Sam Tarvc

Divorce is hard on men. But sometimes, it’s a hidden blessing. You learn that the things you thought could break you… can’t. If I survived it, you can survive it. If I can thrive after it, so can you. I write so no man has to walk through this alone.

@nickimoraa Hint: it’s because she’s the problem.

btw abandoning your friend who’s in an abusive relationship because you need to “protect your energy” and “establish boundaries” and you “can’t respect her choices” is EXACTLY what the abuser relies on. we are in an empathy recession.

@AdamLaneSmith Some people are worth explaining. Others are not. Save the energy.

You don’t owe anyone an explanation. If you choose to give one, understand that the people demanding your explanation are looking for weakness to exploit, not mutual understanding.

@whatever They don’t even try to deny it

Is Brian Atlas SPOT ON about feminism and the oppression myth?!

@aruvinchan Hell naw brother. In my experience, Asians are. Ones that are less westernized.

In my experience, Latinas are the least gold-digging race of women out there. Yes, they might still care about money. But in comparison to Asians, whites, and especially blacks, they're saints.

@Schwarzenegger This post is enough to replace studies. The goat has spoken, y’all listen up.

I will ask the team to find some studies for the newsletter. But I can tell you from experience: it doesn’t work. When I was winning powerlifting contests and bodybuilding contests, we had max days, but we earned them with a lot of normal work days in between,

@guideforlovers Hit her emotionality and a man can get away with murder.

Women are only rational with men they don’t like

@123ILLState @KILLTOPARTY Fact 💯

@SamTarvc @KILLTOPARTY The crazy thing is, she would probably love him more. They love a dude with boundaries, or they don’t then NEXT.

This is what it looks like when a man marries for romance and a woman marries for practicality

@dontfollow7575 @luxemiaa Ok tough guy/simp

@SamTarvc @luxemiaa No you’re just being a pussy.

Why do men not understand that home cooked meals and indoor dates happen after we have a relationship established? NOT A FIRST COUPLE OF DATE WTF?

@aruvinchan The keyword is “now”. She used to date around. She’s done being used and would like to settle down. Dude dodged a bullet.

This "dating intentionally" shit is the worst nonsense to have ever infested the modern dating market.

@Shadaya_Knight That’s why scams go undetected for so long. People are too embarrassed to expose them.

It's only when you're explaining how you got scammed that you realize you are somehow stupid.

@dontfollow7575 @luxemiaa Just following her logic

@SamTarvc @luxemiaa Stay single Sam.

@KILLTOPARTY Guy needs to trust his instincts. None of this, “well technically she’s not wrong.”

OH, THAT KIND OF SUCKS

@Ambar_SIFF_MRA It’s exhausting to be with someone like that

She went from “You are not my type” to “I am your type” in a matter of seconds

@hy_wemmy We’re giving the bear a turn to ask you out.

@aruvinchan At some point you can tell when she’s lying. And her lying should put her even further from being a long term prospect.

This is why I don't even bother asking a girl about her body count. I'm a body count agnostic, meaning I accept that it's unknowable. I just assume that it's high anyway, whatever number she says is a lie, and I act accordingly. You never lose if you just assume it's high.

@BrianAtlas The guy is confused because it’s something he would never do to her — spending Valentine’s Day without her. The girl is confused because it’s something she would never do — spending Valentine’s Day without him paying. Empathy vs selfishness

@GiaMMacool I disagree. Only minority of men encourages sexual liberation. Those at the top SMV Those in control who want financial gain. Why wouldn’t the average man prefer less hypergamy and less disloyalty in women?

Men encouraged sexual liberation let’s not forget that. Now that women are being rewarded for sexual freedom, men are mad. They’re mad because the dog got off the leash and men aren’t in control anymore. Blaming women for everything is a cope and just outsourcing personal responsibility.

@heavensbvnny How about you being responsible for your own emotions? The more you’re trying to control a man, the less satisfying your life will be. Trust.

You're supposed to make other girls jealous of your woman, not make your woman jealous of other girls. Read that again until it makes permanent residence in your brain. She is not insecure for being bothered by your behavior with other women. She is not controlling, she is not dramatic, and she is not overreacting. She is a woman who chose you, committed to you, and gave you her trust, and all she is asking is that you protect it. When you are overly friendly, overly available, and overly attentive to other women, you are not being nice, you are being careless with the heart of the woman who gave you hers. And here is what most men fail to understand. Your woman should be the one other girls look at and think he really loves her. She should feel so secure, so chosen, so prioritized that no other woman could ever make her flinch.