@_McLovin2000@ShavaKadzi@tjubistar My mom holds zero accountability for her marriage deteriorating. There are no lessons to be taught from someone who refuses reality.
@RyCJack30@ShavaKadzi@tjubistar You can take her lessons so that yours also doesn't fail, mothers lessons are important in life as you can learn from the good and the bad. Yes, listen to other men on how to be a man but also listen to your mother as she's the first and most important female in your life
Divorce content on TikTok really kills me 😂
So your man left you because you got too comfortable and let yourself go and now you decide to “glow up” after the divorce and then blame him for it 😂
Why couldn’t you do all of that while you were married ?
You actively chose to not give your husband the best version of yourself.
@bullyman954@qmoniiii@RockkStarrrrr Potential fixes for that:
1.) Suck it up, you made a commitment to this person "Until death do us part."
2.) Learn to love them again, you did it once, do it again.
@ShavaKadzi@_dopeboysdiary I agree, however if I am the sole breadwinner and work 10 hours to keep us afloat as the sole earner, I expect my wife to hold down the house more.
I need to take out the trash or mow the lawn? Cool, I got it. I need to cook dinner after breaking my back all day? Nah girl.
@_dopeboysdiary Making time is very possible in an equitable marriage were both Mom and Dad work and household labour is also divided rationally. If everything is on the woman, it's very unsustainable and unrealistic.
@ShavaKadzi@tjubistar Male raised by a single mom here.
Why would I listen to my mom about marriage? Hers failed. Why would I take advice from her about how to be a man? She's not a man.
If I need advice as a man, I ask a man. If you need advice as a woman, you ask a woman.
@tjubistar I wish more mothers have frank conversation with their boy children regarding marriage. When will a mother of multiple get the time to keep up at gym when she has to put everyone first and herself last? His argument stands if she has helpers and the children have tutors etc.
@thecanteenbar@AmensBurner@DCLTheThird@NycVipers If you Google Robert Parish and his career, it's actually the first thing everyone brings up, genuinely what the fuck are you talking about, you genuinely are just making shit up.
@thecanteenbar@AmensBurner@DCLTheThird@NycVipers People openly talk about Robert Parish's longevity every time he's brought up in discussion, he just isn't brought up often because he's overshadowed by a ton of different centers in league history.
The one and only thing people attribute to Parish is just how long he played.
@Schlumpyontrack@TheRedGoner Y'all are genuinely affected by a random stranger having not completed the game in the way that YOU have determined to be correct.
That is genuinely childish behavior. Y'all are childish.
@Schlumpyontrack@TheRedGoner Okay but why does that bother you? YOU experienced the game how YOU wanted and I experienced it how I wanted.
The point I'm making and y'all keep reaffirming is that you can't fathom people just enjoying shit the way they want and it's just strange.
@RyCJack30@TheRedGoner The other guy is right, it's like starting a normal game and finishing chapter 1 of 3 and leaving it there; the story continues after that ending, more story, Even more characters to play and new zones, u didnt even reach the half of it
@hyIianscarlet@TheRedGoner And yet I enjoyed it all the same 🤷♀️ Play on your own terms, not what community members, Twitter nerds or devs decided is how you should enjoy a game
@Newt_Chaos@LLATV_BEATS@kurisu_armpit@95__Bash If you put Twitter down and realize that it's a very small, VERY loud group of community members, you'll notice how incorrect that statement is on most topics.
@RyCJack30@LLATV_BEATS@kurisu_armpit@95__Bash Every type of media and fandom is so fragmented and separated at this point, is there even really a "general consumer" anymore anyway?
@TheStrxggler Because it hurts your little feefees. Young people do it because y'all are so sensitive that you give them the reaction they're looking for.
I will never understand the youth's need to say the past sucks when they live in a cultural wasteland because the people making stuff now didn't learn the right lessons from past media and backed by greedy corpos.
It was considered a golden age for a reason.