focus on the sex or not getting it you're not doing it to be one with your wife. Maybe self control ( fruit of the spirit) is lacking in the marriage. Sex is for unity not for self gratif8

@lorddarrin @Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT If your wife doesn't want sex in a loving relationship it's a relationship problem thats to be dealt with. Men are to lead and love their wives. Men do not understand what loving their wife means anymore. Sex is a union not a right. A wife who feels loved will want to be intimate

@Eowyn_the_Fair @jujubenby @KaeleyT It seems to be, especially in the context of her other posts and replies. She does not agree with 1 Corinthians 7

@lorddarrin @KaeleyT You are called to love your wife first... Sex is a union of love and peak togetherness You are called and demanded by God to love her first... If she feels unloved she doesn't want sex. It's a union not an excuse to get off whenever you want.

@KaeleyT You can place any fake label on it that you want. But what it definitionally is called is sin.

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@KILLTOPARTY She needs to feel loved not just feel lusted after. Eventually it feels like our bodies are just used for men to get off versus intimate connection... Remind her she's more than just sex to you. She doesn't feel the connections so the sexual advances feel bad. Know your wife

You hate your husband and you married him to exploit his resources 🥂

@asonflower Except in accordance with Satan, since he's called the light bearer/ bringer.

Light always wins.

"Needed for baptism"

@Alicia_Bittle_ When every kiss feels like it's bc they are only doing it just to get sex... we feel it.

@Alicia_Bittle_ Women know when they're being used for a man to get off habitually versus a mutual act that they build together. Sex is the end not the beginning of that connection, taking place all day everyday. Men stop initiating their connection with their wife and just seek sex.

This is what happens when women grow up hearing that sex isn’t a need. Its a typical problem of couples who view sex as purely physical