TK

My wife has the unlock code for my phone. I have hers as well. We never asked for each other's codes in a moment of distrust. The information was just exchanged in our every day lives. I was in the pool one day and asked her to call someone to see when they were coming over and her phone was dead. I told her my code. I got her code in a similar fashion. We don't share phones universally, but if a phone or tablet is on the counter and we need to use it, regardless of whose it is, we open it up and use it. I just found out this was controversial yesterday. She texted my friend back from my phone. My friend talked to me later and was FREAKED OUT I let her have my pass code. What are people doing on their phones? It's not like she's some random girl I picked up at a club for the night.

im glad for you guys. But you just opened a process for which guys are now going to be very skeptical about women. But because you are a woman, you dont really know what you have done. In fact you blamed a man for being from this point on skeptical. Again you opened a can of worms you did not want to. Congrats.

Marriage is done and monogamy is dead.