Sam McGregor - Social Skills Coach

The guy squatting? That's my client @sopranosax4444 When he went to the gym before, finding a spotter was a Herculean task But he went through my 5 friends in 5 weeks program and met 20 people, mostly at the gym Now? Finding a spotter to set PRs with is a breeze. Now instead of holding back at the gym, he lifts Herculean weights But making friends is so much more than that If you want to Meet anyone, anywhere Have 0 nerves talking to new people Walk into any room, anywhere, and walk out knowing everyone Then check the first comment

@zulu_brah Wait, you're telling me that attraction works the same between secular and religious people? Say it ain't so!

“They often pursue very attractive non-Orthodox women…rather than seriously courting the faithful Orthodox women already here” Lmao!

@UnseenPathways Btw I help men learn how to do this, like I did

I’m late to this but one factor no one mentions is that so many of the people coming are autistic or “autistic-presenting” terminally online types. The young guys need older guys to model how to have a conversation. They need their morale boosted. They need community tbh.

@celestiumart Great book btw, there's video of me reading it religiously at some hot springs

Modern dating scene has infiltrated the Church. There’s issues between men and women but it’s so easy to just blame men for everything these days. We need to start holding more women accountable and help them realize that marriage, love, and children are good. We build each other up, that’s how God intended it to be. That means you may not always start off at the top and we shouldn’t expect someone to be to marry them. These symptoms are part of a greater spiritual sickness that needs to be healed not only within America but also the Church as well. I have been reading St. John Chrystoms book on Marriage and Family Life since I’m getting married soon and it’s tragic to see that modern dating and marriage have been reduced to a contract with outrageous stipulations. What happened to wanting to build or being happy to be with someone, even if they don’t check off all boxes, and building with them?

@BeckyTheChicken Yes actually, and I plan to support my soon to be wife in this regard

Let’s just go back to the Old Testament postpartum rules. Nobody touch me or anything I touch for the first 7 or 14 days (depending on if I had a boy or girl) and then don’t expect me to be at church for the first 40 or 80 days. How about that.

@bebookled Yes actually. There's a bunch of good stuff in leviticus people don't read

Unironically think the Bible sets a great example for monthly cycle/postpartum rest periods, and we should heed the wisdom of it

@benzeneburger Idk how it is in India but what does this have to do with America?

fuck being a feminist we are going full on misandrist now

@wil_da_beast630 Every time

@wrowclif @ThatDarned "You can't legislate morality" What's a speed limit and why does it exist?

@ThatDarned I don't think you can legislate morality. I think many people are far too quick to divorce. But I think that's a cultural issue far more than a legal one.

I think we're past it, friends.

@wrowclif He doesn't promise us marriage nor a partner

@SpeechWrx I mean, whatever you guys are on about isn't about salvation, but you also have to realize that you're no different from a whore in God's eyes and still He promises you these things.

You really have to think long and hard about the idea that there are no depths you could sink to that God would not still desire your salvation. That's a hell of a hard saying.

@wrowclif Yep, and now you gaslight an entire generation Because this is the world young men grew up in, and we observe it

@SpeechWrx That's just not a world that has ever existed. You're deluding yourselves thinking that was ever a thing.

Realized something. I know we're all sick of this but I still think about it. A hundred people have repeated this "Men have responsibility without AUTHORITY" line to me by now. Realized what they actually mean is, "We want responsibility without liability" Don't work that way.

Then I will restate it Young men do not trust those in authority to give them responsibility AND the tools needed to see it to completion, which is a definition of good leadership. Instead, we expect the rug to get pulled out from under us and to be set up for failure, then blamed for failing. Thus, we want hard assurance, with legal backing, that we will have the authority and support of those in authority before we take the responsibility. This will be tested in small ways before full commitment.

@SpeechWrx Well, if you guys insist on being actively retarded, which makes it very difficult for me.

@rob_avis_ramble Wow the patriarchal oppression in this photo is unbearable, it's like facing a nuclear bomb head on psychologically You should delete this (post moar)

Good morning. It’s BAU around here with Avis slaving over the stove cooking me breakfast, same as she has most mornings for the last 30+ years. After this she will pretty much spend the rest of the day doing whatever she wants until we go to the gym together later this afternoon once I’m done with what I need to get done today - such oppression for both of us. -R

@macaron_luver @honorablesaint Correct! But we understand this and are honest about it, and have ways of working with it The opposite is true in the other direction

@SpeechWrx @honorablesaint i dont see men lining up to date women they arent attracted to

I read this but I’m sorry, it’s painfully obvious what the answer is. There was a woman named Anna who is a Catholic on here that went viral. She had a tweet praying God to give her a husband and come to her in Church. Guess what? A man came up and courted her. Asked her for her number. But she was mortified and then later said it wasn’t the guy she wanted. I wonder what that means? Reading your writing here I was expecting a unique perspective. Then it landed. The reasons why shows the top thing as….physical attractiveness. That’s the reason right there. They aren’t physically attracted to them. Women are very selective, especially today. Even if the guys are autistic, the women will all go after the same guys they find attractive. Religion doesn’t change that issue.

@ChrisGalanek @WonderWomaNinja @Toneskeee @farmingandJesus Can confirm

@WonderWomaNinja Here are a couple of accounts who can vouch for me 😳 @Toneskeee @SpeechWrx @farmingandJesus

What’s nice about deleting my account and now coming back is I know where to start and who to follow. Y’all don’t disappoint! Glad that you’re still here.

@UnkleKruncle @honorablesaint Indeed, this is the case! All I'm doing is point out how many people have their head in the sand

@SpeechWrx @honorablesaint I want to blackpill but you don't deserve it. Remember, always remember that Mary was without sin, and God proved this by coming to Her to be a Mother to His Son. Mary was good. There can be Goodness in them!

@timrwild So are you going to actually do something or just complain about how men suck?

Apparently guys are scared of getting married because “what if she ruins my life and takes all my money?” That’s just a skill issue. Like, you can just not marry someone who’s gonna ruin your life and take your money. If you’re worried about those things, that’s a you problem.

@MariKHdzArts @CaudilloNuclear 😉

@SpeechWrx @CaudilloNuclear These are just some of the small things I can think off at the top of my head. There’s too many to choose from.

Ladies, What are small things you admire about the man you are with?

@timrwild Which is how you have a nation collapse

@SpeechWrx No one is forcing men to marry women.