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From my DM. Good evening sir, I met a man through one of your posts last year, where ladies were asked to post their pictures. We later met in person at a wedding and started dating in January this year. He is 33 years old, and I am 27. Throughout the relationship, our major issue was that I often felt he didn't give me enough attention. Whenever we argued, I usually ended up being blamed, so I was almost always the one apologizing. From the beginning, I was completely honest with him. I told him that I am asthmatic, and he also knew that I had cataracts. Last Tuesday, I visited him. As I was about to leave, I jokingly asked what name he had saved my number under. I called him from my number and realized he hadn't saved it. I then asked about my second line. He forcefully collected the phone from me. I playfully crossed my leg over his and tried to take his phone from his pocket. He became very angry. I immediately realized my mistake and started apologizing, but he dragged me out of his house. From that Tuesday until Saturday, I kept begging him to forgive me. I called, sent messages, asked my friends, and his friend, and even my mother to plead with him, but he ignored me completely. On Saturday, I decided to go to his house. I waited for about four hours and even sent him a message, which he read but didn't reply to. Later, I saw him near the park and went to meet him. He was upset that I had come. We went to a bar, and he asked me to say what I wanted. I begged him not to give up on the relationship because I truly wanted us to work things out. Instead, he simply told me to go home. I asked him to give me a clear answer about whether the relationship was over, but he refused to say yes or no. He only warned me not to come to his house again. Despite that, I still went to wait for him at his house. I knelt down crying and begging for another chance, but he said he had dealt with women like me before. He dragged me on the ground and forced me to leave, yet I was still pleading with him. On Monday, I was in severe body pain and out of anger and hurt, I cursed him. I later apologized for doing that and still asked him to forgive me. Yesterday, after another argument, he finally spoke. He called me 'a semi-blind lady' and 'an asthmatic patient trying to hook herself on him.' He also accused me of lying about him being the first man I had slept with. I told him I had no reason to lie because I had been honest with him about everything from the beginning. When I told my sister and friends what happened, they became angry and started insulting him, but I begged them to stop because I didn't want things to get worse. Deep down, I know the relationship is probably over. I even created another WhatsApp account just to send him one final message, asking if we could part peacefully instead of ending things with so much bitterness. I'm sharing this because I genuinely want an honest opinion. Do you think this relationship can still be saved, or is it time for me to accept that it's over and move on? I really hope I get a reply from you. 🙏 AJD.

I have never seen anyone urinating on the streets, in corners, or in bushes in England. Why is Nigeria now different?

“They have been dating for 8 years. She did 7 ab0rtions for him. He beats her, but has money. Now, he wants to dump her. But she insists that either they marry or he ‘settles’.” What are your thoughts?✍️