sweetesttaboo 🇵🇸

“short-term relationship, open to long” you are 30

The experience of love is more important than the possibility of loss.

Me when a song by R Kelly or Sjava comes on

i bring a sort of “none of this means anything” vibe to the workplace that no one there appreciates

i am nothing without feminism.

Don’t give niggas the benefit of the doubt. Doubt the benefit of niggas FRFR

when you’re in love life should expand! if it gets smaller and scarier you may be in captivity

Shout out to all the childless women from 20-39 WE ARE NOW THE MAJORITY 🎉

No man should be contacting you past 10pm. The sun has gone down, banks are closed and so is the mall.

I know it’s nippy in Johannesburg but please don’t bring out the coats and boots yet. We need to learn how to dress for transitional weather. A jersey, a trench, jackets, knit sets, tracksuits. And switch that heater off!

pray for iran. pray for palestine. pray for yemen. pray for syria. pray for lebanon. pray for every country that has been bombed and desecrated by the settler state.

I love a woman with a loud ass laugh. I love a cackle. I love a guffaw. Love when a girl laughs so hard it scares the dog. Be unapologetic in your joy

My aunt got a divorce and I asked how she felt and she said "I thought I had an anxiety disorder but it turns out it was just your uncle" .....so iconic😭😭

people who don't understand intersectionality at this point truly irritate me. yes there is privilege in being a man even if you're black. yes there is privilege in being white even if you're queer. literally basics man

The horrors persist but so do books, iced coffee, sunsets, trees, the word ‘fuck’, and the sea.

Homophobia, racism and transphobia don’t count as a difference of opinion, you are just a bad person

centuries of women before me have yearned to taste the freedom i get to experience nowadays by being able to say no to marriage/children and choose my own path with full agency, and i will never take that for granted. they live through me

Some of y’all are healing 24/7 like it’s a damn job. Friend…GO OUTSIDE. Dance, laugh, kiss somebody. Experience LIFE. Healing is the bridge to living fully, not an excuse to sit in self-improvement purgatory forever.

If there’s one person’s success I’m betting on, it’s Jade Tootla. What a beautiful, kind, talented woman!